u/Agile-Win-throwaway

Well where do I start…

Im in my early 30s and I met her back early 2025 she is in her late twenties. A few weeks not even a month she told me she was bisexual and never dated anyone. I had just told her that I actually don’t care who I’m with just as long as I’m in love. And I had told her my brother is gay. She had never told anyone she was bi besides a handful of people she is super close with.
Btw she is Muslim.

After about 3 months she told me I was her type. Then after that for a few months she was being bold flirty like calling me out on me checking her out. I never was because we were in a workplace area. Then she dared me to ask someone out who wasn’t on the dating apps and I did and it was her I asked out.

She said I’m looking for a tall Muslim guy to marry. Well after that she always confused me. She eventually did stop bringing up that she was looking for a tall Muslim guy. She stopped being bold flirty when I admitted feelings. And always would say she would never pursue and wants to be pursued. She has a fear of rejection. Her words never matched her actions. And when she would say to me I see you as a friend then a few days later would say my words don’t mean what I say.

She raised her voice once when I was overthinking and asking her questions. She told me to pay attention to her actions and read between the lines all the time.

Now fast forward we are in 2026. I truly like this girl but nothing has changed. I am on the dating apps too. We don’t work together anymore but we do see each other everyday anymore since we don’t work together.

Back then around the first 6 months she would say we shall find ur perfect person. Or we both gotta just walk around patiently and find our soulmate.
To talking me hopefully I will find someone amazing on the dating app.

But then in person tell me my words done mean what I say.

To now when I say I still think of her more than a friend tells me girl noo get something else to think about.

What do you guys think? Move on right?

This is a hot mess and she’s only confusing my brain.

Well where do I start…

Im in my early 30s female and I met this girl back early 2025 she is in her late twenties. A few weeks not even a month she told me she was bisexual and never dated anyone. I had just told her that I actually don’t care who I’m with just as long as I’m in love. And I had told her my brother is gay. She had never told anyone she was bi besides a handful of people she is super close with.
Btw she is Muslim.

After about 3 months she told me I was her type. Then after that for a few months she was being bold flirty like calling me out on me checking her out. I never was because we were in a workplace area. Then she dared me to ask someone out who wasn’t on the dating apps and I did and it was her I asked out.

She said I’m looking for a tall Muslim guy to marry. Well after that she always confused me. She eventually did stop bringing up that she was looking for a tall Muslim guy. She stopped being bold flirty when I admitted feelings. And always would say she would never pursue and wants to be pursued. She has a fear of rejection. Her words never matched her actions. And when she would say to me I see you as a friend then a few days later would say my words don’t mean what I say.

She raised her voice once when I was overthinking and asking her questions. She told me to pay attention to her actions and read between the lines all the time.

Now fast forward we are in 2026. I truly like this girl but nothing has changed. I am on the dating apps too. We don’t work together anymore but we do see each other everyday anymore since we don’t work together.

Back then around the first 6 months she would say we shall find ur perfect person. Or we both gotta just walk around patiently and find our soulmate.
To talking me hopefully I will find someone amazing on the dating app.

But then in person tell me my words done mean what I say.

To now when I say I still think of her more than a friend tells me girl noo get something else to think about.

What do you guys think? Move on right?

This is a hot mess and she’s only confusing my brain.

Well where do I start…

Im in my early 30s female and I met this girl back early 2025 she is in her late twenties. A few weeks not even a month she told me she was bisexual and never dated anyone. I had just told her that I actually don’t care who I’m with just as long as I’m in love. And I had told her my brother is gay. She had never told anyone she was bi besides a handful of people she is super close with.
Btw she is Muslim.

After about 3 months she told me I was her type. Then after that for a few months she was being bold flirty like calling me out on me checking her out. I never was because we were in a workplace area. Then she dared me to ask someone out who wasn’t on the dating apps and I did and it was her I asked out.

She said I’m looking for a tall Muslim guy to marry. Well after that she always confused me. She eventually did stop bringing up that she was looking for a tall Muslim guy. She stopped being bold flirty when I admitted feelings. And always would say she would never pursue and wants to be pursued. She has a fear of rejection. Her words never matched her actions. And when she would say to me I see you as a friend then a few days later would say my words don’t mean what I say.

She raised her voice once when I was overthinking and asking her questions. She told me to pay attention to her actions and read between the lines all the time.

Now fast forward we are in 2026. I truly like this girl but nothing has changed. I am on the dating apps too. We don’t work together anymore but we do see each other everyday anymore since we don’t work together.

What do you guys think? Move on right?

This is a hot mess and she’s only confusing my brain.

I’m thinking of leasing a car just to get a good monthly payment.

What are good leasing options out there in Texas?

I do have greater credit score. Would like the monthly payments to be less than $700/month.

I don’t care about what kind of car it is as long as it’s a sedan or suv.