u/Stunning_Stretch33

I'm socially anxious. I crush on a guy in work and there's good chemistry between us.

I sense he also is interested but is also very shy. He does try small talk to me, always nearby me. But I cannot be myself in work, surrounded by everyone.

It's draining my energy. I wish he'd just text me and ask me out for a walk or something outside of work 🙃

Any tips?

I've a big crush on a cancerian guy and he seems very sensitive. I'm a scorpio with mars in cancer, so sensitive too! I also tend to feel other peoples emotions so deeply. Maybe its my Pisces rising.

We're both very single, a long time. I'm very cautious of dating and feel the crush is too.

Have any cancerians any insight? How do you feel when you have a crush? Do yo7 follow your intuition alot? Do you guys overthink everything? Do you dream of your future?

Do you get deep into your emotions sometimes and get bogged down with love interests or potential dates?

Or do you generally just stay put in reality and be practical and strategic with dating? That last concept feels foreign to me, I'm such a daydreamer.

And sometimes detached. Avoiding and/or cold.

I'm a Scorpio (f) with cancerian mars and I do this! Its frustrating.

Even if I like and want someone I tend to avoid and rationalise it.

I even end up ignoring a crush. Do cancerians do this too?

Avoid and self sabotage from fear of the unknowns? Or for fear of heartbreak/upset or rejection?

Cancerian men - I just have to ask... All into kissing ass, pegging, being submissive, wearing panties, being the b*tch?

And other freaky kinks? Or does it depend on other placements. Be honest please 🙌🏻

Hi guys, any insight would be appreciated.

I have moon and venus 1° apart in 9th house in Sagittarius.

I also have Northnode and MC in Sagittarius too.

I'm pursing teaching as its always been a dream of mine. But I took a detour and the longer route.

Has anyone any insight into these 4 placements in the 9th house? Thanks.

Sagittarius venus in the 9th house, conjucnt my Sag moon 1°.

Also have North node and MC in Sagittarius too.

I'm definitely sensitive in love. Enjoy my comforts. But that could be my mars in cancer. Any insight to these placements? Thanks in advance. ✨️

I enjoy the positives of cancerian energy - the warmth, the homemaking.

But the moodiness makes me anxiously attached - like I need to fix everything and that doesn't align with me anymore. I am scorpio sun with mars in cancer. We do mesh well, other than the moodiness.

When I was younger, I dated 2 different cancerian men. When angry - they were both so hurtful it shocked me. Are they very insecure? I can be, but not so mean about it.

The first one was a situationship and it was ALL about his needs & his needs only. After some time, he did try to make a better effort but when I didnt want to he said things like 'I hope you're single forever' because he was so butthurt? I mean, I accepted most vulnerable parts of him, he was into freaky stuff and selfish!

The second guy was similar, much sweeter and more considerate but moody as heck and childish when didnt get his own way... got very nasty towards me one time, I was younger and said the wrong things. He broke up saying 'I was using him for his money' I genuinely hadnt thought anything of the sort! He still lived with his parents (as did I) he did have a better job than me but I was floored. Haha.

Im not slating canerian guys with this post. I do enjoy their energy and feel compatibility there. But, how do you spot ones that have done the work to be considerate of their partners feelings and needs in difficult times? Who are less self centred and vindictive?

The guy thats currently interested in dating lives at home and is building on that land. I don't want a repeat of the past. Thank you for any insight. 🙏🏻

Apart from the obvious loyalty, kindness...What do cancerian men want/like/need in a relationship?

I understand that also depends on moon/venus etc. But generally speaking - What do you guys need/want most of all? TIA

I work with a cancerian guy and he's gorgeous. I've felt connected to him since day one.

Anyway, we played cat & mouse for too long. I stopped as it was hurting me.

He'd flirt with other girls in front of me etc. but hadnt the balls to talk to me.. So, I stopped showing interest.

He then ramped his interest up! Confusing me further. Just energy, gazes, hovering, eye contact, telling his friend he likes me.

After some time I was just plain frustrated by him, so ignored him. His long stares and attention arent conversation starters. (He obviously took this as a rejection). And started avoiding me...

He was off work all week, back today, looking incredible, might I add! He was at the water station beside my desk, my friend told me he was there, so i turned around and he just stared...directly into my heart 😂

He mirrors me, shows intense interest, then avoids. Wtheck?

I'm scorpio female... can be intimidating. But im tired of mind games and wasting time, not knowing how he feels. Surely if he wanted to, he would.

Is this normal behaviour for cancerian guys? Or should I just call it a day!