u/redbull777s

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For some background, my “friend” and I are both M22, and my fiancé is F20. Justin and I have known each other for 15 years and were roommates for about 10 months. We moved out because I lost my job, and he couldn’t afford the place on his own. My fiancé and I moved in with my grandpa and worked on getting back on our feet.

Also, for context, things between him and me have been tense since we moved out of that apartment about 8 months ago. A few weeks before we moved out of the apartment we had together, we got into a big argument. He was mad because after I left the house to go drinking with some friends, my dog pooped on the floor. I tried explaining to him that he was a puppy; if I’m not home to take him out, he’s probably going to have an accident, no problem. I can pick it up in the morning, or if he had a big problem with it, he could pick it up. My dog is small, and his turds aren’t messy. Not to mention, at the time of him blowing up on me about this, his cat’s litter box hadn’t been cleaned in about a month, and the house reeked because of it. But I’m the one who’s disgusting.

So it’s been a few months since that happened. Since then, my fiancé and I have found a pet-friendly apartment where we can have both the dog and our pet pigeon. When I was moving things out of my grandpa’s house, I found a study Bible that Justin left at the apartment when we moved out. Perfect opportunity to let Justin come over to grab the book he bought and let him check out our new apartment. I invited him over, and he accepted. The next day, he comes over, checks out my room, the bathroom, then I go sit on the couch in the living room. He’s standing in front of the tv next to the bird cage, and he says, “I’m gonna fart on that bird.” I ask him politely not to, and he says,

“But it looks so fartable.” I tell him if he farts on the bird, I’m kicking him out of my apartment. He says,

“Look at him, he’s basically begging for it.” Then he farts. Directly into the bird cage. I’m pissed. I tell him to leave multiple times, and he doesn’t. Then he tells me he’s going to move to Georgia and have kids very soon. Which is news to me, but he claims he’s told me at least four times. He then says he needs to poop. I tell him we don’t have any toilet paper since we’re still in the process of moving things in. He then grabs a bunch of paper towels off the roll in the kitchen and heads to the bathroom. I tell him he’s not flushing paper towels down my toilet, and he protests, “If you ever need anything at my house, you’re not getting it.” Then he leaves without closing the door. He was at my house for 10 minutes.

The next day, I send him a text telling him that I felt very disrespected and that I feel he’s never had any respect for my fiancé. He blows up on me, calls all my friends the R slur, and says straight up that he doesn’t respect my fiancé. After that, I blocked him.

So am I overreacting for cutting off my childhood best friend?