u/CheesecakeWild7941

I haven’t had to deal with someone complaining about every single fucking thing wrong in their life and try to calm them down and talk them through making a rational decision

No one asking me if they should do something or not and getting upset when i can’t make a decision for them

I woke up, got dressed, and left my house in peace

This life is a luxury

I know some of y’all are going to say that i should try in patient or hospital or wtv but i’m not tryna hear all that rn, the hours just don’t work for me cuz im a college student and they want full time etc etc etc.

But sometimes i really can’t believe i left food service for this. It was not much better but at least i got paid more. It takes a lot for me to not remember that i am voluntarily working at this piece of shit and just rage quit.

I used to get paid $15.00 plus tips, the hours weren’t all that good but fuck at least i made money. I worked 3 hours at my old job and i got paid $80 for that after taxes

Sorry to vent, just really fed up

I’m an older student and my mom is aging. She’s getting surgery on her eyelids during the third week of school and i know there will be one day where i will have to 100% skip classes because she needs transportation due to sedation

Would it be a bad idea to let my professors know my situation during like the first week of school? I feel sort of bad missing out on school so early in the year but i feel like making sure my mom makes it to and from home safe is my priority and her healing will go well

The patients are miserable, my coworkers are miserable, I’m miserable, i literally want to fling myself off a cliff.

Just venting

i probably make no sense but i want a planner that has the weekly layout like the Hobonichi Weeks (or other similar brands) but pages layout is flip flopped, so the dates are on the right page and the grids are on the left page

65f mom, 25f me

recently she bought a Volvo and complained to me about how her old car (a Subaru) is much better than her new car. idk what else to say but Okay, she’s been complaining about the new car since the day she drove it off the lot. she complained about her old car too since she got it

a few days ago we were at a store and she asked me what nail polish remover to get and i told her i didn’t know because i don’t do my nails and that maybe someone who works there could advise her better and she got upset with me and stormed off saying i’m no help

not too long ago she asked me if she should do a home equity loan for something. i genuinely have no clue what a home equity loan even is and i told her to speak to a financial advisor for that and of course she kept pushing asking for what i think, i told her i really don’t know

i don’t want to discourage my mom from asking me questions or coming for advice on some stuff because sometimes you just need to talk. she has friends and stuff she talks to all day and goes out to hang out with. she has a therapist too

ETA: i HAVE asked her to please stop or at least just take my “i don’t know enough to give you an answer” as an answer but she gets upset with me either way

i work at a pharmacy so i deal with old folks asking me questions (some of which make sense, some of which don’t at all) allll day so i feel like it might be compassion fatigue i’m dealing with? funnily enough today she was insisting that medicare part b won’t cover her diabetes supplies because shes not insulin dependent and i kept trying to tell her they will and i’ve processed tons of scripts for non insulin dependent people and still…

idk i’m just exhausted. i dated someone who constantly asked me for advice or complained or asked me if they should do xyz and it felt so draining.

i’m going to see HorsegiirL and Lil Texas soon. idk if they’re consider rave or edm but they’re definitely very loud lol. i’m really excited but i wanted to get some ideas on what you would wear to such a concert.

the concerts are in late October and mid September and are in the northeast US and southeast Canada so i need to consider the weather and i have the accessibility accommodation seats so i’m not worried about getting too hot or anything like that

i’d love to hear your ideas, TY

i heard some people yelling outside my house at like 12 AM and i just so happened to have also ran out of my Ambien script. i was really annoyed because, well, i’m an insomniac without their sleep meds. i went out to see what the commotion was about… turns out it was some people looking for their dog that had got out into the wooded area near our house. the owner was beside herself

it took a bit but the dog was eventually found, it felt nice to be a little bit helpful and speak with the owner and figure it out. i’m so glad i was awake for this and i can at least rest knowing the dog is okay :)

i’ve lived in Buffalo for 22 years and i feel like i’m just ready to move on. i really want to leave Buffalo after i graduate. so i’m curious to know where your UB degree has taken you. i feel like i need inspiration to keep going

my major is mathematics with a concentration in actuary science so hopefully it gets me somewhere

sometimes when i’m home i just lay in bed and i have this imaginary world where people don’t make fun of me and don’t treat me like i’m stupid and i have tons of friends. in this world i’m not famous or anything but people check on me and they make me feel like a real person

i guess its my way of coping with everything in my life but i wanted to ask so maybe i dont feel as crazy or weird anymore