Are we dating or not?
Sooo, me and this girl have been friends for a reallyyy long time. Like a year and a half back we kinda started jokingly ”dating”. But, like, very much as a joke. At first. Until we sort of started kissing and stuff and it started to feel a lot more serious. We talked about it and (ik this sounds weird, don’t flame me) agreed that our ”relationship” was like 50% joking 50% serious. She once said that she wanted to like actually fully seriously date me but that it’d be weird since we’d eventually have to break up and then our friendship would be ruined and stuff. A few months later, she texts me about her new crush. I get kinda heartbroken but eventually get over it and figure whatever we had must be over. Except it wasn’t over, really. She’s still kissing me, calling me her girlfriend, saying we’re dating etc. As if this couldn’t get any weirder, I decide to ask her if she thinks what we have done counts as our first kiss. She responds that ”it probably counts even if it’s just with a friend”.