u/vulgarandgorgeous

There was a video of a newborn photoshoot and i made a few comments starting with “these photoshoots are so weird” and when someone asked why, I said “the baby is propped up like a doll in unnatural positions” and i got a ton of comments saying “you are reaching, the baby is fine” “the baby is comfortable” “the baby is not in distress”

I am so confused because none of my comments insinuated that I thought the baby was uncomfortable or in distress.. all i said was that the whole premise of dressing up a sleeping unconscious infant and propping them up like a doll in weird positions for a photo is weird. Obv the baby is comfortable or it wouldnt be sleeping so why is everyone assuming thats what i meant??

Ive been wearing sunscreen daily since I was 22 and I am 32 now. It’s like brushing my teeth. I would feel naked without it and i often forget most people do not wear their sunscreen daily. I dont understand how people spend so much money on fancy botox or skincare products but don’t put on sunscreen

Ive dieted down to my ideal leanness which was about a 10 lb weight loss. I am happy with my upper body but my legs are too skinny. For the past 4 years I’ve focused mostly on legs and glutes but because I’ve been dieting I think I have only put on like 3 lbs of muscle throughout all that time if I am going by measurements and how I look. I am currently 5’5 111 lbs. My measurements are 32-23-35 and my thighs are 19.5 inches. I would like to keep my upper body measurements the same but grow my thigh and glute measurements. Is this a realistic goal and if so what can I do to achieve it? I do not care if it takes a long time but I want to make sure I am doing it right. i also don’t want to have to get fat to make it happen.

I bought the nulu high neck top in xs and the pads do not lay flat in the bra holes no matter how i try to put it in. Its this a manufacturer defect? Can I cut the removable pads to fit? I dont want to take them out because I need some padding

Idk if I chose the right tag. I want to sing jazz but I am classically trained as a soprano and have focused most of my singing on opera pieces. What will help me learn jazz? I feel like it sounds really boring when I try to sing it

I see book 2 of {Wolves of Ruin series by Sable Sorensen} on kindle but its not included in kindle unlimited like dire bound is.

I am so tired of reading “enemies to lovers” books only to find out that they just aren’t on the same side and aren’t actual enemies… I feel as if thats just forbidden romance. Enemies should be when both INDIVIDUALS hate each other. Its also usually just one-sided mild dislike

I was curling my friend’s hair who has hair about tailbone length (she is also tall at 5’8) and those curls lasted all of 30 min on her. She has similar texture to mine. My hair is waist length almost (i am 5’5) and holds a curl for at least 24 hours. When It was shorter it would hold for like three days. I love styling my hair too much to have that issue so my goal is only waist length. It got me thinking, what length does your hair tend to just fall flat and not hold a style?