u/mander4242

The way she apologized to Daisy, made it very clear that she wasn't just sorry for not being in the room, but that she KNEW it might happen. Given how A Vidala treat Hulda and tried to treat Daisy, Estee response is not aligned with how the other Aunts responded (seemingly aunt Lydia as well, but we know thats not actually true because of what Agnes says in her narration).

So I am left to believe that Aunt Estee was an earlier victim when she was a pearl girl transitioning to Aunthood. Its not established in the show. But in the book the aunts do see the dentist. So its feasible.

Can I retro claim pslf?

I have spent mist of my adult career in no profit organizations.i was on IDR plans and SAVE the last few years. I graduated my undergraduate degree in 2019, and Ma in 2020.

I saw people saying that pslf still qualifies payments of $0?

Would i be able to retro claim my non profit service? Like if I had 5 yrs in non profit at $0/payments or forbearance?

35yo/F/not yet dx

So I work in a role that requires a lot of organization and meeting with others to discuss tasks, meeting cadence, project details and action items.

Im really struggling to "pick out" the important information. Like reading between the lines and identifying "what they mean" or are alluding to.

If its not explicitly stated my mind just cant identify what the "decision" was. It needs to be very defined and literal. Open ended or loosely decided asks are becoming an issue.

I know it annoys leadership when I am having to ask, so how often are we meeting. Im met with, " well you look at the asks and tell us"

Or when discussing ownership of tasks, they constantly say "we or they" but never specify specifically who that entails. When i know it not necessarily the person talking about it.

Am I just bad at my job lol or is this a common Autism thing?

Logged in for the first time, and narrator/screen reader is on, ONLY on the Luna "app". I cannot find how to turn it off anywhere. Please help

Not a vent but didnt find a flair cate. That worked

Anyway solo single mom to 2.5 yr old

Have never left babes for more than 5hrs maybe 8hrs 1x.

I work remote but was just assigned a massive account that theres interest in having myself and a few others travel to assist with. Right now its a 1x trip.

I have no idea how to manage leaving my kid behind to go to another state for days possibly a week. Idk if I can do it. It originally started out as a joke being like "dang we need to take a trip to X!" And by the end of the meeting they were coordinating travel dates. So idk if I can back out, I did add that I am a single mom, so that may be a barrier in my ability to go.

But it would also be a great addition to my "professional portfolio" with the organization. To have traveled as a remote employee for a significant project.

But stressing about how I have to leave my kid thousands of miles away. Especially if anything was to happen. If it was vacation id just take him with. But with the intensity of the project i know it will be jam-packed days and probably run into the evenings.

Thoughts? Experiences? Advice?