u/3sperr

Ive been watching anime 8 years so I already watched the popular ones(still suggest regardless since i may not have watched it due to lack of time). What are some non ongoing anime I can bigne right now? Im bored

Nora vs forces was so bad too. I dont know how its possible to make a piece of fiction that bad. How? Its so garbage I left off on the middle of s8 years ago and still havent continued. And at this point, I dont think im missing out on much

Like how do you defend her. I cant even defend myself LMAO. If some dude starts harrassing your gf or someone calls her names or youre on a game and people roast her on vc, then what do you do. How does your socially anxious brain even deal with situations like that where you have to stand up for your girl or yourself

Looking to replace my current one. Need recs

Thats it. Thats the vent. Cant take this no more bro💔

Cooked

I hate making posts like this but I figured id find out before continuing. I just finished ep 18. I would like to start this off by saying it was a good episode. Maybe the best one all season. Peak writing, voice acting and direction. However,

Seeing subaru with this much love and support kinda makes me realize how big the support gap is between me and him. If i were to crash out like that or even at a lower intensity then would people even care 🥀. For someone to love him this unconditionally. Its crazy. Way too rare irl. Then i look back at what ive got going on for support system, and the difference is so staggering it feels kind of weird. Bro is out here getting this much kindness and support yet I'm lucky to even get a basic call(never happens)

Should I drop the series from now, or do I just say its a skill issue and keep at it. Maybe I came in for the wrong reasons? I heard the show was basically mega depression so I thought itd be good for catharsis and relatability especially since I knew about the ep 18 self hate dialogue before watching(however the audio cut out the rem comforting parts). But actually watching it now, this is not relatable lol I feel like shiot

TW: If your ocd latches onto random nonsensical facts and you get a new theme, this post may do that so yeah

I picked up a tv from facebook marketplace and one of the seller's kids decided to be really nice and give me a free candy

Now im wondering "what if the candy is cursed? what if when you eat it, bad things will happen?"

Theres zero logic I can use to counter this

Now what?

STILL waiting for the new chapter and it’s been like a year. What happened?

And do I just pack it up and read the novel? Are there any physical copies? I just want some more material before the anime comes out.

Usually I don’t title in caps but I’m so annoyed right now. The ocd didn’t used to be all that bad but the somatic and magical thinking are my main themes at the moment and man it’s bad. Even when I’m trying to go to sleep sometimes I have to take a pic of myself on my phone to make sure that everytbing is ok. Anyone with somatic ocd probably understands this compulsion. I hate body checking because it actually takes movement and energy. At least with magical thinking it’s just mental exhaustion but with somatic it’s both physical and mental too. And I find that both these themes overlap sometimes. It’s so bad even HOCD doesn’t feel like much now

Hi fellow INTJs (or other types). So as usual I’ve been trying to focus exclusively on work, optimization and career. However, my brain constantly complains “but… but what about love!” and it’s been annoying me for months. Constantly complaining everytime im not actively working, saying it wants connection and wants safety. It sounds like a baby crying constantly. It’s been interfering with my rest day which is there for me to prevent burnout. I only get one, and even that’s ruined.

The problem is, due to complicated circumstances I can’t pursue that at the moment. I’m in a pretty delicate stage of my life where the stakes are high. I don’t want to be distracted by emotions.

So as a result Id like to hear some bad experiences people had in relationships, or, the worst aspects of a relationship to trigger my anxiety, and make my brain think it’s not as glorious as it thinks it is. Basically scaring myself out of it. Most definitely will not fix the root cause, but I’d like to at least try it out to see if it helps. Because ive been trying to tell my brain the amount of time, money, resources and energy I’ll lose and how it could delay my goals but it doesn’t care. It’s a futile struggle. The thoughts are especially strong since I’ve yet to experience one, though it’s mostly by choice right now. Because I thought of it as risky.

This doesnt even seem like a place to make friends its just a place for horny redditors, especially dudes, trying to get esex.

And even the numbers show it. As soon as you slap an "F" on your post, immediate 30 comments, and we all know what a fair portion of those guys are up to.

Then when people are genuinely trying to make friends, it just doesnt happen. Like ok if i post "19M" then it gets nothing. If i did a typo and wrote "19F" instead, then id get too many messages. Have you guys actually managed to make friends on here lol. I cant even make friends with other dudes either because they just want e tits. No one cares to hop on a game or talk about life. Its like people just cant be normal. Like dont people understand that theres more to life than flirting lmao, normal conversations can be fun too.

Once i even had a dude dm me, and thought I was a girl. He was in his 30s or 40s and said "well, unless you like older men". I told him im a guy and he deleted his account immediately.

Ive been playing chess for 5 hours, and 80% of it was spent studying. I either lose, get stalemated, or if im actually going to win, they resign.

Problem with resignation is that it raises my elo but gives me zero experience of setting up and executing a checkmate properly. Is there a way to get past this?

10 year haitus. I used to play in elementary school then came back today. Apparently used to be decent back then. Forgot almost everything. Got mated in 2 moves. How to not be embarrassed? 😭✌️

Ill still kjeep playing but ill probably never forget this. Like bruh its even called FOOL's mate im cooked already

But at the same time i died laughing. I cant even be mad honestly. 6 seconds and thats it, it took a few moments for it to sink in. I didnt even know what happened

Im a uni student and im looking for a job as a server. If I want to work the entire school year (not just summer) then whens the best time to apply? July, august or sept?

Im a uni student and im looking for a job as a server. If I want to work the entire school year (not just summer) then whens the best time to apply? July, august or sept?

Protective styles (twists, cornrows etc) cost like 150 nowadays, I dont have the money to dish out like that.

But wearing an afro also means I cant wear a helmet since it doesnt fit

Sad music is fine and all but id like sad scriptures too. Wonder if lamentations is a good one. Loneliness and existential isolation scriptures also work. Thanks

Edit: I just wanted to say thanks for the suggestions. You guys are being really cool right now

Idk if its just me lmao. My ocd brain likes latching onto things. Im scared that one day itll see something and be like "Oh wait... wait a minute... THIS ACTUALLY MAKES SENSE!" and then its just cooked