u/featheredfeathers

ok ladies… how painful is a Brazilian wax before birth??? should I do it? I don’t normally get waxed as I always shave down there but damn I can’t even shave anymore!!! so I really wanna get rid of all the hair because I HATE having hair when I’m on my period and the fact that I’ll be bleeding for 4-6 weeks daily…. dude. no. I need to get rid of all the hair.

so, is it a good idea? I’m 37 weeks now and shit, I’m not sure if it’s too late for me to get waxed???

edited to add: I’ve gotten a wax before. I know what they’re like. I just rarely get them done.

i need to vent.

i quit the Feds last fall and DEEPLY regret it as I really hate the private sector…. and they laid me off few weeks ago due to “elimination of position” despite me asking them in the initial interview that if they would be growing their dept and they said they would…. I stupidly believed them and with what was going on in summer of 2025, I was soooo afraid of getting RIF’d that I went ahead and got out of the Feds….. and now everyone isn’t getting RIF’d anymore and I feel such a fucking loser for having left such a great job.

I've been applying like crazy but they've all been internal hires or not in my location. I just want to die. I wanted to be a fed for sooooo long and fuckign Trump ruined it for me and my fear too and I just want to give up and cry and I constantly beat myself up everyday for quitting the Feds. I hate my life. I wish I could be a Fed again.

how long should I be staying in those cities in December?

I want to see the Christmas markets & do some skiing and the historic sites as well and whatever else there is to do in all 3 cities.

would 5 days each cities work, or should I be staying in Salzburg shorter than Innsbruck? should I be staying in Munich for longer?

edited to add: I’ll have a 3 months old with me so I’ll def have rest days too

bonus: let me know what i should do/see in those cities!! I have a list already but of course, locals know best.

would 5 days work? or should I stay for longer? I plan to be there in December in time for the Krampus Run too.

are there any recommendations on where to go for a ski tour hut to hut trip (~3 days) in early December in the Munich area or surrounding areas (like, Salzburg, Innsbruck, etc.)?

anything with a guided tour? or self-tours?

would like to get an itinerary started. thanks!

* I’m banned from usajobs FOR WHATEVER REASON so I can’t post there

for y’all who are in HR/hiring managers, PLS help me!!

I’ve been a GS-11 for 2 years before I quit… now I’m actively trying to get back into the Feds because, man, the private sector SUCKS…

anyway, I’ve been getting rejected for GS-11 jobs despite my resume AND my SF-50 proving my time in grade….

(but I’ve been referred for other positions, just not GS-11 ones)

EDIT: IT IS FOR THE SAME DAMN SERIES. the exact same position I’ve held in the same damn agency, just that it is at a different office. I KNOW WHAT JOBS TO APPLY FOR & which jobs I’m qualified for. IM NOT LIKE TRUMP.

so, what am I doing wrong??? why can’t I get referred for GS-11 jobs? They literally say in the eligibility emails that I ”do not meet the minimum qualifications“… what the heck???

so, I have mild polyhydramnios and despite this, my OB thinks I can still deliver at 40 weeks or whenever the baby comes…..

I honestly want to be induced early, for selfish reasons: I’m done with having this baby in my belly, my ribs constantly hurt to the point where I’m icing my ribs for HOURS on a daily basis

& I really would love my kid to be in the same grade as my brother and my cousin’s children because that would be so cool for 3 of them, to grow up together and be in the same classes.

Is this stupid? can I actually request to be induced early? or I can’t and this is stupid of me to do?

like, who is funding them? how are they bypassing every single council in this world? where tf are they all coming from? how are they everywhere all of sudden?

HOW ARE THE LOCAL GOVT BLATANTLY REFUSING TO LISTEN TO THE PEOPLE?? like….???? i don’t get this.

does anyone know how the BIA works and whether they’re a great agency to work for? just curious!! I feel like I know no one that works there so I’m quite curious.

okay so i went to the OBED and they weren’t even concerned because my bloodwork and urine all came out great. but my Bp is 145/89 and my ribs, specifically my right side, has been EXCRUCIATINGLY PAINFUL to the point where I have to ice for hours and hours including throughout the night.

I'm at 33 weeks now, almost 34 (in two days). I’m at a loss to what the fuck is wrong with me. Has anyone experienced this? What can I do? What will happen to me if this lasts till birth?

from Colorado Springs to BWI? I don’t even see any flights for October. did they all of sudden stop operating that route????

I have a complaint. we really should change the rules of going into the lounge for 3 hours *BEFORE BOARDING* NOT BEFORE DEPARTURE TIME! because who tf is actually staying at the lounge until the plane is ready to leave??????? no one does. like cmon.

which spot, beside the swim beach as dogs aren’t allowed there, are best and easy for dogs to swim at Lake Pueblo?

I didn’t realize the tickets were easily sold out and I’m frustrated. I have never been to the Paris Catacombs and was wanting to go.

I’m also deaf and on the website it states I can show up on the day of to get the ticket. I was wondering if this is true? is it recommended to show up at the entrance at opening time to get a ticket? advice appreciated!!

is there a petition where we can all sign for this tv series to come back?????? WE NEED IT ASAP

when did Walmart start overcharging for fucking photos??? 2 8x10 photos for fucking $8 wtffffg

where tf do I go for cheap same day printed photos anymore wow

I’ve always muted a LOT OF PEOPLE/random accounts stories. now, all of sudden, I’m seeing all those accounts that I’ve already muted…. is anyone else also having this issue? wtf is going on?

so, I’ve gained at least 50 lbs and I’ve got 3 months to go. I’m tired. I’m always wobbling around. I’m pissed off at myself for how much I’ve gained when I previously swore I wouldn’t eat so much. how do you cope? how do you deal with this much weight gain? I’m so upset really. and the fact that I can’t even diet & fast during pregnancy is KILLING ME.

just curious! I applied for a 0193 position in Germany… just wondering what is the likelihood of getting an interview and hired for this position? do people actually get hired? how does this position work in Germany?

i really would love to have this opportunity! crossing my fingers.