u/kittypillar1738

i normally wear size 2 in hollister bottoms and a small or occasionally and xs for a tighter fit. im eyeing the peyton twill jacket and i want to know how it fits before i do. is it true to size? what size did you get and what sizes do you normally wear? im also taller so im worried the sleeves will be too short. thanks for any help!

i work overnights so sometimes i ship my packages in 12 hours, sometimes i need 3 days because i am NOT awake during business hours, i communicate this to my buyers when they ask. so, i have a buyer ask why the package is taking so long to ship, i explain it to her and apologize, and we seem to be cool. i ship her package that same day, and a week goes by. nothing. after two weeks i check the tracking, and its been left at the post office. okay whatever she’ll get it when she has time. except its past the holding date now, the package is getting returned to me, and she never responded to any if my messages asking whats going on. i messaged her two weeks after it was delivered to her local post office. she has three weeks total to pick it up. why is this girl ghosting a package she already paid for?? she had so many opportunities to ask for a refund if there was buyers remorse, idk this is just so weird.

I had encopresis from potty training to age 13. My mother gave up at around age 11. So all throughout middle school, I would basically use pads as a diaper. Every day. And you can imagine how smelling like poop affected me socially. What did my mom do about this? she just gave me exorbitant amounts of laxatives (like the liquid magnesium one), so then I would spend my entire weekend shitting my little kid brains out. But as you can imagine this never fixed it. I have ADHD. Kids with ADHD or autism are more likely to have encopresis.

For ME what needed to happen after the laxative clear out, was basically training how to use my organs properly. What’s the point of getting all the poop out if the organs don’t know what to do after?? I think I genuinely cured myself purely out of shame. I was going to high school next year, how was I gonna navigate high school with this?????

and now as an adult, I have a really weird complex about smelling bad. If I feel slightly gross, I have to shower. This is just proper hygiene, but I have to use up a bidet every single time I use the washroom (I even have a travel bidet now) because even though I wipe my ass properly, I’m just terrified of smelling like poo. in high school I felt the need to put so much perfume on myself to kind of overhaul the previous bad smell if that makes sense. Like I used to smell like poo, but now I smell like apple-honey-champagne by Bath and body Works. Both are nauseating, but one smells Way better than the other.

And lastly, all those laxatives fucked my stomach up. Maybe my mom was just abusive, but she forced me to drink an entire bottle of the magnesium citrate, multiple times throughout the year. I want to gag and cry just thinking about that stuff. Please please please do not force your children to take the laxatives. This condition is incredibly traumatizing and humiliating. Yes the kids need laxatives to help, but there’s a good way and bad way to do that. I understand his parents you can get really frustrated, but you have to understand that your kid is going through something incredibly challenging. Try to get creative with the laxatives, find a wait hide it or just make it more appealing to your kid. and for the love of God, do not post about it on Facebook and talk about it with your friends. My mom did that all the time, and it was extra humiliating knowing that all of her Facebook friends knew I was shitting myself on the regular.

sorry for any weird formatting. I wrote this with speech to text

i’ve had the cheesy smell on and off, of course throughout the years. But this past month my septum has smelled like straight dick. Straight wiener. Straighten peenar. Like a foreskin after a long, long shift. “you need to clean it kittypillar1738” I do that regularly and it still smells like wiener an hour after cleaning it. My septum ring is either titanium or stainless steel i forgor. What can I do about this? For context, cause I don’t know if it helps, my two nose studs also get very stinky low-key more stinky than my septum. Am I just fucking gross???? guys I swear I clean my piercings and wash my face and what not 😭😭

i sold something for $16, and its been a week since the package got delivered, but for whatever reason my buyer has to pick it up from their local Canada post? and like ive said its been a week, i cant get my money because poshmark doesnt have it listed as “delivered” yet, its still showing “in transit”, but when you actually click the tracking number it shows that its just been sitting in a post office for a week. im going to give my buyer a few more days to go get it before i message them asking wtf is up. has this happened to anyone else? what did you do?

So I’m having a birthday party soon and decided it would be fun if everyone has to show up as a Roger persona, and I’m going to be having themed drinks. But I need your guys help coming up with said drinks. So far, I have:

1. Roy Rogers (going to add vodka)
2. Nutrigrain bar and a mountain dew (shot of fireball chased with mountain dew 🤢)
3. Steve’s rain gauge (iirc it was marg that stan made in this episode so probably margaritas in a long tube)

I cannot think of any others. I’m not a huge drinker so I’m having trouble. Please help me, and be creative!! Anything from the show directly, or inspired by the show.

i got prescribed this today (i didn’t want an ssri or snri because i freaking HATED Lexapro so i didnt even want to bother trying another), and im a bit worried from the side effects. anyone taking this for anxiety or something paired with anxiety, how was it once you got used to it? i have a three month dose and then im going back yo the psychiatrist to see if its good for me or not, so its not a big deal if i hate jt too. also while im here, how is your experiences with xanax for anxiety? ive been interested in that because i just want something i can take as needed as opposed to every day

PLEASE PLEASE PELASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASSSSS restock the ultra low rise micro mini short in BLACK. I NEED BLACK LOW RISE SHORTS, and those are a needle in a haystack apparently!!! Hollister is the only brand that actually does low rise properly, everywhere else sits right below my navel. yeah, I know there’s the low rise shorts in stock still in black, but the low rise compared to the ultra low rise mini look… Baggy? Like the crotch and butt look like they have some extra room… and I’m trying to have some Hoochie mama shorts

i am f21. i work in a warehouse that is mostly males due to the shift i work. any women im too shy to talk to (but working on it haha). i got trained by m19 (well have him kyle) a few months ago, and while training he introduced me to his little group. they were nice enough and invited me to eat lunch with them so i did. for a few months it was fine, although they would often “mansplain” things to me or just be kind of dismissive (ONLY to me… the only woman in the group…). long story short, kyle pissed me off big time, so I decided that the next week when I went in, I wouldn’t say hello to him because I didn’t wanna talk to him. Two or three weeks goes by and this man has not talked to me because I didn’t initiate. For context this guy in multiple other guys in this little group had said that we were friends. A friend doesn’t not talk to you for weeks because you don’t initiate. So I confronted him about this because I was so angry and annoyed, and he starts yammering on about how he has personal stuff going on, and he walked by me multiple times with tears in his eyes, and I never asked what was wrong. I’m an adult, if something’s wrong come ask me, I’m not doing this huffing and puffing bullshit. And yes, he did have something pretty bad going on in his personal life, but he never mentioned it to me at all and then started getting the other guys in that group to get mad at me because I didn’t know what was going on. So I stopped hanging out with this group because they’re weird. But now Kyle still talks to me all the time and he’s constantly asking to go out and smoke breaks and stuff and he insists that he isn’t romantically interested in me at all, and he’s met my boyfriend, but he’s acting like a boy who has a crush on you. At the end of the workday I’ll be walking to my car to sit in there before I clock out and he’ll follow me around. I would like to ideally just be direct and say “hey all this made me really uncomfortable”, but he’s so emotionally sensitive that I know that will cause a huge turmoil and more drama. how can I pull away subtly?

i feel like i cant be myself, and this deep pit of sadness, when im in a group of people. tonight i had to leave a friends birthday party early, because even though ive known everyone there for years, i feel like an alien and just wrong. and if people ask if somethings wrong (because even though id love to have a poker face, i wear my heart on my sleeve ugh), i cant open up and say anything. i know WHY i do this, its because my mom is a POS and didnt love me properly so now subconsciously i feel like i don’t deserve love/care and like everything i do is wrong blah blah blah mommy issues blah. i want to get over this. when these feelings arise, i feel panic set in and i want to run away. or, never be in those situations in the first place. example again, tonights birthday party. a mutual that i hate was attending, and i was embarrassed to see them due to some embarrassing things i had done in the past and hadnt seen them since. instead of telling me to deal with it like an adult, my brain was screaming at me to just not go at all. not go to a good friends birthday just because some chud i hate is going. even outside of this specific group, i feel this feeling a lot. i also have issues with food which causes me a lot of anxiety in social settings, because people dont like people who dont eat. i feel empty, weird, and alien in social settings. and then i focus on how weird im being instead of just talking and having fun. i feel like im becoming a bit agoraphobic which runs in my family weirdly enough, which scares me.