It's really hard to respect live audio engineers who are excellent at their craft but not respectable in any other facet of their life.
Live audio is a very specific nuanced set of skills. Combining artistic decision making with math and science. It's also full of people who have massive egos. Like, dudes who just can't fucking be bothered to respond to a very basic question for some reason.
Idk man. I've worked in several industries. Live audio is an especially bizarre combination of the nicest people and the absolute worst.
If you're one of the best sound engineers you should hold yourself to a standard to elevate the overall community. Don't be a useless douche in every other aspect of your life.