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Today was the funeral (see my earlier post.)

My son’s close friend died last week. Today was the funeral. It was obviously and completely indescribably sad. But it was also beautiful - the whole community showed up. And when the time for spoken remembrances came, all of these wonderfully dorky teenagers suddenly found themselves speaking in moving, clear, and loving voices about the friend they’d lost. I was so proud of each one of them (including my son) even as I - along with everyone around me - was weeping. I guess on some level one wonders how somebody so loved could have felt so alone. But that’s a question that can’t be answered, except, perhaps, with more love.

Tough day. Tough feeling. Light shining through.

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u/soulbarn — 5 days ago

Anyone using a damage protection plan?

My tCL NxtPaper 70 Pro phone was probably cheap enough that I don’t need one. But I am considering it - the issue is that being an “off” brand, I am suspicious that I’d get a genuine TCL screen as a repair part - and as we know, the screens are special. Same for replacements. Most of the plans say that they’ll replace it with something “equivalent” if it can’t be repaired. I don’t want an equivalent, I want an actual replacement.

So have you bought a damage plan? If so, from who? And have you used it?

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u/soulbarn — 24 days ago

Anyone using a damage protection plan?

My NxtPaper 70 Pro was probably cheap enough that I don’t need one. But I am considering it - the issue is that being an “off” brand, I am suspicious that I’d get a genuine TCL screen as a repair part - and as we know, the screens are special. Same for replacements. Most of the plans say that they’ll replace it with something “equivalent” if it can’t be repaired. I don’t want an equivalent, I want an actual replacement.

So have you bought a damage plan? If so, from who? And have you used it?

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u/soulbarn — 25 days ago

Finally!

We had tickets to see her in Montreal - but the pandemic closed the border (we were prepared for the six hour drive from Maine.) Now, at last, we’re seeing her in Boston tomorrow night. So excited.

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u/soulbarn — 1 month ago
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Did I ruin my new Toshiba Canvio backup drive?

Using a brand new 2TB Toshiba Canvio Advance. I wanted to download security video from my Eufy home base - but when I plugged the drive into the Home Base's USB port, the drive began clicking. I unplugged it after about 30 seconds, and was planning to return it as DOA, but I tried it on my laptop and it mounted just fine, no clicking.

But did the 30 seconds - presuming this is the sound of the internal disc touching the platter - destroy the drive's reliability going forward?

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u/soulbarn — 1 month ago

Me and my babies…

But the human baby is now 15 and my fur baby is almost 17. Of course, I haven’t aged a bit!

u/soulbarn — 1 month ago

Is September/October a good time to visit Delphi? Will things be open?

I have some expiring airline miles and have always wanted to visit Delphi. But I know summer is over. Is it worth visiting in the fall or will too many things be closed?

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u/soulbarn — 1 month ago

RIP, Bill Dawson

You might have known Bill, because he knew everybody. Or you might know him from the recent profile that appeared in the Bollard. Bill was the first friend I made when I moved to Portland seven years ago. He was a jack-of-all trades, expert carpenter; he was a terrible driver, but insisted on driving, and I went along because when we’d go out to breakfast at the Q Street Diner in S. Portland, Bill would loudly and abrasively talk shit about Donald Trump. He was a favorite of every bartender and server in town. He taught me how to use a table saw, and how - with an old house - you can never assume that what’s hidden behind walls is what you’d expect, and in fact it usually isn’t. As I said in another post, I called him “Mr. 95%,” because he never could completely finish a job. I’d like to think that’s because he liked my company. I certainly liked his. RIP to a true Portland salty dog, and condolences to his partner of 40 years, Donna.

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u/soulbarn — 1 month ago

Lemonade and cookies on Spring Street!

Saturday from noon until we run out, fresh squeezed lemonade, and homemade chocolate chip cookies, at 141 Spring St. Come on down and help a kid’s Lego and college fund!

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u/soulbarn — 2 months ago

I dream of Machaca Con Huevos…

But instead of California, where I’m from, I live in Maine, where the only kind of dried beef is
convenience store jerky.

There are a lot of options for carne seca on Amazon, but I’m not sure which one to pick. Any recommendations?

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u/soulbarn — 2 months ago

An abundance of condiments - and general questions....

We are a condiment-crazed family. The picture shows just a fraction of our current assortment. The problem? We aren't crazed enough, it seems, because we rarely use something up by the printed sell-by/use-by dates. Sometimes it's more than a year or two beyond that. We can't store most of them in the fridge because we need to save that space for pudding.

I've seen varying info on what condiments are safe to keep, long-term, and unrefrigerated. What do you all think? The only hard and fast rule of thumb we go by now is making sure mayo gets consumed before the standard date threshold.

u/soulbarn — 2 months ago

“Mortgage button” on Newell post? Real or lovely myth?

Saw this little worn square when we visited a 200 year-old house. Was told that the owners would touch it with their thumb every time they walked in, and it would wear down at just about the rate that their mortgage was being paid off. Sort of a visual indicator of how close they were to full homeownership.

I don’t know, I saw the very same inserts on every other Newell post in the house. The first one seemed the most worn, but that’s probably because it was the entry stairway, and therefore the most used.

What do you think? Do you have one of these in your century home? It’s a lovely idea…(the second picture is our 175-year-old entry Newell.)

u/soulbarn — 2 months ago

How do I find out what CMS/web editing software a site owner is using?

So, I am helping a small local business update their website. The previous person doing this - the business owner's husband - passed away four years ago, so there's a lot to update. We were successfully able to transfer admin privileges to ourselves after submitting documentation to the hosting service (bluehost.) So now, using the Bluehost control panel, I can get into the basic HTML and make small changes - but I am sure that the previous admin used some kind of interface. It doesn't seem to be Wordpress, though I'm not sure. The hosting company's tech support hasn't been helpful. Is there any way I can figure out what the previous admin was using to edit the site (we have no access to his records or computer.) Thanks.

UPDATE: They were using Adobe GoLive, confirmed by builtwith and asking ChatGPT. The site needs a major overhaul to be mobile friendly, but luckily it is only five total pages and doesn't need to be bigger. I simply asked ChatGPT to recode the page so it feels and acts more modern. Here are the results:

The original is here:

https://pilatesportland.com/sessions.html

The revised version is here:

https://pilatesportland.com/sessionstest.html

It's the first time I've used AI for basic coding. I'm kinda amazed, though I know I shouldn't be.

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u/soulbarn — 2 months ago

What do these rust lines on my water heater mean?

We already had to switch off hybrid mode and go to straightahead electric, because hybrid was throwing an error last winter. We’re getting hot water just fine, but I just noticed these rest stains today.

u/soulbarn — 2 months ago

Set up new watch for my kid, the icons look like this…

They don’t seem to be in a download process - these are the way they’ve stayed for hours. It’s an SE3 running 26.5.

u/soulbarn — 2 months ago

Has anyone tried the new HomeBase Pro?

I don’t know if it is even out yet - but I am currently using a pair of HomeBase 3 units. They’re OK, but I often notice video lag when trying to, for example, communicate with somebody at my doorbell. I’d love to correct this, and I’m fairly certain I’ve tried nearly all of the troubleshooting and networking mods that I can.

That said, the new HB is expensive. Has anyone done any direct performance comparisons?

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u/soulbarn — 2 months ago