Just some advice…

From October 3rd all the way until now, it’s been so dizzying and weird for her. I feel like the fair criticism is getting buried by the influx of hate. Obviously this does not translate into sales and stuff but, whew! I sometimes wish she would speak out against some things, but I also think it wouldn’t matter what she does. She’s the biggest star of the decade.

That being said, if this is all effecting yall somehow. Leave the internet for a week or two. Not saying it’s going to get worse, but I really encourage those who have been asking about Taylor hate and are correcting misinformation every hour to go offline. You’ll see how much everything is over exaggerated. It can be overwhelming, but the good thing is, we all have the privilege of choice and we can just take a breather. The same people who have been violently hating her are going to not change their mind. So why get just as passionate as them? It’s frustrating, but I think it’s best to think about “what’s going to change now if I get into it with a person who hates Taylor for just breathing?” Just an advice from someone who kinda was chronically online and just comes and goes. Have a good morning :)

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u/babydoll0_ — 9 hours ago

Boring Barbie

This is for showgirl enjoyers, but I think the opening of actually romantic is hilarious and doesn’t get as much attention as it should in a positive way. Like her humor is so me. No hate to Charli, because I have no feelings towards her but if someone wrote about someone doing coke and everyone knows it’s about me, I would be pissed. I don’t know if anyone has watched “White Chicks” but the line reminds me of one of the characters saying, “Clean it up, coke whore.” To another girl.

Another honorable mention for the song is the little doo waps she does at the end of the song. I don’t listen to it MUCH, unless it comes on shuffle, but i appreciate the brutal humor of it.

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u/babydoll0_ — 8 days ago

Sigils for a non-witch

I’m not into witchcraft like that, it’s not something I’m ready to do unless I’m fully mentally aware of what I’m doing. But I am into divination and I’ve heard some people in the community use sigils for their manifestations. Could i possibly do this? For example, I want to win a jackpot tomorrow at the casino and was thinking about writing a sigil on my ankle or write it on paper and put it in my shoe. I just want to play it safe and to not be disrespectful. Thank you 🤍

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u/babydoll0_ — 17 days ago

Lover and Reputation (mostly lover): anxiety albums?

Not trying to make this a Joe hate post because I barely know the man, this is just what I know based off of what Taylor explicitly presented. Going back to these albums, I feel like these two have a different but same type of anxiety. They’re both wanting him while actively having him, if this makes sense. I think for rep, it was more so because of her public image (duh, reputation.) and felt insecure about that at the time. So I could understand that. But listening to midnights and going back to lover, I sometimes consider them as sister albums, maybe reputation being the baby sister lol.

Not because of the obvious day vs night aesthetic, but midnights to me seemed like she was already done mourning the relationship she was already in and it’s not a huge deal to her because she’s been grieving the relationship for the past few albums (a theory with folklore and evermore), but I think lover was when she WAS anticipating it when everything was normal. Does this makes sense on a surface level? No. But that’s what anxiety does. As I’ve said before, I know nothing about Joe other than the songs so this is just how i analyzed the albums. I think she was actively still chasing him even though he was hers. Lover was honestly the first album where it’s just solely about her finding herself again whilst falling in love, not just one or two songs and it was overly bright and lovey dovey, which is fine. It actually makes me giggle, especially if you go through her Instagram of the aesthetic change.

I think if I can pick two songs that go with my point about lover being an anxiety album is Afterglow and Lover. Afterglow being about an argument and how she’s sorry, that there’s a light at the end of the table and how he shouldn’t leave over a misunderstanding (my take) and Lover feels like a reassurance moment to me. She’s reassuring herself that she is his and he is hers. If I’m not mistaken, she also puts this song on the denial playlist on Apple Music for TTPD. Other than soon you’ll get better, I think the whole album is just holding your breath to something you know it’s going to end but you keep holding on because of the attachment to them so in order to not break, we create these scenarios in our minds of the relationship, which can explain the songs that talk about the future and the past, but never the present. If we circle back to reputation, I think a great song to some up the relationship as a whole is Delicate.

That’s basically my analysis of it, i think that’s why I love her as an artist because without context of previous albums and future ones, you don’t really get the whole context. Lover to me is her most unique album in terms of theme. As someone who has anxiety, I see the recurring theme of it a lot in these songs whether she didn’t think about it or not and I think it’s beautiful how you can find yourself hidden in her music, making you dig deep within yourself. That’s all :)

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u/babydoll0_ — 19 days ago

Rejection and confusion

I got a decline letter from the director of admissions 4 days after my application has been submitted. Cool, I cried it out, we move forward. But my confusion is that I’ve been in conversation with the graduate director of the program I’ve been trying to get in and he told me that he will make a note to personally reach out to me. That normally I would hear back from them “mid-June” or June 19th at the latest based on everyone’s schedules. Do I just email him on what I should do next or be delusional and pretend that decline letter is a glitch and wait until he emails me? I’m already looking into different schools already so I’m not just saying, “fuck it.” And giving up.

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u/babydoll0_ — 1 month ago

Rejection letter

I’m trying to get my masters, long story short, they declined my application due to things being highly competitive. But something to me isn’t adding up. For one, I’ve been emailing the graduate director and he told me I would be getting an email from him personally once my results are in (mid June or by June 19th). But I got the decline 3 days after by director of admissions.

My parents are saying to email my advisor about other options and to look at other schools. In which I am doing, but I really think something isn’t adding up. That it’s a glitch. Because although I did cry about it, but it didn’t last long like it normally would when I feel rejected and I’m now feeling like this isn’t the end.

How do I revise that it’s a glitch? That if I email him, he will confirm today or tomorrow that I haven’t been actually rejected, that it was a mistake?

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u/babydoll0_ — 1 month ago

Robotic affirming, anxiety, embodying and just being

I’ve been doing robotic affirming, I used to feel good while doing it but I tend to procrastinate a lot, I don’t take the time out to just focus and it feels more like a chore these days when its supposed to be easy and fun, I’m more anxious when I affirm all day and then the next day, it’s crickets. I know exactly why, it’s because I just anticipate it not happening. I don’t have a strong feeling towards what I want because I’m expecting the opposite.

I’ve been seeing TikTok’s that manifestation is instant once you just decide that you’re in the 4D and not the 3D. Like you’re actually embodying the person who has their desires, not waking up and expecting money to just fall into your account the next day (referring to me. I know that can happen once you get the hang of it). So how do I just embody it? I have anxiety so the fear of the unknown messes me up a lot.

For an example of what I want to manifest: my professors to do my college recommendations. It’s due by July 1st and they haven’t started yet. I’ve heard most professors wait until last minute and I can’t just accept that theory. So I want them to complete it right now.

My idea, was to learn how to meditate and then I would say, “they did my recommendations today” and embody the person who has it, rather then going about my day robotic affirming with the lingering question of “what if” and if it does pop up in my head, I correct it saying that one affirmation. Does this sound good? I think I just need to start regulating my emotions, in which I don’t have a good grip over.

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u/babydoll0_ — 1 month ago

Robotic affirming, anxiety, embodying and just deciding

I’ve been doing robotic affirming, I used to feel good while doing it but I tend to procrastinate a lot, I don’t take the time out to just focus and it feels more like a chore these days when its supposed to be easy and fun, I’m more anxious when I affirm all day and then the next day, it’s crickets. I know exactly why, it’s because I just anticipate it not happening. I don’t have a strong feeling towards what I want because I’m expecting the opposite.

I’ve been seeing TikTok’s that manifestation is instant once you just decide that you’re in the 4D and not the 3D. Like you’re actually embodying the person who has their desires, not waking up and expecting money to just fall into your account the next day (referring to me. I know that can happen once you get the hang of it). So how do I just embody it? I have anxiety so the fear of the unknown messes me up a lot.

For an example of what I want to manifest: my professors to do my college recommendations. It’s due by July 1st and they haven’t started yet. I’ve heard most professors wait until last minute and I can’t just accept that theory. So I want them to complete it right now.

My idea, was to learn how to meditate and then I would say, “they did my recommendations today” and embody the person who has it, rather then going about my day robotic affirming with the lingering question of “what if” and if it does pop up in my head, I correct it saying that one affirmation. Does this sound good? I think I just need to start regulating my emotions, in which I don’t have a good grip over.

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u/babydoll0_ — 1 month ago

Manifesting on a time crunch

I am trying to get my two professors to do their recommendations so I can fully submit my applications to get into graduate school. I’ve sent them reminders and the deadline is July 1st. I was wondering how to manifest on a time crunch? (If you see this post somewhere else, I’m trying get as much answers in case no one sees this)

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u/babydoll0_ — 1 month ago

Manifesting on a deadline

I am trying to get my two professors to do their recommendations so I can fully submit my applications to get into graduate school. I’ve sent them reminders and the deadline is July 1st. I was wondering how to manifest on a time crunch? (If you see this post somewhere else, I’m trying get as much answers in case no one sees this)

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u/babydoll0_ — 1 month ago
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Should I become a lawyer?

I’m actually pursuing a masters degree in being a criminal psychologist, but my mom is saying that I should try and get another degree in law because she thinks I could be really good at that. I’m more so of an emotionally charged person, even if I am passionate, I tend to tear up lol. I don’t really see myself doing something like that but it does kind of peak my interest. I’ve also heard about others having other degrees in criminal justice and with law, so it’s not too far fetched if I went down that route.

u/babydoll0_ — 2 days ago

Just give up

This is going to sound harsh, so just skip this if you don’t want that type of energy while manifesting. A lot of you lack discipline and give up once you see something that isn’t in your favor in the 3D. I’ve been seeing this subreddit a few times since I’m in the manifestation community and Law of Assumption. The post I’ve been seeing is people giving up when they get blocked, get rejected, etc. Manifesting is easy. Point blank, period. You need to get it out of your head that manifesting is something that is magical. It isn’t. It’s you deciding what you want and it happens. So what they blocked you? That’s not your problem. Keep affirming in your favor instead of giving up so easily. Circumstances don’t matter and you clearly see that with the success stories on here. You guys feed into the 3D too easily and that’s the issue. KEEP AFFIRMING. Even if you don’t believe it, because eventually you will when you robotic affirm. Your emotions don’t affect the outcome. I’ve been emotional so many times while manifesting and what did I do? AFFIRM. The world is your oyster.

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u/babydoll0_ — 1 month ago

What can I buy for 25?

Hi! I got gifted a 25 dollar Sephora gift card and I was wondering what’s some good products to buy with the money and not just one thing online. I don’t typically shop here so any suggestions is welcomed. Thank you!

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u/babydoll0_ — 1 month ago