I’ve noticed this and I don’t know how I feel about it. But sometimes women post like on their social media of celebrity men or fantasy books guys and on their videos it says may this type of man find me. Or the video says I want a man to show up at my door.
Or videos that have Taylor swift songs and it says I’m staying single until someone makes me feel like this.
I’ve noticed this and I don’t know how I feel about it. But sometimes women post like on their social media of celebrity men or fantasy books guys and on their videos it says may this type of man find me. Or the video says I want a man to show up at my door.
Or videos that have Taylor swift songs and it says I’m staying single until someone makes me feel like this.
I get mixed signals but it’s been over a year now.
It’s been a bit over a year and I still really like this Pakistani girl.
No idea if she likes me back more than a friend.
Text messages
The person texted this
Stay cool outside!!
I texted back btw the person knows I call them booger as a nickname.
Yess🫡 I’ll try. I only melt around a certain booger anyway😂
Then the person texted back this
😑
So the person didn’t like it and got annoyed at me?
Is it normal to still use biodatas in America?
I wrote a lot I’m an overthinker and I’m just sad maybe depressed. Like I’m not enough.
Where do I even start. I’m a female and my friend is a female. We both are bisexual. She hasn’t came out to her family except her sisters and close friends of hers. Told me only like 5 people know. She is Pakistani Muslim. I’ll start with a timeline. I feel so dumb and I don’t even know how to stay friends with her. Her parents want her to get married already. They send her bio to family friends if they know of any single guys.
Timeline
- first met Jan 2025: within two weeks she told me she was bi I then also told her about me.
- March 2025: she asked if I was talking to anyone or dating anyone. Told her no. She said good because you’re my type
- after she told me I was her type she became bold flirty that I was checking her out or looking at her boobs. I promise I was never doing that. We worked in the same area. Told me she always wants to be pursued and chased. I was on dating apps. She would encourage that I’ll mee the one etc.
- end of May 2025: I told her I liked her and if she wanted to go on a date. She said no to date we can hangout. Told me she liked me as a friend. She wants a tall Muslim guy with muscles. She stopped encouraging me on the dating apps. And would ask me questions how my dates were. And when I would tell her I still think of her. She would say that’s good.
- she stopped being bold flirty and was more subtle and caring
- it’s now July 2026: I tell her randomly that I still like her at times. She tells me she prefers guys. But isn’t uncomfortable if I flirty with her. “You do you” she tells me. I told her I was getting in dating apps again. She told me you should do hobbies go do classes.
I forgot to mention one day like around July 2025 she wore this new pink ring and I had told her it was pretty. She had told me it was her love ring to be open to love. She had a phone call scheduled that night her parents had arranged. So when she let me hold it I had said something about I’m putting some of my soul in there. After that she started to wear that specific ring and she would let me touch it while on her hand and I would say something touching it. After January 2026 we didn’t work in the same place. And we would hangout once a month and she would wear that pink love ring. By the way she has several rings.
I feel so dumb for liking her. So what am I to her a boost ego? I have tried the dating apps on and off. Because I don’t know what she feels. If she was conflicted I wish she could tell me. But when she tells me I prefer men it hurts. That’s what she said this past weekend to me and she had been flirting and teasing me before this until I said I still like you.
So I’m in late 20’s and my friend is too. She was saying that the men pool to find a husband is smaller than for females. She was saying that this is why it’s harder for us females to find a husband. The men have more options to choose from and the females do not.
Is this true? I feel there’s the same amount of single men and females to be able to find someone to get married.
So I’m in late 20’s and my friend is too. She was saying that the men pool to find a husband is smaller than for females. She was saying that this is why it’s harder for us females to find a husband. The men have more options to choose from and the females do not.
Is this true? I feel there’s the same amount of single men and females to be able to find someone to get married.
. Booger is a nickname I’ve given her. Her reply lol girlll like that’s it 😭😭😭
I texted this
I’m doing good booger…ain’t talkin to nobody no more pressure from my friend to get on them 😁
She said this
Lol did u reach out to the phd girl?
I said this
No no🙂↔️ I did not. You know there’s still this booger…🤧
She said this
Lol girlll
Well where do I start…
Im in my early 30s and I met her back early 2025 she is in her late twenties. A few weeks not even a month she told me she was bisexual and never dated anyone. I had just told her that I actually don’t care who I’m with just as long as I’m in love. And I had told her my brother is gay. She had never told anyone she was bi besides a handful of people she is super close with.
Btw she is Muslim.
After about 3 months she told me I was her type. Then after that for a few months she was being bold flirty like calling me out on me checking her out. I never was because we were in a workplace area. Then she dared me to ask someone out who wasn’t on the dating apps and I did and it was her I asked out.
She said I’m looking for a tall Muslim guy to marry. Well after that she always confused me. She eventually did stop bringing up that she was looking for a tall Muslim guy. She stopped being bold flirty when I admitted feelings. And always would say she would never pursue and wants to be pursued. She has a fear of rejection. Her words never matched her actions. And when she would say to me I see you as a friend then a few days later would say my words don’t mean what I say.
She raised her voice once when I was overthinking and asking her questions. She told me to pay attention to her actions and read between the lines all the time.
Now fast forward we are in 2026. I truly like this girl but nothing has changed. I am on the dating apps too. We don’t work together anymore but we do see each other everyday anymore since we don’t work together.
Back then around the first 6 months she would say we shall find ur perfect person. Or we both gotta just walk around patiently and find our soulmate.
To talking me hopefully I will find someone amazing on the dating app.
But then in person tell me my words done mean what I say.
To now when I say I still think of her more than a friend tells me girl noo get something else to think about.
What do you guys think? Move on right?
This is a hot mess and she’s only confusing my brain.
Well where do I start…
Im in my early 30s female and I met this girl back early 2025 she is in her late twenties. A few weeks not even a month she told me she was bisexual and never dated anyone. I had just told her that I actually don’t care who I’m with just as long as I’m in love. And I had told her my brother is gay. She had never told anyone she was bi besides a handful of people she is super close with.
Btw she is Muslim.
After about 3 months she told me I was her type. Then after that for a few months she was being bold flirty like calling me out on me checking her out. I never was because we were in a workplace area. Then she dared me to ask someone out who wasn’t on the dating apps and I did and it was her I asked out.
She said I’m looking for a tall Muslim guy to marry. Well after that she always confused me. She eventually did stop bringing up that she was looking for a tall Muslim guy. She stopped being bold flirty when I admitted feelings. And always would say she would never pursue and wants to be pursued. She has a fear of rejection. Her words never matched her actions. And when she would say to me I see you as a friend then a few days later would say my words don’t mean what I say.
She raised her voice once when I was overthinking and asking her questions. She told me to pay attention to her actions and read between the lines all the time.
Now fast forward we are in 2026. I truly like this girl but nothing has changed. I am on the dating apps too. We don’t work together anymore but we do see each other everyday anymore since we don’t work together.
Back then around the first 6 months she would say we shall find ur perfect person. Or we both gotta just walk around patiently and find our soulmate.
To talking me hopefully I will find someone amazing on the dating app.
But then in person tell me my words done mean what I say.
To now when I say I still think of her more than a friend tells me girl noo get something else to think about.
What do you guys think? Move on right?
This is a hot mess and she’s only confusing my brain.
Well where do I start…
Im in my early 30s female and I met this girl back early 2025 she is in her late twenties. A few weeks not even a month she told me she was bisexual and never dated anyone. I had just told her that I actually don’t care who I’m with just as long as I’m in love. And I had told her my brother is gay. She had never told anyone she was bi besides a handful of people she is super close with.
Btw she is Muslim.
After about 3 months she told me I was her type. Then after that for a few months she was being bold flirty like calling me out on me checking her out. I never was because we were in a workplace area. Then she dared me to ask someone out who wasn’t on the dating apps and I did and it was her I asked out.
She said I’m looking for a tall Muslim guy to marry. Well after that she always confused me. She eventually did stop bringing up that she was looking for a tall Muslim guy. She stopped being bold flirty when I admitted feelings. And always would say she would never pursue and wants to be pursued. She has a fear of rejection. Her words never matched her actions. And when she would say to me I see you as a friend then a few days later would say my words don’t mean what I say.
She raised her voice once when I was overthinking and asking her questions. She told me to pay attention to her actions and read between the lines all the time.
Now fast forward we are in 2026. I truly like this girl but nothing has changed. I am on the dating apps too. We don’t work together anymore but we do see each other everyday anymore since we don’t work together.
What do you guys think? Move on right?
This is a hot mess and she’s only confusing my brain.
I’m thinking of leasing a car just to get a good monthly payment.
What are good leasing options out there in Texas?
I do have greater credit score. Would like the monthly payments to be less than $700/month.
I don’t care about what kind of car it is as long as it’s a sedan or suv.