u/ButterscotchNo670

im dating this girl and we are thinking about marriage if we were suitable for it. But i've noticed how different we are. I grow up in an environment where love is shown openly with hugges, kisses and so on. I dunno if due to this environment but i have a huge sex drive and even after im done i could keep up with hands and such for hours. i wont stop

this girl instead she told me she usually dont show affection. and her sex drive is really really low.

everytime we go out i tried to have some private time with her but she always pushes me away

i wanted some brainstorming from another sub and they suggest me to look into this. damn. is this my future if i marry her?

for whom is married and struggle, did you ever consider cheating or pay for sex?

i imagine, you go out, pay for it, 1 hour you are done go back home. no more stressing ur partner for sex

me (male) and my female partner are in a particular situation where we are deciding if we should marry or not. I know it sounds strange, but i dont want to explain too much, but it makes sense if you know it

im a person with a huge libido where even im finished i can continue indefinitely. My current partner isn't.. we went down once and after just a couple of minutes i satisfied here and when i try to go for it again she said she was okay and didnt want to continue

my female friend has the same problem where her boyfriend, after he is done, he doesnt even want to cuddle her

so talking with my friend, we both want more passion from our respective partner

while still living alone, even if my partner doesnt want to go, i can still have my time in private. But my question is: what would happen if im married to her and i have no personal space anymore? Maybe my partner would feel offended if i jerked on other girls (pornstars)? and im kinda imbarassed if im masturbating in front of her? should i jerk in the bathroom as an adult? lmao? Or people would start to seeing other girls behind her wife or (as japan, to not cheat on her feeling) just go for a hooker, pay, satisfied and back at home?

I can't imagine my life where she barely wants to have sex as a married couple and we barely do once per month..

i will fly to hangzhou for the lunar eve? from 25-27 and then move to shanghai and chill there for a whole week just playing videogames, bar, restaurants, nothing touristic so i will manage to avoid crowd and long queue. But im scared, even before the 1 october, move from hangzhou to shanghai will be so crowded and i will not manage to book the train ticket.

some tips?

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incredibile

When i was a kid i was lucky enough to play habbo in its peak. The levels was more about "furni" = how rich are you and everytime you go in, go randomly enter a room and start interact.

There were many user event. for example a joke competition made by a rich player and he would give a free furni to the winner. or other funny games using chairs. Sometimes there were official events like gorillaz concert and so on.

for some reason in my country's server there was a thing: having a bank. basically you give ur furni to a player and he will hold it in his room like a bank and i managed to be an employee and manage the office lmao

what's interesting were the freedom players have to create "custom events" for everybody. these events made habbo so live.

Do you know other mmo like this?

My parents have a small restaurant and we had no problem for 7-8 years straight. one day i started to noticed small insect crawling around and it bugged me. everything seems okay, but when the big ones started to crawl around i understood the problem. never seen a nymph in my life. This episode made me learn a lot about cockroaches and where they love to hide. And i've noticed how many small places there are in the walls, and in the furnitures and so on.

we started with dust poison, spray, etc. then we gave up and called a company specialized in infestation and they added the gel one everywhere. you have no idea how many were there. we closed 1 month. you open a box, bam, 30 at least crawling just on 1 spot. so you can imagine how many were there everywhere

then finally they started to die and things seems to be manageble.

so wrong i was.

after 1 year? they are back!!! and im discovering more and more cracks on the wall or kitchen appliances where they are hiding and making nest. im going crazy. im applying the gel and ive seen more dead around but im going crazy because if i just miss 1 spot, they will be back again!

if someone had an infestation how did you get rid of it?

im intrigued by the concept of eve where everything is player driven and you are not stucked with a theme park + raid at the end

im not into space and stuff, im more into fantasy stuff

Non sò se con l'idropulitrice ho causato qualche problema al mio symphony 125. ce l'ho da 4 anni ma lo guido poco e raramente. Da un pò di tempo ho un problema che non si accende e si riesce a guidare solo se tengo i giri. in modo random a volte parte, a votle no. Recentemente proprio zero. L'ho portato dal meccanico e ha detto che ha provato a resettare qualcosa elettronicamente che andava, ma poi quando l'ho provato ad accendere non andava.. mi ha detto che bisogna comprare un pezzo nuovo e và sostituito.

chiedendo a chatgpt sembra che non abbia controllato se è sporco o altro, ma ha solo attaccato "il suo componente" per fare una diagnosi senza smontare tutto e si è lavato le mani senza provare a controllare al 100%

secondo voi, sostituisco la centralina col pezzo nuovo o lo porto da un altro meccanico?

i've been trying to enter the world of mmorpg but everytime i tried i gave up. Right now im trying to force myself to see the endgame of wow classic and albion but it's boring and feels more like a job than a game.

A friend of mine is a veteran in wow and told me that leveling and dungeon can become really boring (he knows how to speedrun a new character to max level fast) but he said raid is interesting and takes a lot of preparation, and that's the only thing interesting. So i was wondering.. all these mmorpg just for raids? blizzard create a theme park with a raid endgame, showing the world how remunerative is this business plan and all the mmorpg community move towards that way?

i played a lot of rpg and i loved when you are growing slowly with the world, when you feel in love with each region, people (npc), stories etc and you are happy with your gear and so on. but all those mmorpg just a themepark + raids.

Recently i was looking for a new game and fond dark & darker. From the videos it doesnt look that interesting but i was just looking for a coop game to play with friends. after a bad start because there is no tutorial or anything, wow. and after we made a team with a veteran in this game that shown us everything and how it works, WOW

basically im feeling like inside the anime Danmachi or made in abyss or any fantasy manhwa with dungeon.

you create a class, you form a team and here you can shop, prepare your gear, buy health potions and so on, and dive into this dungeon. you have some quest to do so or you do some pve dungeon to complete quest or gather some item for urself or to sell, and then just go back to the lobby or you can dive lower

there are also pvp map where players fight each other and loot each other

the thrill, the exploration, etc. this feel more like an mmorpg than all those theme park game.

I know the game is still polishing itself, and the fight system is difficult, but anyone can recreate this genre and change the combat system. i feel that if everybody else were focusing more on this type of gamemode, the mmorpg scene would be more interesting

i know that the game needs a lot of work, polyshing, a lot of work and the devs knows too. that's why it's still in early access. but i think this is the direction i would like the genre would take.

what do you think?

hello! i started playing mmo recently but im usually a moba player who enjoy hitting players

recently im enjoying warmane wow classic and i must say it was kinda fun when i invaded the other faction, met a same level player and fight him and killed him. i've seen videos where a lot of players invade together the other faction but as a person that never done it before, it feels not challenging? and chaotic. you just follow the whole group, random attack and that's it.

Also the dungeon in wow, it's not that interesting, it's just long and boring lmao. pull, attack, repeat

i've tried albion before warmane, but i really didn't like the fact you already unlock everyspell since beginning and the only thing that changes are the ultimate. It's true that in WoW even if there are tons of spells, you basically end up using the same 4-5? i mean im leveling a proc warrior and i do use only 4-5 but ive seen wow retail where people using a combination of multiple spells, so yes, i dont like that with albion i feel like im stuck with the same 3 spell for the whole journey

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so maybe we can say that in albion at least, you attack a player and you keep obtain items and gold and get rich while in wow you just kill but that's it

what im looking for is an mmo where the pvp has a lot of weight and it's the focus of the entire game. i'm not talking of just random pvp like in warmane pvp server where they keep fighting just for fun but an mmo where the pvp it's a core component of the gameplay. I dunno maybe a mmo where people are in guilds and for each pvp fight they increase their zone? i just said a random thing, but my point is that the pvp should be the way to reach a goal

Sono tech, ma generalmente nel mondo aziendale, il jobhopping è il modo migliore per raggiungere una certa meta che sia monetaria o altro.

da studente mi immaginavo di fare vari jobhopping. partire dal basso e piano piano spostarmi di città in città ottendendo diversi benefici, ovvero quello di aumentare di seniority (di titolo non di esperienza) e di soldi e nel frattempo ogni 1-2 anni cambi città e stai facendo un pò il turista. tipo parti a parigi, poi a lugano, poi berlino, amsterdam. Anno dopo anno hai aumentato il tuo salario, la tua esperienza, e soprattuto hai visitato tante città ed è come se ti avessero pagato per fare il turistello!

però vedendo un pò la mia situazione (sculato) e quella degli altri.. c'erano dei colleghi che vivevano in questa città da piu di 10 anni e ancora erano in coliving. gente che abita nei posti piu lontani e ci mettono 1 ora ad arrivare a lavoro. Dove a volte, dipende dove ovviamente, ti fanno fare straordinari non pagati e tutte quelle ore a lavorare di piu e a viaggiare avanti e indietro casa e lavoro, tolgono ore, anni della tua vita solo dedite al lavoro e zero passione.

Perciò alla fine non è piu un discorso di vacanza di 1 anno in ogni città, ma è affrontare le varie difficoltà di città in città + aggiungiamoci il fatto che non parli la lingua del posto, non conosci le usanze e devi sempre ripartire da zero e la salute mentale, la solitudine etc.

che poi mettiamoci il fatto che non partiamo a lavorare in azienda a 18 anni. ma molti partono o a 24 o a 26 e poi per quanti anni vuoi saltellare da una città all'altra? poi la moglie? i figli? quand'è che metti su famiglia?

Sinceramente ho tanti pensieri sulla testa e non sò ancora che fare nella vita. Sicuramente l'opzione migliore è insediarsi in una città con tanto lavoro che ti offre di fare jobhopping nella stessa città come amsterdam o londra, ma non sò se sono posti in cui vorrei mettere su famiglia.

E voi? avete un sogno lavorativo nel cassetto? Volete andare in una particolare città e insediarvi li oppure boh?

im a undead warrior and currently level 40. obviously i wanted a fury build but ive noticed that defensive skills are stronger(?)

my main skills is that one that activate when you dodge or parry an attack and ive noticed that it deal damage around you, not just your enemy. other than that i have 2 more shield attacks one that stun and the other deal just damage and with those 3 spells i deal 400 and sometimes 800 and sometimes oneshot the enemy lmao

instead with dps all the skills deal low damage and i was struggling

instead with this tank build, sometimes i can deal with 3 person because i keep dodging, parrying, and deal aoe admage around me and stun etc.

is it normal?

im bored to do quests in mmo where you just pin point the most rewarding quests to leveling up and just roaming around

i love rpg because the quests are literally each chapters of the whole story/game. I played grandia1 and even if i hated a lot the fight system, i really enjoyed the story.

right now im enjoying rdr2 and some quests are really funny

is there any mmo where you fall in love with the npc, the story, the setting etc?

i always wanted to play an mmo since when i was a kid because i like rpg games singleplayer, but mmo feels more like a theme park than a true living experience

because my friend is playing in a server as horde, i started as well and for his sake, this time i wanna try to max level. right now im a undead warrior lv 16 and after 2 hours of quests where i had to kill, gather, pickup and so on, and so many quests for each city i find this so boring

there is no difficulties in the fight because if you follow each quest, your level are just okay to fight them all

the pve fights are slow and boring

but maybe you can say that this is only to level up and to enjoy lategame but i read on reddit that players enjoy this loop and create different characters, also the game itself gives you new race or class to start again the loop and so on

so for people who constantly loop the game over and over again, doing all those quests, is it enjoyable? don't you feel bored?

i can understand if someone wants to try again from level1 a new class in elden ring. maybe they are better and want to know if they can beat those bosses and enemies easier, so the challenge still holds or maybe with another class, even if you beat the game as warrior, maybe with another one, with a complete skillset you could find it hard or not

but in quests, everything is easy and not challenging

im not insulting you guys for playing this game, but i want to understand the appeal of the loop and why wow is the most played mmo ever and no one dethroned the king for years

Do you know particular mmo like foxhole/anvil empire?

im not talking of mmo exactly like those two, but mmo that is so unique, and in a unique way similar to foxhole/anvil empire

Riot Games shown how they are able to interpret a game genre and make it incredibly enjoyable. for exmaple the swarm mode is a gamemode that was famous around the internet but in my opinion was really boring. you just avoid enemies and upgrade. but riot made it in a way that was really challenging and fun.

not to mention the whole pve space fight with kayn final boss, that was fun af. never seen so old friends all online and together to try to beat the final stage with max difficulties.

And not to mention how they made their own way into the TCG market

recently i started to play some mmo, albion in particular. i must say, the spells of a characters if it's well made, make the game really enjoyable or not. I played other moba but i really like lol's champions and spells and the way you play it. instead normal mmo feels like just random spell spammed with no grace or beauty in it

i think riot will change the mmo era. what do you think?

i started some days ago and wanted to try warlock. After leveling up i went to buy the new staff and ive noticed that only the "ultimate" is different. The Q, W are the same spell. am i missing something?

so we play with the same QW but different E for each staff? that's it?

Im in bouldering since nov 2025 and i like doing static so far. i recently started working on slab and i fucking hate it because i know that im gonna slip and how it's made the route, it's 100% gonna crash my whole body from foot to head into that boulder under me and open me in two.

so is it made on purpose to make you hurt while doing slab? What i like of slab is how you dont need strength but rather just know how to move your center of gravity. okay. But if you made a slab problem, where im 3 meters above the ground on that really really tiny thing where only the angle is rough and the rest is smooth, it's an invitation to slip and fall and make you go to the hospital.

Also when i go to another country and dont bring with me my climbing shoes, sometimes the rentals shoes is too slippery and even with bigger holds i slip.

what about dyno? i've seen some dyno where if you miss the the hold, you crash straight into the wall.

i don't mind the comp meta. but in comp everything is wide and if you fall off, there is a 100% you hit the mattress. in random gyms nope because they dont have the space and sometimes the route set is horrible and dangerous.

Also even at comp, where they made that boulder completely smooth. it's obvious you gonna slip and cant hold it without washing your hands.. so the only beta is to spit in your hand to hold it. wtf?

i've seen some videos of those climbing shoes so sticky that it sticks to the other shoes like glue. should everyone just have those shoes or if you stay cheap it's stupid and dangerous?

In my life i didn't really last in any mmo that i've tried.

many mmo like black desert with a cool graphic and combat movements only to basically click and hit. i'm tired to go to a npc, get a list of things to do, go there, do the thing, and then come back. then go to another place. it's like doing chores lmao. you see a lot of players like you, follow the quests and that's it. no one interact with you because they are all busy to follow quests and level up

the only mmo that i recall is:

1. wow: it was kinda cool visit the various cities, really well made. doing some pvp with another player and have a talk, but in the end doing chores (kill tot monsters) really bother me. Or stare at the screen for 10 minutes to walk to another place lmao
2. runescape: i played when i was a kid so i played in the free version. even if everything is locked, what really made me like this game (like not love because soon after i drop it) is how you basically do anything you want. You start at the starting city. kill some spider and cow and cook that thicc cow. then you go to the desert place, kill some npc from that place lmao. Than you go back to the starting point and go to another direction, ended up in a bigass city where there are windmills. cool. you go a little further and you are at the border of no-pvp zone. you see advanced player pvp each other and kill for loot. you see a corpse not looted and you loot full mithril armor LMAO. now we talking. go back to safety and then start to kill mob in the dungeon because you feel like a cheater, but feels great. been too cocky, get killed by too strong npc and lose everything in the process. damn.

I tried runescape again but right now feels too boring where the fights with cow last too long.

i do love rpg. i enjoy classic jrpg, elden ring, dark souls3, but just mmo feels like a theme park of a rpg lol

i dont care about crazy mechanics. even if it's isometric like LoL it's ok i played too much that game. But do you know any mmo where you just live and not following quest after quest?

i worked as data engineering and now im taking a rest from it and before join again the job market, i want to try to give it a shot. I always made videogames in my life but never tried to sell mine. i worked for 3 years with a small group and even won a category in a gamejam but now i wanna try to work on my projects and try to sell it

how is the distribution of its earnings? we know that a lot of human tihngs can be distributed like a gaussian. human IQ is an example: many people is average, few people are really dumb, few people are really intelligent, but how about indiedev?

We want to be those devs like notch from minecraft, or stardey valley or the recent meccha chameleon made by 2 people and sold 10 milions? But we also know that everything is a lot random. probably before twitch and other comp games like repo or lethal company, no one would play meccha chameleon but right now those kind of games are perfect for streamers and youtubers

but i dont wanna know those few people that hit the jackpot because probably we wont be like them never. so, how is the average? where the majority of indie game deve sits? the peak, the tallest point of the gaussian, what is your average?

Do you think this world is a pure hit and miss? like or you made a game that would be sold for millions or you are not gonna see even 1 euro, or the average would sell 1k downloads?