u/Disastrous-Dig5884

80% of people with debt i see here are of home loans.
Man who is pressuring you to buy that damn flat, imagine you wait for a few years and increase your DP how peaceful of a sleep it would be everynight.

I have made a financial rule for myself if i cannot pay 65-70% of the amount straight away as a Down payment without burning my pockets then i wont take it. I wont opt for any attractive % of loan.

Men are silently and emotionally pressurized by wives that they need a private space.

Dear men think about the stress that comes with taking a 20 year loan in this uncertain market.
I agree an own space gives a sense of ownership and a space for your kids and wife.

But if you are not mentally healthy and fit to take that 80% financed loan then give it some time, think more, its an uncertain market and people are losing jobs not because their skills are outdated because we are in a worst phase and money isn’t moving.

If you aint healthy or fit enough how are you going to take care of your family?

Im a 28M from Hyderabad. Although i never caught up with a haryanvi or a jatt. Since a few months i have seen at tourist areas, the posts of littering or rashdriving or anything atall. Everyone is quick to say “obviously a jaat”. I also live in uttarakhand and get out every other day to different spots but how come i never came across such people.

Every city or community has these kind of ppl but you didnt even see who threw the garbage or do anything at all at some place and your mouth is ready to target a haryanvi.

Im not gonna say whatabout this or that people from neighboring states like uttarakhand/UP/Delhi have you seen your own people? How clean your colonies are? How respectful your people are?

Idk bro haryanvis might be having a loud voiced personality or somthing but i would love to have a frnd from haryana.

Hey folks, im looking for a yamaha R6 used bike.
I tried dubizle and fb marketplace but its filled with scammers.

Seeking advice.

People play alot of games. Most seniors i know deliberately slow down things sometimes before the contract renewals or before financial year.

And sometimes its important to save your own ass first.

Since we are all anonymous here. How have you been gatekeeping your job?

I want to have a structured process and have a current account for the business, but the partner says its not that important in the beginning we can link our savings account or just buy in cash and save all the charges incur on the current account.

I say let’s have both and use it wherever needed and maintaining balances is not a problem. And maintain it for a long term.

But whats the best approach?

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I stay out of India and my mom and sis are back in India. My mom is 50 but since 1 year i have seen drastic changes in her like.
- hairfall
- weightlosa
- fatigue
- loss of appetite

She doesnt have alot of physical activity. Its just she spends her time sewing clothes as a hobby and a small business, and rests at home.

Is the age catching up with her or we need to fix the diet and add whey proteins or what? I dont understand tbh.