18 [F] East Coast / Online - Creative anime, art & fashion girly seeking a kind, stylish guy (18–25)

I’m 18F, on the East Coast, and looking to talk to men around 18-25.

I’m an aspiring model and future mangaka, who dreams of moving to Japan someday~and I love anime, fashion, drawing, photography, C-pop/K-pop/J-pop, and video games.

I’m hoping for someone with a soft heart that’s kind, funny, emotionally mature, and able to hold an actual conversation.

Looking for shared interests, and something genuine! Like a shared interest in art, music, anime, or fashion would be cute~

Please be 18–25. I’m not interested in messages outside that range.

If you message me, please include your age, time zone, and an anime recommendation or a song you’ve had on repeat lately.

Bonus points:
I’d adore someone who loves various East Asian inspired fashion and would have fun planning cute outfits and dressing up together. ♡

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u/AbirisuChokoreto — 1 day ago
▲ 2 r/softclassic+1 crossposts

What can be improved, & are they super feminine,ladylike & refined?

How well did i do for the refined, ladylike super feminine style from 1-10? And Is there anything I can do to enhance it to match the style I’m after?
Also where to shop to find more super feminine clothing that are refined and ladylike?
I tried my best to pick items made of real material so I hope I did well and if not then I’m all for how to improve.

Here is the clothing list for each outfit:

No.1

Amazon essentials pink boatneck, made of cotton and model blend
Sheplus freshwater cultured pearl clip ons
Jo wisdom freshwater cultured pearl necklace
Daisy silk 100% silk skirt
Cheruty leather crossbody bag
satin kitten heels

No.2

Ebossy velvet mermaid skirt
Lily silk tie silk blouse
Nylons
Chain belt
Leather bow tie loafers

No.3

Clark’s leather pump
Viscose bamboo mermaid skirt
Sterling silver Y necklace
Viscose bamboo ribbed turtleneck

No.4

Merokeety dolly dress made out of mostly viscose and some spandex
100% mulberry silk padded headband
Straw basket bag (I’m planning to swap the gold chain for a silver one to match the belt)
Leather belt
Plush cushion indoor & outdoor slippers

No.5

Thyxsilk mulberry silk dress
Lace bolero
Silver plated Barrett
Thin silver belt
Clark’s leather pump
Plinvo crossbody bag (also swapping the chain for a silver one)

No.6

Universal 2pc set (i’m uncertain what the material is)
Sterling silver bangles set
Hibiscus clip
Satin sandals
Straw bag (also gonna swap the chain for silver)

No.7

Ribbed mock neck viscose bamboo tank
Viscose bamboo mermaid skirt
Diamond necklace
Clark’s leather pumps

No.8

Amazon essentials cotton sundress
Satin sandals
Sunhat and crotchet bag set
Silver bangles

No.9

Wool mini skirt
Nylons
Viscose bamboo ribbed plunge neck top
Clark’s leather pump

No.10

Lace top
Ponte midi skirt
Rose clip
Clark’s leather pump
Mulberry silk sash
Fresh water culture pearl necklace
Fresh water culture pearl bracelet

No.11

Rose gold bangle
Mulberry silk tank
Work Ponte button skirt
Plinvo crossbody
Clark’s leather pump
Mulberry Silk bag scarf
Mulberry silk ponytail tie

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago
▲ 6 r/GetFeminine+2 crossposts

I’m looking for a proper refined, super feminine, and ladylike wardrobe, I’ve struggled in the past with my clothes looking cheap or ill-fitting, and I want to change that!

Frame: Hourglass (40F/G cup, 40 hip, 32 waist). I struggle with finding clothes that fit the bust without being baggy in the waist or they tend to just fit me poorly.
Misc: cool Winter tone, green eyes, long dark brown hair.
My goals: I want to start dressing super feminine and like a proper refined lady, I’m not a huge fan of shorts or pants and more of a dresses&skirts lady. I’d like to emphasize my waist, find flattering necklines for my bust, and move away from flimsy fabrics to more structured, tailored and quality pieces.
Does anyone have recommendations for brands, sites and stores that cater to an hourglass shape with higher-quality fabrics, and tailoring and In refined feminine styles? I am also open to advice on how to spot feminine styles and quality when shopping or how to better utilize tailoring to achieve a more refined and feminine aesthetic.
I’d also appreciate it if they have good sales too because I’m not the richest in the world obviously, but I’d still like to buy quality than something that’s cheap and poor fitting.

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u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago

Feminine hairstyles and haircut recommendations? Should I commit to the big chop?

(First two pics are of me, others are hairstyles I’m curious about)
I’d like some feminine hairstyle and haircut recommendations for my round face and facial features that would be feminine and flatters me the most.
So… people have told me I would look really good if I got my hair chopped off really short but I’ve had others begging me to keep its length so I’m at a loss as far what to do… I’m thinking about if I keep its length maybe a butterfly cut with voluminous waves and curtain bangs with face frames or if I get it chopped maybe something like those voluminous short 80s haircuts like Marlyn Monroe…
I’ve done a previous post but someone recommended me to redo it without my glasses off so here I am.
I’ve provided some refs for the haircuts I’m thinking about and would love to see yall personal recommendations too.

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago

Most hyper feminine options? (Final)

I’m going to buy some outfits for prime day & want to learn from my previous mistakes where I was buying without getting a second opinion so I want advice on which ones suits the hyper feminine style the most & would flatter my listed features: I’m 5’4, hourglass, (40F/G40chest,hip,34waist) winter tone with long hair + green eyes + round face & glasses
I wish to dress like a proper refined feminine lady!

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago

Most hyper feminine options? (1/2)

I’m going to buy some outfits for prime day & want to learn from my previous mistakes where I was buying without getting a second opinion so I want advice on which ones suits the hyper feminine style the most & would flatter my listed features: I’m 5’4, hourglass, (40F/G40hip,34waist) winter tone with long hair + green eyes + round face & glasses
I wish to dress like a proper refined feminine lady!

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago

Most hyper feminine options? (1/3)

I’m going to buy some outfits for prime day & want to learn from my previous mistakes where I was buying without getting a second opinion so I want advice on which ones suits the hyper feminine style the most & would flatter my listed features: I’m 5’4, hourglass, (40F/G40hip,34waist) winter tone with long hair + green eyes + round face & glasses
I wish to dress like a proper refined feminine lady!

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago
▲ 1 r/softclassic+1 crossposts

Going to buy some really cute feminine outfits for prime day, which ones are the most feminine&ojou sama that would suit my features and which are the least so I can avoid? (Final)

I made some really nice outfit collages and I really love these styles:
Kireimi
Old money (eastern Asian ver)
Otona
French Girly
Academic chic
Feminine
Douyin
No makeup look

But of all else the main style I’m prioritizing is feminine, if it hits any of those other checkmarks then I’m more than happy but they are more as a side sprinkle and not the main focal point.

I’m 5’4, hourglass/soft romantic, (40F/G40hip,34waist) winter tone with long hair + green eyes + round face & glasses

I wish to dress like a proper refined feminine lady so any help is appreciated!

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago
▲ 0 r/jfashion+1 crossposts

Going to buy some really cute feminine outfits for prime day, which ones are the most feminine&ojou sama that would suit my features and which are the least so I can avoid? (Part 2)

I made some really nice outfit collages and I really love these styles:
Kireimi
Old money (eastern Asian ver)
Otona
French Girly
Academic chic
Feminine
Douyin
No makeup look

But of all else the main style I’m prioritizing is feminine, if it hits any of those other checkmarks then I’m more than happy but they are more as a side sprinkle and not the main focal point.

I’m 5’4, hourglass, (40F/G40hip,34waist) winter tone with long hair + green eyes + round face & glasses

I wish to dress like a proper refined feminine lady so any help is appreciated!

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago
▲ 0 r/fashionhelp+1 crossposts

Going to buy some really cute feminine outfits for prime day, which ones are the most feminine&ojou sama that would suit my features and which are the least so I can avoid? (Part 1)

I made some really nice outfit collages and I really love these styles:
Kireimi
Old money (eastern Asian ver)
Otona
French Girly
Academic chic
Feminine
Douyin
No makeup look

But of all else the main style I’m prioritizing is feminine, if it hits any of those other checkmarks then I’m more than happy but they are more as a side sprinkle and not the main focal point.

I’m 5’4, hourglass, (40F/G40hip,34waist) winter tone with long hair + green eyes + round face & glasses

I wish to dress like a proper refined feminine lady so any help is appreciated!

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago

Please recommend me a pair of super feminine shoes to go with this sundress?

I would like to find a pair of super feminine shoes to go with my Amazon basics cotton midi sundress!

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago

Help choose a feminine pair of shoes to go with this outfit?

Also should I do a sunhat with a silk bow, or a flower hair pin?
I’m thinking of leaving my hair down and doing light makeup like the collage examples.

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago
▲ 0 r/fashionhelp+1 crossposts

Which of these would be best wearing for my digitals shoot?

I’m wanting to take some digitals for r/modeling sub & saw that form fitting clothing like gym wear or even swimsuits would be ideal. Just wondering which ones I should choose that would be the best?

(I’m 5’4, hourglass, (40F/G40hip,34waist) winter tone with long hair + green eyes + round face & glasses)

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago
▲ 20 r/fashion

Felt cute so thought I’d share

Some of my favorite fashion styles are:
Kireimi
Old money
Otona
French Girly
Academic chic
Feminine
& I have been trying to dress for those aesthetics so if it suits any of those please lemme know!
If there’s anything I can do better I’d appreciate it!

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago

I tried makeup for the first time & I’m a beginner, how did I do & what can I improve on?

My favorite makeup styles are Douyin, Japanese anime inspired looks, soft Korean and no makeup look.
These are the aesthetics I’m trying to master.
Any advice for what I could improve on is welcome!
(This is filter free, my screen protector got caught on my camera)

Product list

L'Oreal Paris True Match Radiant Serum Concealer, Brightening Under Eye Concealer Make Up with 1.5% Hyaluronic Acid and Caffeine, C1, 0.33 Oz

COLORGRAM Under Eye Highlighter Stick 06 Cool Pink | Silky-Smooth Long-Lasting Highlighter & Contouring Stick for Smudge-Proof, Shining Daily Makeup | K-Beauty Face Highlighters & Luminizers

SKINFOOD Peach Cotton Pore Blur Pact - Sebum Control Pack with Silky Texture - Long Lasting Makeup Fixing - Pore Primer with Mineral Powder for Oily Skin - Stocking Stuffers - Pore Quick Minimizer

essence | What the Fake! Glass Shine Plumping Lip Filler | Clear Gloss with a High Shine Plumping Effect | Infused with Ginger Oil and Hyaluronic Acid | Vegan, Gluten Free & Cruelty Free

Winky Lux Cheeky Rose Cream Blush – High Pigment, Weightless Color for Cheeks, Effortlessly Blendable Makeup with Vitamin E, Neutral Mauve, Dodgy

numbuzin sunscreen spf 50

rom&nd beauty Juicy Lasting Tint - 12HR Long Lasting Lip Stain with Hydrating Fruit Extracts - Highly Pigmented, Lightweight, Glossy Finish Buildable Korean Lip Tint - 0.19 oz (#25 Bare Grape)

CLIO Pro Eye Palette Air, 12-Color Eye Shadow Palette, Matte Shimmer Mix, Air-Fit Blendable Pigmented Buildable Color, Low Fallout, Cool Mauve Neutral Tone, Daily Korean Makeup (07 LAVENDER STAFF)

TIRTIR Mask Fit Red Cushion Foundation | Full coverage, Weightless, Skin fit, Satin Glow Finish, Korean Makeup BB Foundation, beauty, Tattoo cover up, Buildable (#10C Shell, 0.63 Fl Oz)

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago

please give advice on how I can glow up? Also curious if I’d look better with a haircut like the one at the end too.

I wanna glow up! To become a better improved version of myself and look my best! I have a dream for a certain career and this will be a major requirement for it! Features: winter tone with long hair + green eyes + round face & glasses, I’m 5’4, hourglass, (40F/G40hip,34waist)
My personal favorite makeup looks are Douyin and minimal No makeup looks, soft Korean looks, and Japanese inspired anime makeup. And my favorite personal style of clothing is super feminine and some highlights of old money. Other styles I enjoy are: Kireimi, Otona,French Girly, Academic chic.
Also curious if I’d look better with a haircut like the one at the end too.

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago
▲ 1 r/Makeup101+1 crossposts

How can I improve my Douyin meets clean girl makeup look? Constructive Critiques are welcome!

I like it but I also hate it at the same time, This is filter free just in case yall were curious, & I’m very new to makeup this is my first try at doing makeup. I am absolutely obsessed with the no makeup look & Douyin/dolly makeup, Korean makeup, and Japanese makeup, natural looking makeup too.
I followed this tutorial here: dear peachie beginners makeup tutorial
But I feel like I failed at following the tutorial.
Advice? Ways to improve? And constructive criticism is also welcomed!

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago

How well did I do for this feminine, ojou sama, luxurious aesthetic mid range budget, makeup starter kit?

Tell me your thoughts, how well I did for the starter aesthetic kit, and what you think I could improve/add?
Also is the kit suitable for these following makeup looks: Douyin/doll makeup, no makeup look, & natural look?

Product list\~

\> Heart Percent Dote On Mood Lip Liner Pencil, Long-Lasting Creamy Lip Crayon Smooth Lipliner Retractable Lipstick Overlip Line Color 0.8g, #21. Rosy Lips

\> PERIPERA SYRUPY TOK CHEEK 15 Colors, Liquid Blush, Dewy Finish and Hydrates All day, Soft Velvet Texture Face Cheek Tint (11 FOGGY BERRY)

\> 2aN Pure Glash Highlighter PU01 Twilight – Glass-Like Sheen Powder Highlighter for a Natural, Radiant Glow | Buildable, Long-Lasting, Lightweight Formula

\> CANMAKE Mermaid Skin Gel 01 Clear 1.41 oz (40 g)

\> JUDYDOLL Highlight & Contour Palette, All-in-One Matte Highlighter Contour Compact, Natural Brightening Finish for Cool Fair & Olive Skin (New Version 01 Wave Shadow Palette)

\> L'Oreal Paris Colour Riche Original Creamy, Hydrating Satin Lipstick with Argan Oil and Vitamin E, Ballerina Shoes , 1 Count

\> Heroine Make by KissMe Smooth Liquid Eyeliner | Waterproof Black Liquid Eyeliner Pen | Smudge-Proof Formula for Long-Lasting Wear | Hypoallergenic for Sensitive Eyes | Made in Japan

\> Heroine Make by KissMe Mascara Remover | Waterproof Makeup Remover Wand | Gentle Eye Makeup Solution for Sensitive Eyes | Travel Size for Waterproof Makeup | Made in Japan

\> Heroine Make by KissMe Volume & Curl Mascara Black | Waterproof, Volumizing & Lengthening Mascara for Thick, Defined Lashes | Smudge-Proof, Curling Formula | Made in Japan

\> Koji Curving Eyelash Curler

\> Charlotte Tilbury Airbrush Flawless Finish Setting Powder - Pore-Blurring Pressed Powder for Face Makeup to Minimize Shine with a Soft-Focus Finish

\> TIRTIR Mask Fit Make-up Fixer | 24H Transfer-Resistant Lightweight Non-Greasy Makeup Setting Spray 2.7 Fl Oz

\> TIRTIR Mask Fit Red FoundationㅣLong Lasting Flawless Coverage, Energy Essence, Lightweight, Hydrating, Pore-Blurring, Breathable Satin Finish, Makeup, Radiant Skin, #10C Shell, 1.01 Fl Oz

\> CATKIN Full Coverage Dual-Ended Liquid Concealer Eraser Dark Circles Treatment, Creamy Blendable smooth formula for Blemishes Redness, Long Lasting Waterproof, Sponge Tip Included 5g C01 Shell

\> Kiss Lash Adhesive, Lash Glue, 24hr Strip Eyelash Adhesive, Clear, Includes Lash Adhesive, Long Lasting Wear, Can Be Used with Strip Lashes and Lash Clusters

\> Kiss Lash Couture Faux Mink Lash Extensions, Style 'Venus', Exclusive Flat-Band Technology, Short & Medium Length, 60 Individual Lash Clusters, Glue On Lashes

\> Milani Lip Gloss, Keep It Full Nourishing Lip Plumper with Hyaluronic Acid & Peptides for Soft, Fuller-Looking Lips (0.13 Fl. Oz.) Moonlight

\> Amy’s diary White Pink Purple 4Colors Eyeshadow Makeup Palette with Mirror,Natural Neutral Powde Eye Shadow Palettes for Older Women,Long Lasting Naturing-Looking,Lightweight Eye Makeup Kit Travel Size,Vegan

\> Flower Knows The Sweetie Bear Dual-Ended Brow Gel & Pencil,Long Lasting with Precision Tip,Eyebrow Definer Pencil,Creates Full,Natural-Looking,Tames and Combs Brow Brush(01 Taupe Brown)

\> Crystal Flower PH Lip Balm Color Changing Magic Lipstick Jelly Luxury Long Lasting Nutritious Gloss Clear pintalabios magicos, Pink Flower

\> Makeup Sponges Set - Beauty sponges Blending Blenders with 1 Holder and Egg Case, Flawless for Cream, Powder and Liquid (Pink, 4Pcs+1Holder+ case)

\> Revlon Kiss Sugar Scrub Exfoliating Lip Balm, 24 Hour Long Lasting Hydration, Sugar Mint, 0.09 oz

\> The Ordinary Multi-Peptide Lash and Brow Serum, Peptide-Powered Formula for Thicker, Fuller Looking Lashes & Brows

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago
▲ 31 r/bangs+2 crossposts

Best feminine haircut and bangs for my features?

(This is a re-upload, with more photos and hopefully better picture quality)

Hi beauties! I’m currently looking to get some haircut & bang suggestions that would suit my features the best!
I have a very long straight hime cut, round face, glasses, soft facial features and full double lidded green almond shaped eyes. I would like hair styles and haircuts that would suit my features & Feminine aesthetic with some hints of old money/fancy luxury princess vibes.
I’m not 100% what my color analysis is yet but I’m thinking I’m somewhere winter or cool toned… I’d also appreciate hair color suggestions for my aesthetic goals and to accommodate my features!
I’m thinking about getting it dyed black with some hints of color or something like that?
I’m also wondering about S shaped side swept bangs or curtain bangs too…

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago

How well did I do for this feminine, ojou sama, luxurious aesthetic mid range budget, makeup starter kit?

Tell me your thoughts, how well I did for the starter aesthetic kit, and what you think I could improve/add?

u/AbirisuChokoreto — 2 months ago