u/jinxnotpowder_

i am 7 marks off an A in AS. Is it possible for me to get A/A* in A2 or should i retake AS

So last year i discovered a ganglion cyst in my wrist. The doctor told me that operating was like the only solution. However i had a really important exam coming up and asked him if i could delay it by like a month and he was like no problem.

Spoiler: there was in fact a problem. By the time surgery came around my cyst had shrunk in size. They told me there is no point in doing surgery now. Now im left with constant pain on my wrist. Sometimes the pain spreads to my whole hand and i cant use it for days. Even typing is impossible in those times. Whenever i go to the doctor's he prescribes pain killers and tells me there is nothing he can do.

I've consulted three different doctors. Im genuinely so tired of this pain. Its been over a year now. If i accidentally press on my wrist the pain flares up and lasts for days. Yesterday i tripped and instinctively pressed the wall to balance myself but lo and behold the pain returned because of that and now it genuinely hurts a lot. Can someone suggest what i should do

i have known i wanted to take a gap year since i was 14. At first my family was on board but now they've all become really unsupportive and keep telling me I'll just be a burden in that time period (i even told them I'll get a job but they are still against it) So now im kinda double minded because as bad as i want a gap year its not worth destroying my relationship with them and damaging my self worth. I weighed my situation out and here a couple of pros and cons

Pros:

1. i wanted to learn a lot of new stuff like coding, painting, cooking and horse riding (i planned to pay for it myself)

2. high school was a rough patch. I wanted to take a break from academics because im really tired

Cons:

1. might damage my relationship with my family

2. their taunts may damage my self worth

3. i want to go to a reputable university 6 hours from my house so it will be a new start in a new city with new ppl so might not be half as bad

If anyone has been in a situation similar to me, please help me out. What should i do?

Also after my bachelors i want to go to any ivy League or any other university with equal value for my masters degree. Will my gap year give me a disadvantage there? (they university i plan to go to for my bachelors doesn't care about gap years)

It's me. I hate legit everything and i hate to admit it but im lowkey lazy asf (tho im tryna work on that) anyhow i do work hard when it matter and im kinda smart (i think) so i dont really need to put in that much effort because of which i have really good grades. I need to start applying to universities but i have no idea which major i shd apply to. I would kinda prefer stem but i dont mind buisness/humanities if it pays well

(Ik the self glaze is insane but bear with me lmao)

When i was like 11 my mom, brother and i went shopping. On our way back i was sitting at the back seat and my mother and brother at the front seat. They were both yelling at each other about idk what and i was just starting out the window when i noticed this guy in a bike smiling creepily at me at a red light. After that moment be followed us and i was so scared to tell my mom cos she was in a bad mood. Then we decided to stop at hardees. We were seated next to the window and i saw that ma WAITING outside the restaurant. Like he kept staring at me the whole time and i was too scared to tell anyone. Thankfully he eventually got bored and left.

Honestly thinking back im so scared of what could have happened and im so grateful we stopped at hardees or he would have known where we lived. But like wtf is wrong with some men bro. He was a grown ass unc in his forties following and trying to scare an 11 yr old 🙄

I wanna be a judge so bad. My mother is kinda against it since she believes not safe a safe profession especially for women in Pakistan. Are her concerns valid?

Wanted to order from LA beauty but its sold out. Are there other places with good coverage white foundation? Or if someone knows how long LA beauty takes to restock?

Honestly im a hardcore olivia fan and have been since the high school musical era. I also believe Louis shd not be hated. We know literally nothing about the breakup (apart from a couple of lyrics in yspsfagsil) and ppl hating him are insanely parasocial. They tend to forget he's an actual person with actual feelings.

On that note the enola holmes 3 press tour in incredibly messy. Millie keeps referencing olivia all the time and louis obviously knows. Its also quite apparent that he's uncomfortable as hell. Then he goes up brings up her marriage and motherhood (maybe she's insecure about that, the way she reacted) that was insanely petty and low of him. I understand why he did that but cmon. Millie should also stop because genuinely it gets to a point man. I believe both louis and millie shd grow tf up

I got 10 A*/A in o level and expected 4 A*/A in my a levels. I live in defence but my family really cannot afford lums. My father passed away a few years ago and my mother is a teacher with an annual salary of 13 lac. We have some agricultural land and stuff and own the house. However I don't want my mother to sell what would belong to my brother too, just for my education. If i apply for NOP, do i have a chance?

Idk about yall but i personally LOVED it sm!! Honestly the whole love song vibe is so cute and the soft vocals suit liv a lot

I found AS physics very easy, AS chemistry was kinda hard (i found physical and inorganic easy and organic was insanely hard) and AS maths i thought was easy too. I've heard the jump from AS to A2 is insane. Is it really that bad?

My grades are okay. I have 10 A* *and As in my o level and expected 4 A* and As in my A level. Honestly i didn't plan to go abroad so my extracurriculars are kind of weak. German universities do favour international universities in terms of scholarship but which other counties/universities are generous with it? Also if you know of any ngo that provide scholarships i would appreciate knowing

Im gonna appear in may june 2027 for chem and physics. I'm expecting a medium-high A in physics and a low A or B in chemistry. I dont really wanna retake chemistry but im aiming for an A in chemistry overall and A* in physics. Ive seen for the threshold most of the times an A is at 60ish. Is getting an 80+ possible? (Im gonna start studying today - 4 july)

Sometimes i think my mom hates me and I'm genuinely curious as to why. She told me when i was like 9 or 10 that she's scared of me and what i might do. I honestly don't think i was that bad of a kid. I was always a shy quiet kid but when i was like idk around 11-13 i was kinda rebellious. I would skip classes, leave my tests blank, yell and slam doors a lot, part of it was cos of hormones i suppose and part of it cos my dad died around that time. I did get better and since i was like 15 i have never gotten below an A.

My relationship with my mother is really rocky tho. For most of the part i don't answer back even tho I'm kinda short tempered. The days i do answer back we end up with awful fights. They always end with me apologising and trying to make her feel better, even when I'm not in the wrong.

I've always hated summer break. See my mothers ideal day would be getting up at 4, going for a walk, doing some gardening, fixing up house stuff, watching a drama, painting smth and going to sleep at 8. My ideal day would be getting up at 2pm. Probably skip breakfast, play some video games, read a book or comic, watch a drama, sleep at 4-5 am. We just don't get along, and my mom keeps trying to mold me into herself.

The day before yesterday we had a fight. It was a trivial thing really and i apologised for it later. She still isn't speaking to me properly. Whenever i try to talk to her she says she's not mad but her actions prove otherwise. Whenever she fights with my brother he apologises and they move on but im trying so hard and she isn't really responding to me

Ik that I'm not the ideal daughter. When my mom was my age she was really really pretty and so skinny. I'm not very pretty and I'm also kinda overweight so ik she's disappointed. Im also a very messy person and im kinda careless and yea

And the days we get along its so fun. We really do get along super well somedays so on days she hates me its kinda sad. Will my relationship with her get better once i move out and grow older?

The whole movie was a mess, like it wasn't that bad but compared to the first two movies i was lowkey very disappointed. First of all the potholes were insane.

Also why did they dumbify sherlock sm 💔💔 The whole movie i was expecting him to have SOME trick up his sleeve but he didn't. Moriarty was HIS nemesis, not enola's!!! Sherlock shd have been the one to take down moriarty, not enola. If they wanted to make Enola shine they could have literally given her her own nemesis ☹️

Enola's charcater really disappointed me in this movie coz she literally stood Tewkesbury up ON THEIR WEDDING DAY. I understand her dilemma regarding marriage and given her character it would have been crazier if she didn't hesitate. But they could have shown it SOO MUCH BETTER. Like during the engagement maybe? The time in between the engagement and the wedding? She literally did not hesitate and said yes when he proposed but then left him standing at the altar

oh also Moriarty being a woman lowkey took me out lmfao

Sometimes i think my mom hates me and I'm genuinely curious as to why. She told me when i was like 9 or 10 that she's scared of me and what i might do. I honestly don't think i was that bad of a kid. I was always a shy quiet kid but when i was like idk around 11-13 i was kinda rebellious. I would skip classes, leave my tests blank, yell and slam doors a lot, part of it was cos of hormones i suppose and part of it cos my dad died around that time. I did get better and since i was like 15 i have never gotten below an A.

My relationship with my mother is really rocky tho. For most of the part i don't answer back even tho I'm kinda short tempered. The days i do answer back we end up with awful fights. They always end with me apologising and trying to make her feel better, even when I'm not in the wrong.

I've always hated summer break. See my mothers ideal day would be getting up at 4, going for a walk, doing some gardening, fixing up house stuff, watching a drama, painting smth and going to sleep at 8. My ideal day would be getting up at 2pm. Probably skip breakfast, play some video games, read a book or comic, watch a drama, sleep at 4-5 am. We just don't get along, and my mom keeps trying to mold me into herself.

The day before yesterday we had a fight. It was a trivial thing really and i apologised for it later. She still isn't speaking to me properly. Whenever i try to talk to her she says she's not mad but her actions prove otherwise. Whenever she fights with my brother he apologises and they move on but im trying so hard and she isn't really responding to me

Ik that I'm not the ideal daughter. When my mom was my age she was really really pretty and so skinny. I'm not very pretty and I'm also kinda overweight so ik she's disappointed. Im also a very messy person and im kinda careless and yea

And the days we get along its so fun. We really do get along super well somedays so on days she hates me its kinda sad. Will my relationship with her get better once i move out and grow older?

I've always had good grades. That has led to a lot of expectations from others (especially my mother). In my country for university many top colleges consider ur high school gpa and an entrance test is usually necessary. I can get into any uni if i get a decent entrance test result since my gpa is really good. Like i said people have always had high expectations from me so i always pushed myself to the point my mental health was completely destroyed. (I started having frequent panic attacks, was sh and very very suicidal) At that point i decided i wanted to take a gap year, i just want to rest regain my spirits and start uni at a good headspace. Another reason i wanted to take a gap year was cos i have no idea which degree im gonna pursue and i dont wanna do something i will hate for the rest of my life so i figured i would take a year and find the stuff i like.

I told my mother around a year ago and at that point she didn't say no. She said we'll see. Now this year is supposed to be my last year of school. Early admissions will start around November. Me and my family were talking about part time jobs and i said i would take one during my gap year. My mother immediately stopped me and said absolutely not and that i will not be taking any gap year. I shd also mention I'm younger than pretty much everyone in my year. Anyhow it turned into an argument where she said she would not let me "destroy a whole year of my life." I didn't argue further atp. After that everytime i brought it up it would turn into a fight. Eventually i got tired and said i would do whatever she wants but thats when i secretly decided I'm getting that gap year one way or another. I'll pretend to study really hard and fail on purpose. Cant go to uni if no uni will take me right? And its not like im refusing to go to uni AT ALL. Im just saying ill go a year later. I'll bring it up one more time and if she doesn't agree ill just bomb my entrance test

I'm considering majoring in computer science. In particular in drawn towards the app/game development industry. However idk much about it.

Is it a good enough career in terms of

1. can i work remotely

2. will i be able to have a work life balance

3. will i earn a decent living

4. is there a probability of the job market being replaced by ai?

I'm considering learning coding and developing one or two apps before i go off to university to see if the field really is for me. I'll really appreciate any sort of guidance since i have never studied cs before

I'll also appreciate it if someone could recommend other high paying cs degrees (or any degree for that matter)

As someone who lost their father at 12 father's day always makes me feel like sh*t. I always miss him sm and seeing evb talk about their fathers and stuff always makes me realise what i dont really have. The same goes for mother's day. A lot of people don't have mothers or fathers and this kind of holiday i believe is kind of insensitive. It's not something anyone would realise unless they go through it themselves if I'm being honest. Ik a lot of people will disagree saying the world doesn't cater to the needs of a few but i still believe basic empathy should exist