I am waiting to confess my feelings to my crush. It has been around 56 days since I have loved this guy. I had a crush on him on March 26th. I was planning on the 26th but you know, two months but I just cannot wait that long. What do I do? Do I tell him before the 26th, wait till the 26th, or tell him after the 26th? My patience is not lasting that long.
So around a year ago, a guy added me on Snapchat. He was kind, funny, helpful, supportive, talented, and weird. I got terrified when he added me because I was quite annoying to him. I was not expecting him to do that to me. When I realized that I was quite annoying to him, I tried to give him space and act like he never existed in my life.
On graduation day, I wrote four paragraphs on how sorry I was for being annoying and I also wrote about how amazing he is. He responded which with three paragraphs saying that I should not be so hard on myself, thanked me for sharing all of this with him, and hoped that I would take care of myself. I was terrified at first when I saw that he responded, but soon when I saw his message, I was more relaxed, shocked and happy. I did text him everyday for a week but I swear, it was nothing threatening. It was just a “hi” and “how are you”. Even if I did not get a text back, I was never pressuring him into it. I was also not threatening. Soon, I decided to take a little break from him to give him space. Our conversations were alright. I got irritated when I had to spoon feed questions to him and he would respond in very little words. I would ask him what is new and I would have to spoon feed questions to him which was very annoying. I would ask him “what is new” and he responded by saying “summer” and I asked “what are you doing for the summer” and then responding by saying “working” and after that, I asked “where” and then he said where he would work at. So that was quite irritating.
Around June 27, I shared information about me so that he could get to know me better and I was also interested in getting to know him better. He texted me saying “that’s really sweet but I am not interested”. I got confused on what he was talking about and soon, I understood. He did not feel like sharing more about himself. It is fine and it is his choice and his life. When I saw that message, I responded with “aww” and a couple of minutes later, he blocked me even before I could apologize. I was so sad when that happened. I got too emotional about it. I guess I am idiot and please feel free to say it.
I just love him. He is 22 and I am 18 but he is so good. We just have so much in common. I remember he called me a weird bomb that explodes with kind bubbly energy with curious and creative stuff.
I asked him to explain what he meant by that and he said that I am like a childlike bomb is unapologetically unrefined and thinks of this as a strength.
I also told him that we were not friends anymore because we are best friends!!! He said ”I guess we are”.
I am not sure if he likes me more than a friend.
F(+18)
Hey! I have been crushing hard on a guy for a month. He is in my college and was in my Spanish class. He is also 22. He is nice, helpful, funny, intelligent, talented, creative, realistic, relatable, and weird (In a good way. Weird is not wrong. In fact, I feel that being weird is a good thing because you are making yourself stand out and you are making people curious about you.) Me and him have so much in common. We like to draw, write, and read crime stories. Psychology also interests me and him (my major). We are also atheists and we believe that divorce is not a bad decision. We also choose movies over books. I have been texting him for the past few days. I asked for his number a few days ago and he gave it to me. We had had great conversations ever since and he is a lot of fun! I told him that I felt like I had a lot in common with him and he said “Ye, that’s what friends are for”. He does think of me as a friend and agreed that I have a lot in common with him. when we see each other, we have endless and fun conversations together. Sometimes, he just comes up to me out of somewhere to talk and I just giggle and I am shocked to see him right in front of me. Today, I asked him what is good or bad about me because you know, I like to be aware of this stuff (know what is good about me and what could be better and needs improvement) and I write that he is nice, caring, relatable, funny, creative, talented, weird, and silly. And he wrote “Ur like a weird bomb that explodes with kind bubbly energy and curious creative stuff.” He is so fun and silly.
While I love all these qualities of him, I also wish he would open up a little more. Opening up about your opinion. For me, when I open up, I feel happy, confident, and a little scared. I feel happy and confident about why I think or feel a certain way and I am glad I put it out there. I also feel scared of how people would respond to my opinion. Regardless of that, I still try to open up as much as I can and also know what I am really saying. I guess I just love it when people let themselves free and expressing yourself does give you a lot of freedom (I know I cannot force it but expressing myself did make me feel good). I guess I just want to help another person let themselves free.
Overall, I am just really happy as now and I love that I got to know him! He really is the entire package!
Hey! I have been crushing hard on a guy for a month. He is in my college and was in my Spanish class. He is also 22. He is nice, helpful, funny, intelligent, talented, creative, realistic, relatable, and weird (In a good way. Weird is not wrong. In fact, I feel that being weird is a good thing because you are making yourself stand out and you are making people curious about you.) Me and him have so much in common. We like to draw, write, and read crime stories. Psychology also interests me and him (my major). We are also atheists and we believe that divorce is not a bad decision. We also choose movies over books. I have been texting him for the past few days. I asked for his number a few days ago and he gave it to me. We had had great conversations ever since and he is a lot of fun! I told him that I felt like I had a lot in common with him and he said “Ye, that’s what friends are for”. He does think of me as a friend and agreed that I have a lot in common with him. when we see each other, we have endless and fun conversations together. Sometimes, he just comes up to me out of somewhere to talk and I just giggle and I am shocked to see him right in front of me. Today, I asked him what is good or bad about me because you know, I like to be aware of this stuff (know what is good about me and what could be better and needs improvement) and I write that he is nice, caring, relatable, funny, creative, talented, weird, and silly. And he wrote “Ur like a weird bomb that explodes with kind bubbly energy and curious creative stuff.” He is so fun and silly.
While I love all these qualities of him, I also wish he would open up a little more. Opening up about your opinion. For me, when I open up, I feel happy, confident, and a little scared. I feel happy and confident about why I think or feel a certain way and I am glad I put it out there. I also feel scared of how people would respond to my opinion. Regardless of that, I still try to open up as much as I can and also know what I am really saying. I guess I just love it when people let themselves free and expressing yourself does give you a lot of freedom (I know I cannot force it but expressing myself did make me feel good). I guess I just want to help another person let themselves free.
Overall, I am just really happy as now and I love that I got to know him! He really is the entire package!
F(18+)
Hey! I have been crushing hard on a guy for a month. He is in my college and was in my Spanish class. He is also 22. He is nice, helpful, funny, intelligent, talented, creative, realistic, relatable, and weird (In a good way. Weird is not wrong. In fact, I feel that being weird is a good thing because you are making yourself stand out and you are making people curious about you.) Me and him have so much in common. We like to draw, write, and read crime stories. Psychology also interests me and him (my major). We are also atheists and we believe that divorce is not a bad decision. We also choose movies over books. I have been texting him for the past few days. I asked for his number a few days ago and he gave it to me. We had had great conversations ever since and he is a lot of fun! I told him that I felt like I had a lot in common with him and he said “Ye, that’s what friends are for”. He does think of me as a friend and agreed that I have a lot in common with him. when we see each other, we have endless and fun conversations together. Sometimes, he just comes up to me out of somewhere to talk and I just giggle and I am shocked to see him right in front of me.
While I love all these qualities of him, I also wish he would open up a little more. Opening up about your opinion. For me, when I open up, I feel happy, confident, and a little scared. I feel happy and confident about why I think or feel a certain way and I am glad I put it out there. I also feel scared of how people would respond to my opinion. Regardless of that, I still try to open up as much as I can and also know what I am really saying. I guess I just love it when people let themselves free and expressing yourself does give you a lot of freedom (I know I cannot force it but expressing myself did make me feel good). I guess I just want to help another person let themselves free.
Overall, I am just really happy as now and I love that I got to know him! He really is the entire package!
F(18+)
Hey! I have been crushing hard on a guy for a month. He is in my college and was in my Spanish class. He is also 22. He is nice, helpful, funny, intelligent, talented, creative, realistic, relatable, and weird (In a good way. Weird is not wrong. In fact, I feel that being weird is a good thing because you are making yourself stand out and you are making people curious about you.) Me and him have so much in common. We like to draw, write, and read crime stories. Psychology also interests me and him (my major). We are also atheists and we believe that divorce is not a bad decision. We also choose movies over books. I have been texting him for the past few days. I asked for his number a few days ago and he gave it to me. We had had great conversations ever since and he is a lot of fun! I told him that I felt like I had a lot in common with him and he said “Ye, that’s what friends are for”. He does think of me as a friend and agreed that I have a lot in common with him. when we see each other, we have endless and fun conversations together. Sometimes, he just comes up to me out of somewhere to talk and I just giggle and I am shocked to see him right in front of me.
While I love all these qualities of him, I also wish he would open up a little more. Opening up about your opinion. For me, when I open up, I feel happy, confident, and a little scared. I feel happy and confident about why I think or feel a certain way and I am glad I put it out there. I also feel scared of how people would respond to my opinion. Regardless of that, I still try to open up as much as I can and also know what I am really saying. I guess I just love it when people let themselves free and expressing yourself does give you a lot of freedom (I know I cannot force it but expressing myself did make me feel good). I guess I just want to help another person let themselves free.
Overall, I am just really happy as now and I love that I got to know him! He really is the entire package!
I might get beaten up for whatever I am about to say here. I am an 18 year old girl and I have had around 20 crushes. I kind of move on very quickly. If something does not go well between me and my crush, I try not to let stuff like that kill me on the inside. I try to give myself a break and move on. To be honest, I have crushed on a few guys at the same time. They are too good and I just end up liking a few at the same time. I have never been on a date even though I would like to. I really like my crushes for who the are. I love their sense of humor, their confidence, their talent, and how weird they are. Not all my crushes are in my year. 3 of them were younger than me (1 senior and possibly 2 juniors currently) and 4 are not in my year (3 sophomores and 1 junior in college currently). So how many have you all had (number)? If you want, you can share.