I just wanted to talk about my concert, Dad

I just wanted to talk about my concert, Dad

For context, I'm 26, and was only messaging my deadbeat father so that maybe he'll complain a little less about being lonely. I was telling him about a concert I'm going to on Friday, and he replied with being upset that I didn't invite him to go with me. I brushed it off with a joke, to which he doubled down on the fact that he recently went to the city I'm gonna be going to.

Then THIS.

This man cheated on my mother with a 16 year old (age of consent in Kansas where I grew up 🤮), sends fake women overseas hundreds of dollars everyday while doing talk-to-text sexting in public places or in front of his adult children. Telling me how poor he is and will call me greedy and heinous names if I ask him for even a loan of fifty bucks.

He thinks he's a biker and a pirate except he has no boat and no motorcycle; which just leaves a drunk pillhead loser with blankets over his windows.

He finally got a woman to talk to him and try to take him out of his shell, and he wants to just bash her and tell me how ugly and fat she is and not his type?! When he himself is a beached whale-slur-your-words-narcissist.

End rant, love,

u/Gummybear_Gunk — 24 hours ago
▲ 26 r/texts

I just wanted to talk about my concert, Dad

For context, I'm 26, and was only messaging my deadbeat father so that maybe he'll complain a little less about being lonely. I was telling him about a concert I'm going to on Friday, and he replied with being upset that I didn't invite him to go with me. I brushed it off with a joke, to which he doubled down on the fact that he recently went to the city I'm gonna be going to.

Then THIS.

This man cheated on my mother with a 16 year old (age of consent in Kansas where I grew up 🤮), sends fake women overseas hundreds of dollars everyday while doing talk-to-text sexting in public places or in front of his adult children. Telling me how poor he is and will call me greedy and heinous names if I ask him for even a loan of fifty bucks.

He thinks he's a biker and a pirate except he has no boat and no motorcycle; which just leaves a drunk pillhead loser with blankets over his windows.

He finally got a woman to talk to him and try to take him out of his shell, and he wants to just bash her and tell me how ugly and fat she is and not his type?! When he himself is a beached whale-slur-your-words-narcissist.

End rant, love,

A girl with daddy issues

u/Gummybear_Gunk — 1 day ago
▲ 8 r/Bumble

How seriously do you take religion if you have Christian on your profile?

For context, I grew up in a Christian household and I am very atheist. Not here to discuss or debate, just stating that it's a big dealbreaker for me.

That being said, it feels very defeating swiping left on every profile that says Christian ☠️ do a lot of people select this out of pure habit, even if they don't go to church and don't particularly think about it?

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 8 days ago
▲ 25 r/HHN

The one year I can't afford tickets and they're mocking me with the best lineup I've ever seen

Let's all just gather here and share a moment of silence for how sad it is for those of us who couldn't get it together for the ultimate dark carnival 😔

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 29 days ago
▲ 5 r/lonely

I hate not having anybody to send cool songs to

I don't have any friends and it's mostly because I'm very different from everybody else my age. I know that's an overused trope, but not many people really share my interests or opinions on things. It's very lonely.

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 2 months ago
▲ 3 r/lonely

I feel like an alien impersonating myself

I just took a weekend and went to the Gulf and was surrounded by people, outwardly I seemed fine, even struck a few conversations with strangers. But nothing changes the fact that no matter what I do I just can't seem to make any lasting connections with anybody. I just watched the fireworks on the beach, watched everybody else my age jetski and chill on their boats while I drank my margarita alone. I'm back home now and everything is the same. I loooong for people to go shopping with and go on trips and go out to lunch with

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 2 months ago
▲ 4 r/r4r

25 f4m #Florida #Online hoping to talk to someone as cool as me 😎

I want to talk to somebody around my own age for once!! I feel like it's to a point where it's not normal how I don't socialize at all anymore 😟

I love smoking 💚 , a few video games and movies (my favorite are horror 👹), being outside as often as I can, being around big crowds and going to events & concerts, or just sitting at home relaxing. I'm so laid back I don't do arguing or drama, I hate people who yell, yet I like metal screaming lmao. I STRIVE to be a chill person as much as possible.

I've just got such a unique life it seems sometimes that it's been strategically crafted to keep me isolated. Due to a complicated and ridiculous series of events, I lost touch with all my old friends and I spend all of my time now at work around seniors or at home supporting my tiny family. I don't online date, I don't go to bars, I just wait for Rockville and HHN to roll around each year and go alone and cry about it because I'm a hopeless romantic and a Professional Damsel in Distress.

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 2 months ago

How do you avoid all your party getting put to sleep?!

Never played a Pokémon game in my life, but I was given this game and I'm getting pretty into it. I would like to use this subreddit for help rather than googling all my questions.

I'm struggling with a Polywhirl who is absolutely hell bent on personally delivering every living thing in its path to snooze town. He is a merciless fiend. I've gone through tons of awake potions to no avail. Please send help

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 2 months ago
▲ 28 r/lonely

25 F hopeless romantic crying myself to sleep every night

I've got a curse on me. It's one thing after another keeping me isolated from the world, and I feel like a fruit rotting on a shelf. I think that I'm kind of a catch, I'm a really cool chick I have a lot of hobbies and different interests, I love to go out, but no matter how many times I go to Rockville or HHN by myself, I don't meet anybody and just go back to the hotel room depressed rather than happy about the event I just paid for.

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But due to different hurdles in my life, the universe has managed to consistently keep me in a lonely little box. I've never even had my hand held by a man, I've never been complimented, I don't know what it feels like to be wanted or loved.

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It's a cruel joke that I spent my whole childhood extremely interested in romance and the idea of a highschool sweetheart. I was so obsessed with Cinderella as a kid, I now spend every day feeling like I was just broken up with by someone who doesn't exist. I will literally have vivid dreams about a faceless boyfriend just hugging me, or just laying beside me for hours doing nothing at all, and I wake up and sob hysterically.

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My whole body aches with pain from the loneliness, I wish I were married with a family. I want to be a wife, I want to have a person, I want someone to look at me and hold eye contact.

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I got home from work tonight and I'm just outside smoking a blunt singing A Rose For Emily and feeling sorry for myself

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 2 months ago

Online reselling is selfish

Imo, taking advantage of clearance sales and buying out multiple carts full of every type of merchandise under a dollar just to go home and resell it all for a profit is greedy and lazy. You're taking advantage of a system and taking opportunity away from people who actually rely on those sales to get things they would never otherwise be able to get for themselves. Get a real job or start a real business; the greed really drives me crazy

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 2 months ago

First time ever serving

Getting ready to transition from full time retail to my first serving job. Can y'all pretty please answer some questions for me 🙏 , are tips pooled or personal, who do you tip out at the end of the night, are cash tips included or personal, what are the incentives to push the game cards, what arcade related tasks are expected of you besides pushing the cards, and how often is payroll? Plus whatever else you could tell me that is relevant! Thank you all

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 3 months ago

My talking voice makes people think I'm soprano but my singing goes so deep?

The ending of this video sucks but it's bc I have been cleaning house and singing all morning and not drinking any water 😎 my throat is so raw

u/Gummybear_Gunk — 3 months ago
▲ 35 r/lost

Mother has always said it's the dumbest show ever, now loves it

My entire life she has criticized the stupid plane crash island show. She would catch glimpses of others watching it, and hated how the plot always changed and the show never made any sense. She's had nothing but sneers and negative comments regarding any and all things Lost.

The last few weeks, when I am with her I have been putting this show on instead of the usual Law & Order she likes to watch. I didn't ask, I just put it on for myself while she was around.

Don't you know, she's hooked. We're s2e2, she's shouting at all the jump scares, she's talking to the television.

Jin came stumbling out of the jungle shouting "OTHERS!", and she officially asked me to stop watching it without her so she doesn't have to ask questions anymore.

Ladies and gentlemen I am ECSTATIC that I finally did it.

I believe once the plot gets heavy into Ben and The Others and Dharma, it'll just amaze her more and I'm so excited to see it.

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 3 months ago

I don't know how to meet people like me in person and not online

I'm a 25 year old girl and I'm super into horror movies, alt music spanning many genres, smoking weed, the occasional margarita, chilling outside and going out on adventures and being social. Just a normal person here! But everybody my age that I work with or meet either has social anxiety or is just at the clubs shaking their ass every night, and that's NOT my scene. I want a friend who wants to get in the pit at Rockville, or go with me to Halloween Horror Nights. I was sort of getting closer to my coworker but then she recommended the song Itty Bitty by Ashnikko and I realized very quickly we have nothing in common. I had another friend that I went to a concert with and she wanted to stand in the back because the crowd made her uncomfortable!!!! This isolation and loneliness is making me extremely depressed

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 3 months ago

I don't know how to meet people like me in person and not online

I'm a 25 year old girl and I'm super into horror movies, alternative hardcore music, the works. Everybody my age that I work with or meet either has social anxiety or is just at the clubs shaking their ass every night, and that's NOT my scene. I want a friend who wants to get in the pit at Rockville, or go with me to Halloween Horror Nights. I was sort of getting closer to my coworker but then she recommended the song Itty Bitty by Ashnikko and I realized very quickly we have nothing in common. I had another friend that I went to a concert with and she wanted to stand in the back because the crowd made her uncomfortable!!!! I'm just a normal person, I smoke weed, I like to chill outside, I like to go out and be social. This isolation and loneliness is making me extremely depressed though

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 3 months ago

Why do I keep thinking I'll meet somebody when I go to events alone

I went to Halloween Horror Nights alone hoping I'd meet somebody, I went to Rockville alone hoping I'd meet somebody. I'm hot, I'm cool, I'm fun, I'm social... But nobody talks to me. It's so damn lonely and depressing, I just see all these guys with their friends groups or their girlfriends or they're just gay, and nobody ever approaches me or tries to talk to me. I'll strike up conversation but it's short lived because they're with other people usually. I keep thinking one day I'll meet somebody without resorting to the shallow nature of dating apps and filtering through the people that just want to hook up. But it's really really depressing me coming back from these things alone.

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 3 months ago

How strict was the bag policy yesterday?

I have a crossbody bag that measures 4x8 and I'm concerned it won't be allowed in. But right across the street at Bass Pro shop they are selling slightly larger bags at their Rockville Supply stand. I'm wondering how it went yesterday for everybody.

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u/Gummybear_Gunk — 3 months ago