ELI5: how do surgeons transform female genitals into male genitals and vice versa?

With this post I DON'T want to offend or insult anyone, in any way.

How do surgeon actually do that? If we're talking about the breasts, I think (I might be wrong though) that they insert in you some implants, and for the other genre, they do the opposite. But when it comes to the proper genitels, what do they do?

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u/anonimo110110 — 9 hours ago

Questo è un fisico raggiungibile?

Ciao a tutti. Sono nuova alle palestre e in questi giorni mi sono imbattuta in questa influencer/content creator (@deidraa_ su ig). Mi stavo chiedendo, questo fisico (naturalmente) è raggiungibile? O è una pompata?

In caso la risposta fosse sì, ci si arriva con dei workout normali, priorizzando la dieta/cardio, in che modo?

Non odiatemi, l'ho già detto, non capisco nulla di fisici pompati o no lol

u/anonimo110110 — 3 days ago

How to avoid strange names?

Hi. I'm european but my story is set in the uk. I' having big problems on creating names that makes sense, because they're all basic names and basic surnames ...

Does anyone have any advices/ideas?

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u/anonimo110110 — 5 days ago
▲ 19 r/writers

How do you choose your book's title?

I'm finishing my first book (a psychological thriller) and I just realized that I don't know how to title it. I've saved it on my computer with "project 1"... Does anyone have some advices? I'm pretty desperate rn. Bc I don't want to be the writer with good books that have weird names...

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u/anonimo110110 — 5 days ago

Too many ideas and too little concentration

Hi everyone. I'm currently writing my first book and I0m having lots of troubles. First of all, in these days, instead of thinking how I'll develop my story, hundreds of new ideas for other stories come to my mind. And, when I'm trying to write, my mind seems off, like that I don't know what to write (even if I spent 1 hour thinking of it). Is this a current thing? Do you have any advices?

(I'm 16 yo and I'm from europe, so I might have done some errors, I hope you don't mind them)

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u/anonimo110110 — 5 days ago
▲ 8 r/films

Bugonia: opinions and critics

I yesterday watched Bugonia (Yorgos Lathimos, 2025, I'm a bit late, sorry), and I thought it was amazing! I really like how Lathimos use wide shots and close-ups, and the script was really good! I'm new in commenting and criticizing movies, so, what do you think about it? I actually do not have complains at all...

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u/anonimo110110 — 9 days ago

no budget and without connections in the scene

Hi everyone! I'm a 15yo girl, I'm working on my first script. I'm programming to finish it within and no later than january 2027. I don't know anyone who can tell me if it's good or not. I was wondering if (really big dream, don't hate me for this) I could send the script to a production house or to someone in the scene. I really think it could be a good movie...

The fact that I'm european it's a biiiiiiiig problem, but I'm pretty good in english so I could translate it. If you're wondering, I'd have to wait about 5 years to get into a film schoold and to make the script be seen by a teacher, and that's not happening, I'm not waiting that long. So, it's there any ways to make it seen by someone in the movies scene? (I wish I knew someone working there...)

Do not hate me for my dream, please, we all hav e one and we all want it to become true.

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u/anonimo110110 — 11 days ago

Qual'è l'arte marziale migliore per cominciare?

Ciao a tutti. F 16 anni, vado attualmente in palestra 5 volte a settimana, durante l'anno scolastico dipende dalle settimane. Mi piacerebbe iniziare un corso di arti marziali con obiettivo il mio miglioramento personale e fisico (e avere una valvola di sfogo in più non fa di certo male). Sapreste consigliarmi quale è il migliore? Grazie mille

(parto da 0, vivo in una città grande in cui ci sono molte palestre con svariati corsi, quindi non c'è il problema del "magari questo non lo fanno in città"

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u/anonimo110110 — 15 days ago

Procrastination will ruin my school year if I don't do something

Hi everyone. I'm a 15f going into third year of highschool. I've completely wasted my summer 'cause of internet. Yes, I go out with my friends/family everyday, but every time I have nothing to do I take my phone and scroll or I watch things on my computer (that's what I'm doing rn). Do you maybe have advices on what to do to get back on track before going to school?

[EDIT] I've seen tons of influencers saying that they use some apps with to do lists and things like that. Do they really help?

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u/anonimo110110 — 15 days ago

AIO or my "friend" treated me like sh!t?

(Context) I'm 15 yo (turning 16 in september), I have a group of 5 friends (6 with me), I was adopted so I live in europe but I'm asian. I'm pretty pissed rn and I'm not an english native speaker, as I said, so I could make some errors.

So, it all starts last school year (2024-2025), I met my new friends at my new school. There was a girl who acted a littler strange (I'll be calling her M), she would laugh so high and loud and randomly she would just start scream so high and freaking loud with no reasons at all. And what I think was worse she kept making fun of me (being asian) and of one of my friends (I'll be calling her L) whose mom's czech, we told her that that annoyed us but she kept going.

From september 2026 M began to say all kinds of bad things expecially to me, but to L too, and that weighed on me but I just kept going because school was more important than her being silly. By january I began to videocall L in the afternoon, we didnt even talk some days, we just used it too focus ourself better. Some days we'd invite M to our callign and when she entered she'd shut my microphone down all the time so she could talk to L. Another thing that happened from january was that we began to go swimming (the entire class). M hated it (cause she said that pools are gross) and she couldnt really swim well. (You should know that L practices swimming all year and skating in winter). M discovered that and she started asking L things like "you'd think I could go to your swimming class?" (which actually wuold be impossible cause L is in the competitive class and she woldn't be). In winter we'd go on our city's ice ring to skate and M was terrible at it, she couldn't really get of the corners at all, and another time she asked L "yk I'm really into skating, would you think I'd be able to go to your class?".

Since march 2026 she began to treat me like absolutely sh!t for no reasons at all, so I decided move away from her a bit. For example, she'd insult me (I thought she was kidding but now I realize that she wasn't) telling me really bad things (that I cannot put on reddit) and once she lifted me into the air and dropped me onto a desk (for the record, I'm 5'2'' and she's 5'5'').

Then this may a big thing happened. One of my friends (I'll be calling her I) was in love with a guy from my class. The guy asked me and L to help him surprise I (he wanted to declared himself to I). One night I invited my friends to mi house to cook dinner together and chill, only L, M, and I could go. While we were eating, the guy texted me and L that he wanted to declare himself that night on the phone, we (me and L) ran to our phone and just freaked out (we were listening to so depressing pop music so it wasnt really the best timing). We told M and I that we were texting to one of our classmate about a surprise that would happen on monday (it was friday) and that there was nothing to worry about. I just said okay but M seemed to take it personally. After eating we doomscrolled for 10 minuts (we really had a food coma) and randomly M screamed so loud. I told her to chill because downstaires there was my sister with some friends. And then from 8pm to 10pm she sit on my couch, pretending to text someone. She didn't help us doing the dishes, she didn't wanna talk nothing at all. Then she started ignoring me and L, the rare time she'd talk to us was to insult us and things like that. She spent the last days of school alone, while we were together playing cards or just talk together.

She wrote me a message some days ago, after I texted her 3 times to talk together and solve things like mature people. Shortly she did the victim, telling that I cut her off many times, that I had changed since I began to videocall L. I texted her the truth, I moved away from her bc she was insulting me, that didn't mean that I cut her off in any way though. She responded only that she still thought her point. I didn't answer that message. I'd really like to text her how shit her was but I don't want to pass on the bad side. Really I don't sleep for this thing, cause I wont see her til september and I do not know how I'll behave at the start of the school. Am I overreacting? I literally do not sleep thinking that she treated me bad, but maybe I treated her bad without noticing (almost sure I didn't tho) I really do not know what to do. By writing this my heart rate increased to 130 bpm.

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u/anonimo110110 — 17 days ago

Does the feeling ever go away?

Hi everybody. I was adopted when I was 5 months old, and I was born in Vietnam. The fact that I'm adopted doesn't bother me at all, my parents are just amazing and they taught me to fell proud of it (with parents I mean non-biological parents) and I'm 100% sure that I don't want to meet my biological parents cause I think that if they didn't want me, why should they get to know me now? (I hope this isn't stupid).

When I was a kid in elementary school, only one kid made fun of me, but I just kept going and ignored him (kids can be cruel, I just accepted it). Now that I'm a girl in highschool things changed. There's a girl that keeps saying bad thing about me (about me being asian and with allusive things about soldier kids). She WAS my friend, because when I told her that that bothered me, she kept going and (for other things too) this june she played the victim and I decided to cut her off (I don't even know how I'll be with her in september cause we're in the same group of friends!)(btw my parents know all about this).

Anyways, as I already said, the fact that I'm adopted does NOT bother me AT ALL and I'm almost happy about it, but since she said that things to me, it just felt bad. I now just feel like I'm a strange thing because of her, like I'm not normal (this cause I've a typical asian body so not so tall with black eyes and hair, just not like my class mates) and I started comparing myself with all people I know. And that makes me fell even worse.

Does the feeling that you're not like other go away? Or not? Cause I've been overthinking (and crying too) about this a lot now, I just feel wrong.

I'm not a native english speaker and I'm pretty sure that I've made some erros, hope you dont mind. I really hope that you do not take this as ragebait, and I hope you dont hate me for things I said in the post...

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u/anonimo110110 — 18 days ago
▲ 1 r/cardio

How to improve in running while it's burning hot outside?

Hi everyone. I'm trying to improve my run, I'm a bit of a duffer tho. Yesterday I ran a 3km in 30 minutes, and I had to stop the whole time to breathe. One of the reasons it's that outside it's like 40°C (about 105°F, for the record), and it's also (maybe? idk) partly beacause I have a deviated nasal septum. Do you have some reccomandations? Thxxxx (I'm 15yo girl bwt, no hate please)

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u/anonimo110110 — 23 days ago

Da 0 a 20 si può iniziare?

Ciao a tutti. Il mio grande sogno è sempre stato correre una maratona, mentre ora sarebbe percorrere un ironman. Ora sono al liceo (non ho, quindi, molto tempo per allenarmi). Qualcuno potrebbe darmi qualche consiglio per massimizzare i risultati? Il mio obiettivo è conciliare un elevato volume di cardio con la crescita della massa muscolare...

Consigli? Cosa che dovrei evitare? (parto quasi da zero, non odiatemi per questo...)

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u/anonimo110110 — 24 days ago

Studiare medicina nel 2026

Ciao a tutti. Sono attualmente nel triennio (lic. classico) e mi piacerebbe molto frequentare medicina. Avrei alcune domande principali per gli studenti o per chi ha frequentato: quali sono le vostre materie preferite? Cosa pensate siano gli aspetti più interessanti? Trovate più interessanti gli aspetti teorici o l'utilizzo di nuove tecnologie? Da 1 a 10, il carico di studi è veramente così pesante da un esame all'altro (semplicemente perché non ho parenti o amici che hanno frequentato e medicina ha sempre l'aura di essere la facoltà più difficile)? Inoltre, molti sostengono che il ruolo del medico sarà sostituito dalle macchine e dall'ia in futuro, cosa ne pensate? (non sono affatto d'accordo su questo punto, poiché le macchine non avranno mai la precisione di un uomo, a parer mio)

Inoltre, se scegliessi medicina frequenterei la statale di milano, qualcosa da dire su quello? professori, materie, metodo di insegnamento?

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u/anonimo110110 — 2 months ago

Medicina: requisiti e difficoltà

Ciao a tutti. Ho alcune domande per le persone che hanno frequentato/frequentano la facoltà di medicina e chirurgia. Mi piacerebbe molto frequentare (sono al triennio, lic. classico) ma temo principalmente due cose, di non essere abbastanza dato che la mia base di studi sarà improntata sulle materie umanistiche e che dopo 5 anni di liceo classico (a studiare lingue morte che non interessano più nemmeno agli insegnanti) io vada in burnout e debba abbandonare. In più, non ho una base solida di materie scientifiche, dato che i miei professori, tristi di non insegnare in uno scientifico non spiegano (e questo non lo dico a critica del sistema scolastico né per lamentarmi dei voti, è la verità) e per le verifiche sostanzialmente studio a memoria l'argomento e due minuti dopo la verifica ho già dimenticato tutto.

Quindi, le domande principali sono: è più di ragionamento o di memoria? durante il semestre filtro, si andranno a riprendere gli argomenti di fisica, chimica e biologia del liceo o si daranno per scontati (i miei professori non sono felici di non insegnare in uno scientifico e ce lo fanno capire)?

In più se qualcuno ha esperienze personali da condividere accetto volentieri!!

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u/anonimo110110 — 2 months ago

Ritorno dopo tempo su reddit

Ciao a tutti. Negli ultimi mesi non ho guardato molto reddit perché avevo la maturità. Ricordo che frequentavo spesso un sub chiamato tipo "non c'è nulla di male" o "non c'è niente di male" (chi ha capito ha capito) ma se lo cerco non lo trovo più. È stato eliminato? Perché si parlavo un po' di tutto e mi divertivo a leggere robe a caso

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u/anonimo110110 — 2 months ago

Probably not a future student? what do I do?

Hi everyone, since I'm new in this sub I dont know if my question is appropriate, delete my post if it's not.

I'm 16yo, from Italy. Since I was a kid I wanted to be a film director. I really like writing and imaginating scripts and I've recorded some poor short films with my dad's old camera. As I said, I'd love to be a director, but I cannot attend italian cinema school (too expansive and it's a total scam) and I'd love to work abroad, because lately italian cinema is just a complete disaster (my opinion, ofc). Any advices? Is it impossible???

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u/anonimo110110 — 2 months ago

isn't it embarrassing to use a urinal?

(first of all, I didn't really know which tag to use, hope sexuality n gender fits)

As a girl watching (when like doors slide or smt like that) men peeing so close I've always thought I'd be soooo embarassed idk...

Am I the only one, girls?

How do u do that, men??

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u/anonimo110110 — 2 months ago