u/Chobikil

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

We're 3 siblings and we need to study abroad, our father wants us all to study at the same time, but this is making his budget really tight and it's restricting our options.

I'm hoping something forces him to delay my travel, as I'm 18 and have time, plus my brothers actually have a degree they'd like to pursue.

Please make Dua for them, both me and one of my brothers would really rather not travel to China for studying instead.

Jazakallah Khair.

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. Just curious how old everyone here is.

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

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Keep it 5-6 lines at max.

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

In our current apartment we have to leave it open as there's no ventilation inside. But eitherway, does this have any evidence? Like many things, she panics and gets furious when it's left open.

So far the 3 apartments I've lived in have had the bills prepaid with the monthly rent, but we only got those through agents and would now like to move again, but agents are expensive so it has to be on our own.

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. Check out their about section for more info: https://www.lighthousementoring.org/about/

No, this is not paid, I just find this underrated.

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. 43 minute long discussion between Farid Responds and Yusuf Ponders.

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

I will be blunt, I don't want to make friends. I don't want that responsibility nor can I handle it. This is a recent change I've done to myself.

However, I'm doing a bad job at trying to be anti social and still find myself innately desiring social interaction, even though I've always been horrible at socializing all my life, I'm very socially anxious too.

So often times, if I see someone my age who "looks cool", the anxiety spikes and I overthink a bunch of things and "what ifs" to an concerningly high level. I hate it and myself so much because of this.

I do try and collect my thoughts and critically tell myself that I do not, and would not, want to be friends with this stranger or anyone else. But It doesn't help much. I want something I can use or do to instantly calm myself down instead of pretending like I'm calm.

Is the only solution to simply socialize or is there something else I can do? If it's the former then tell it to me straight.

And finally, please don't advice me on changing this anti-social habit. Jazakallah khair.