u/These-Survey3641

I want to finally dump my iPhone and get that Chinese beauty 😍

Er zieht halt deutlich besser als der Standard RWD, aber dafür 8 TEUR? Krieg ich das einigermaßen beim Verkauf irgendwann wieder raus?

Hi,

I am coming from Apple and leaning heavily into getting the Find x10 Pro when released.
Oppo ticks all the hardware bpxes for me like an amazing camera and long battery life.

However, I love the stock clean Pixel look and I already got an Honor MagicPad 4 which I customized with Lawnchair and M3 widgets and I love it.

Now I have read that Color OS is not really usable with thirf party launchers because of losing gestures, getting delays etc.

Is there any possibility to come near the stock Pixel look without any trade offs?

Coming from Apple, searching for a watch that lets me pay contactless with Google Pay.

Should be small since I got small wrists.

Based in Europe, OnePlus is withdrawing here.
Thank you

Website angepasst und Leasingraten hochgegangen

Based in Germany

Assalamu alaikum everyone,

I would really appreciate some sincere Islamic advice because I feel torn between my responsibility towards my mother and my responsibility towards my own marriage and future.

My father passed away, may Allah have mercy on him. Since then, my mother has been living with my sister. My mother understandably does not want to leave my sister alone, and our family hopes that my sister will eventually get married.

However, my sister and I unfortunately have a very difficult relationship for personal reasons that I do not want to share publicly.
We often argue when we see each other. She also repeatedly compares our incomes and tells me that she earns much more than I do and that I am not on her financial level. We both earn good salaries, but she earns more.
Because my mother lives with her, I understand that my mother is naturally closer to her situation and tries to understand her point of view. I do not blame my mother for that, but sometimes I feel that she is caught between us.

My mother receives a widow’s pension. She might also qualify for additional financial support related to housing if she were living alone, but because she lives in the same household as my sister, the household income affects her eligibility. My sister is also financially independent and earns a good income.

Now my mother is asking me to give her around €300–400 every month. Alhamdulillah, I earn a good salary, but I have also recently bought an apartment as a long-term investment for my future. I am married, and while my wife works, I earn significantly more and therefore cover most of our household expenses. I have also bought a larger car because we hope to start a family in the coming years.

I am not trying to avoid helping my mother. During my father’s illness, I spent a significant amount of money on treatments and other expenses. After his death, I also paid various fees and costs. I did all of this willingly for my father and family, and I would help again if needed.

However, a fixed payment of €300–400 every month would make it very difficult for me to save or build financial security for my wife, future children, and our future. I am also worried that if I simply transfer money every month, I may not know how it is being used, and I am concerned that some of it could indirectly benefit my sister. Because of our relationship, I would strongly prefer to avoid that.

Would it be Islamically acceptable for me to support my mother in other ways instead? For example, I could pay for larger necessary purchases, buy things she needs, pay for groceries, cover specific bills, or help whenever she has an actual financial need. I would still be supporting her, but in a way that is transparent and financially manageable for me.

My mother is not without income, and she has housing and support through living with my sister. At the same time, I know that caring for one’s mother is a serious responsibility in Islam, especially after the death of one’s father. I do not want to be selfish or neglect her rights.

Am I wrong for feeling that a fixed monthly payment of €300–400 is too much for me at this stage of my life? Is it reasonable to offer direct support and pay for specific needs instead, while still protecting my marriage, future family, and ability to save?

Please be honest with me. I am not looking for people to simply agree with me. If I am falling short of my Islamic responsibility, I genuinely want to understand and correct myself.
JazakAllahu khairan.

Based in Germany

Assalamu alaikum everyone,

I would really appreciate some sincere Islamic advice because I feel torn between my responsibility towards my mother and my responsibility towards my own marriage and future.

My father passed away, may Allah have mercy on him. Since then, my mother has been living with my sister. My mother understandably does not want to leave my sister alone, and our family hopes that my sister will eventually get married.

However, my sister and I unfortunately have a very difficult relationship for personal reasons that I do not want to share publicly.
We often argue when we see each other. She also repeatedly compares our incomes and tells me that she earns much more than I do and that I am not on her financial level. We both earn good salaries, but she earns more.
Because my mother lives with her, I understand that my mother is naturally closer to her situation and tries to understand her point of view. I do not blame my mother for that, but sometimes I feel that she is caught between us.

My mother receives a widow’s pension. She might also qualify for additional financial support related to housing if she were living alone, but because she lives in the same household as my sister, the household income affects her eligibility. My sister is also financially independent and earns a good income.

Now my mother is asking me to give her around €300–400 every month. Alhamdulillah, I earn a good salary, but I have also recently bought an apartment as a long-term investment for my future. I am married, and while my wife works, I earn significantly more and therefore cover most of our household expenses. I have also bought a larger car because we hope to start a family in the coming years.

I am not trying to avoid helping my mother. During my father’s illness, I spent a significant amount of money on treatments and other expenses. After his death, I also paid various fees and costs. I did all of this willingly for my father and family, and I would help again if needed.

However, a fixed payment of €300–400 every month would make it very difficult for me to save or build financial security for my wife, future children, and our future. I am also worried that if I simply transfer money every month, I may not know how it is being used, and I am concerned that some of it could indirectly benefit my sister. Because of our relationship, I would strongly prefer to avoid that.

Would it be Islamically acceptable for me to support my mother in other ways instead? For example, I could pay for larger necessary purchases, buy things she needs, pay for groceries, cover specific bills, or help whenever she has an actual financial need. I would still be supporting her, but in a way that is transparent and financially manageable for me.

My mother is not without income, and she has housing and support through living with my sister. At the same time, I know that caring for one’s mother is a serious responsibility in Islam, especially after the death of one’s father. I do not want to be selfish or neglect her rights.

Am I wrong for feeling that a fixed monthly payment of €300–400 is too much for me at this stage of my life? Is it reasonable to offer direct support and pay for specific needs instead, while still protecting my marriage, future family, and ability to save?

Please be honest with me. I am not looking for people to simply agree with me. If I am falling short of my Islamic responsibility, I genuinely want to understand and correct myself.
JazakAllahu khairan.

Ich würde mich über eine möglichst objektive Einschätzung freuen.

Zu mir:
33 Jahre
83.000 € Brutto/Jahr
15.000 km/Jahr
Geld, das nicht im Auto steckt, würde investiert werden.
1. BMW Z4 G29 (bereits bezahlt)
Marktwert ca. 33.000 €
8,5 l/100 km
Super Plus: 1,90 €/l
Versicherung: ca. 850 €/Jahr
Steuer: ca. 200 €/Jahr
Laufende Kosten/Jahr:
Benzin: ca. 2.423 €
Versicherung + Steuer: ca. 1.050 €
= ca. 3.473 €/Jahr (ohne Wartung, Reparaturen und Wertverlust)

2. Tesla Model 3 Long Range AWD Leasing
36 Monate / 15.000 km
576 €/Monat inkl. Versicherung
Laden ausschließlich am Supercharger (0,43 €/kWh)
THG-Prämie ca. 200 €/Jahr
Praktisch wartungsfrei während der Leasingzeit
Kosten/Jahr:
Leasing inkl. Versicherung: 6.912 €
Strom: ca. 1.032 €
THG: −200 €
= ca. 7.744 €/Jahr

3. Polestar 2 Auto-Abo
606 €/Monat
Versicherung, Wartung, Verschleiß, Zulassung, Überführung und sämtliche Nebenkosten inklusive
Nur Strom kommt noch hinzu
Kapital bleibt ebenfalls investiert
Kosten/Jahr:
Abo: 7.272 €
Strom: ca. 1.032 €
= ca. 8.304 €/Jahr

Meine Gedanken:
Mir ist bewusst, dass beim Z4 noch Wertverlust und Opportunitätskosten des gebundenen Kapitals hinzukommen.
Beim Tesla und Polestar bleibt das Kapital investiert.
Leasing und Abo haben für mich außerdem den Vorteil, dass ich wegen der aktuell schnellen Entwicklung bei E-Autos in 1 bzw. 3 Jahren flexibel bin und nicht das Risiko trage, ein Fahrzeug mit möglicherweise starkem Wertverlust zu besitzen.

Wie würdet ihr das finanzmathematisch bewerten? Ist der bereits bezahlte Z4 trotz gebundenem Kapital klar die wirtschaftlichste Lösung oder können Leasing bzw. Auto-Abo unter Berücksichtigung aller Faktoren sinnvoller sein?

Mich hat das Tesla Fieber gepackt und deshalb frage ich euch was ihr mir empfehlen würdet.

Ich würde mich über eine möglichst objektive Einschätzung freuen.

Zu mir:
33 Jahre
83.000 € Brutto/Jahr
15.000 km/Jahr
Geld, das nicht im Auto steckt, würde investiert werden.

1. BMW Z4 G29 (bereits bezahlt)
Marktwert ca. 33.000 €
8,5 l/100 km
Super Plus: 1,90 €/l
Versicherung: ca. 850 €/Jahr
Steuer: ca. 200 €/Jahr
Laufende Kosten/Jahr:
Benzin: ca. 2.423 €
Versicherung + Steuer: ca. 1.050 €
= ca. 3.473 €/Jahr (ohne Wartung, Reparaturen und Wertverlust)

2. Tesla Model 3 Long Range AWD Leasing
36 Monate / 15.000 km
576 €/Monat inkl. Versicherung
3.000 € Umweltprämie als Sonderzahlung bereits eingerechnet
Laden ausschließlich am Supercharger (0,43 €/kWh)
THG-Prämie ca. 200 €/Jahr
Praktisch wartungsfrei während der Leasingzeit
Kosten/Jahr:
Leasing inkl. Versicherung: 6.912 €
Strom: ca. 1.032 €
THG: −200 €
= ca. 7.744 €/Jahr

3. Polestar 2 Auto-Abo
606 €/Monat
Versicherung, Wartung, Verschleiß, Zulassung, Überführung und sämtliche Nebenkosten inklusive
Nur Strom kommt noch hinzu
Kapital bleibt ebenfalls investiert
Kosten/Jahr:
Abo: 7.272 €
Strom: ca. 1.032 €
= ca. 8.304 €/Jahr

Meine Gedanken:
Mir ist bewusst, dass beim Z4 noch Wertverlust und Opportunitätskosten des gebundenen Kapitals hinzukommen.
Beim Tesla und Polestar bleibt das Kapital investiert.
Leasing und Abo haben für mich außerdem den Vorteil, dass ich wegen der aktuell schnellen Entwicklung bei E-Autos in 1 bzw. 3 Jahren flexibel bin und nicht das Risiko trage, ein Fahrzeug mit möglicherweise starkem Wertverlust zu besitzen.

Wie würdet ihr das finanzmathematisch bewerten? Ist der bereits bezahlte Z4 trotz gebundenem Kapital klar die wirtschaftlichste Lösung oder können Leasing bzw. Auto-Abo unter Berücksichtigung aller Faktoren sinnvoller sein?

Ich habe Tesla gefragt, ob ich beim Leasing (privat) über Santander eine Leasingübernahme machen kann und das wurde verneint. Ist das wirklich nicht möglich?

Ich habe ein Model 3 mit Leasing bestellt und wollte nur mal fragen für den Fall des Falles. Lebensumstände können sich ja ändern wie Umzug ins Ausland

EDIT: Nur zum Verständnis: ich meine mit Leasingübernahme die Übertragung des laufenden Leasingvertrags auf eine andere Person für die restliche Laufzeit

And will they also release a wear OS watch for smaller wrists?

BASED IN GERMANY

Hi friends,

I am switching from the Apple ecosystem to Android. My phone is an Oppo Find x9 Pro.

I got small wrists so the oppo watch is too big with 46mm and many other watches as well.

I am searching for a classy looking Watch for the office and everyday life with:

- Google Pay
- smallish for my small wrists
- health functions
- good battery

I considered the Samsung Ultra 9 but I read they only work fully with Samsung phones.

Do you have a good value watch suitable for me?

Hallo,

beim M3 Standard sind ja mit dem Auslaufen der 0% Ballonfinanzierung auch die Leasingraten gestiegen.

Heißt das im Umkehrschluss, dass beim Premium M3 bei laufender 0% Finanzierung die Leasingraten auch günstiger sind zurzeit da es ja eine Aktion ist?

Searching for the cheapest OLED tablet for heavy youtube premium consume and web browsing.
Long update support is a must.

Considering the Honor Magic Pad 4. what do you recommend?

Hi,

since I am switching to an Oppo Find X10 Pro when it releases, I also want to get an Android Tablet. I like the Magic Pad 4 because of OLED and wonder:

- based in Germany, shall I buy it now or will it get cheaper?

- where in Germany/Europe do I get it the cheapest?

Thank you

Hi,

Ich suche nach einem Leasingangebot und finde kein annehmbares.

Details:

Leasing Laufzeit 36 Monate, 15.000 km pro Jahr,  3000€ Prämie als Anzahlung.

Habt ihr eine Idee wo man annehmbare Konditionen dafür findet? Danke

Hallo,

ich möchte das Premium AWD für 36 Monate leasen und habe folgende Fragen:

• profitieren die Leasing-Angebote auch von 0%?
• Sind die Konditionen aktuell günstig eures Erachtens was Leasing betrifft?

• 3000€ E-Auto Prämie anzahlen oder lieber anlegen und nichts anzahlen und dafür
höhere Rate?

• Ich möchte nicht finanzieren wegen meiner Unsicherheit bezüglich Restwert und weiterer E-Auto Entwicklung, das steht fest.

Ich danke euch

Hi friends,

I am currently on an iPhone 15 Pro and I am seriously fed up with the disgusting battery petformance since day 1. i therefore eyed some other phones and I am sure thag oppo find phones are my go to.

I am now awaiting the oppo Find x10 Pro and wonder where I will probably get the phone the cheapest ? I read about tradingshenzhen and other importers, however I don‘t want a Chinese version but global or EU Version.

1)

Where do you guys based in Europe buy these phones? Thank you!

2)

Which smartwatch goes well with the phone, is suitable for small wrists and got google pay and looks classy?