u/ur_emo_gf1

NO MATTER WHAT I DO, WHEN I REFRESH THEY ALL REAPPEAR

i’m 18, 5’9, female, currently at 171 lbs (78kg), i’ve been on my weight loss journey for a month now, on a calorie deficit + hitting steps daily, have lost around 6lbs (3kg) so far.

i now want to include strength training into my routine, mainly for back, core and glutes/legs (focusing on these 3 to accentuate my body shape), i’ve never strength trained before and will be doing this at home and if i’m doing it well, i’ll purchase equipment (dumbbells etc) soon. i’m thinking of doing it 3 days a week, one day for each part. will this be good? am i doing something wrong? id seriously love some guidance.

i’m 18, 5’9, female, currently at 171 lbs (78kg), i’ve been on my weight loss journey for a month now, on a calorie deficit + hitting steps daily, have lost around 6lbs (3kg) so far.

i now want to include strength training into my routine, mainly for back, core and glutes/legs (focusing on these 3 to accentuate my body shape), i’ve never strength trained before and will be doing this at home and if i’m doing it well, i’ll purchase equipment (dumbbells etc) soon. i’m thinking of doing it 3 days a week, one day for each part. will this be good? am i doing something wrong? id seriously love some guidance.

i’m panicking rn 😭 for ref i use airpods 4 anc, i was cleaning them with sanitiser (idk if that’s stupid) but one airpod got too much sanitiser and ig it went into the mesh and now when i put them on, one works perfectly but the other has a sound 3x LOWER than the other WAHT DO I DO HOW DO I FIX THIS

i’m panicking rn 😭 for ref i use airpods 4 anc, i was cleaning them with sanitiser (idk if that’s stupid) but one airpod got too much sanitiser and ig it went into the mesh and now when i put them on, one works perfectly but the other has a sound 3x LOWER than the other WAHT DO I DO HOW DO I FIX THIS

i’ve been anxiously attached to my male best friend for long now. we sort of are in what you would call a “situationship”. on top of this, i suffer from BPD (i am diagnosed). we r long distance
starting march end or around the start of april, my guy best friend started to face some issues regarding his career/academics and he would often act differently, i tried my best to be okay with it, even though he changed a lot and it affected me. almost every 2 weeks he says he will get better now but now it’s been 3ish months and stuff is the same. sometimes we have amazing conversations but almost DAILY he leaves in the middle and goes for thinking sessions where he just thinks about life and stuff, there have been days we haven’t spoken at all due to his issues since he needed alone time. as much as i get affected by this, i tried my best to give him space.
i’ve had huge breakdowns and everything due to all of this and recently it’s getting bad again, i got 4 consecutive dreams about him having a fight with me or choosing me over someone else or liking other girls. these dreams result in me crying and waking up with a high heart rate at night. it’s almost like my brain is consumed by him. and now, i want to get out of this slump.
i get extremely jealous when he speaks to his other friends, that i start to cry, i literally lose my mind when he compliments another girl or i see him liking a post/reel with a girl in it. since it’s pretty clear we like each other, i literally show no interest in other men and i never even like shit like that because i know it hurts but he still does some stuff here and there, he always makes sure to explain to me or give justification and often times it’s not that deep but it hurts me so so so so much i can’t explain.
he replies to my texts 3-4 days later (reels i send/ bunch of other shit i js spam) and it makes me feel kinda bad but i let it be (we do have convos alongside tho) and when he replies, he misses on certain texts and it just hurts me every small thing breaks me.
it hurts me so much when i post something on my close friends story and he doesn’t reply to it or ask me about it.
and today, it just hurt me like he comes after 1-2 hours of thinking, texts me for 15 mins and leaves again to eat or bath or something.
i get that he has problems too but this is taking over me now i just feel too hurt.
we’ve had many arguments/discussions over this in the past 3-4 months. he says he’ll get better and be like he used to be but it’s still the same.
i really just want to be regulated, unbothered over certain things.

i’ve been anxiously attached to my male best friend for long now. we sort of are in what you would call a “situationship”. on top of this, i suffer from BPD (i am diagnosed).
starting march end or around the start of april, my guy best friend started to face some issues regarding his career/academics and he would often act differently, i tried my best to be okay with it, even though he changed a lot and it affected me. almost every 2 weeks he says he will get better now but now it’s been 3ish months and stuff is the same. sometimes we have amazing conversations but almost DAILY he leaves in the middle and goes for thinking sessions where he just thinks about life and stuff, there have been days we haven’t spoken at all due to his issues since he needed alone time. as much as i get affected by this, i tried my best to give him space.
i’ve had huge breakdowns and everything due to all of this and recently it’s getting bad again, i got 4 consecutive dreams about him having a fight with me or choosing me over someone else or liking other girls. these dreams result in me crying and waking up with a high heart rate at night. it’s almost like my brain is consumed by him. and now, i want to get out of this slump.
i get extremely jealous when he speaks to his other friends, that i start to cry, i literally lose my mind when he compliments another girl or i see him liking a post/reel with a girl in it. since it’s pretty clear we like each other, i literally show no interest in other men and i never even like shit like that because i know it hurts but he still does some stuff here and there, he always makes sure to explain to me or give justification and often times it’s not that deep but it hurts me so so so so much i can’t explain.
he replies to my texts 3-4 days later (reels i send/ bunch of other shit i js spam) and it makes me feel kinda bad but i let it be (we do have convos alongside tho) and when he replies, he misses on certain texts and it just hurts me every small thing breaks me.
it hurts me so much when i post something on my close friends story and he doesn’t reply to it or ask me about it.
and today, it just hurt me like he comes after 1-2 hours of thinking, texts me for 15 mins and leaves again to eat or bath or something.
i get that he has problems too but this is taking over me now i just feel too hurt.
we’ve had many arguments/discussions over this in the past 3-4 months. he says he’ll get better and be like he used to be but it’s still the same.
i really just want to be regulated, unbothered over certain things.

i have doubts, pls comment here so i can dm you

are all rooms triple sharing ? or are there double sharing rooms too ? for freshers, girls

fresher here, my session starts on 3rd aug, onboarding on 30/31, is it fine tho if i join a few days later? since i MIGHT be travelling

i’m literally so lost does it stand for student hostel and where do i check mine, also i haven’t started packing 🙏 since i was waiting on another uni’s result, im super scared😭

r the bathrooms communal like those in ashoka? (i’ve heard so) or does each hostel room have their own?

i’m shit scared for some reason, didn’t get my dream college, im mostly scared about staying on campus, in hostel, im really really anxious and scared, im not mentally prepared, i haven’t shopped for anything, i’m scared i wont make friends, im scared about how ill manage

please lmk, as long as i’m in a deficit, i can eat anything right? as long as it fits my protein goal + calorie limit, this sounds like such a cheat code 😭 like too good to be true,,