u/LazyPotatoHead97

Looks like a Lotus from the video and it's in Canada!!!

Even though only just one, it is still pretty cool to see

I just want to mention they are elderly, (they had me late)

I love helping my parents out as much as I can.

But some days I just need to breath and relax and not do anything.

Everyday I have to be doing something to help them out and its just exhausting its almost like im burning out.

The Law of One is basically the ultimate "cosmic oneness" philosophy, and it wraps up in a simple idea: everything and everyone is made of the exact same energy. Think of the universe as a massive, infinite ocean, and each of us is just a wave—we might look separate, but we’re all just the same water. Life is essentially a giant school for the soul where we "level up" through different stages of consciousness, and our main assignment right now is to pick a lane. We can choose the positive path of love, empathy, and helping others, or the negative path of control and pure selfishness. By focusing on compassion and keeping our headspace clear, we literally raise our internal vibration and tune into that bigger connection.

What makes this wild is that it didn’t start as a random theory; it began as a strict, decades-long investigation into telepathy. The main guy behind it, Don Elkins, was a university physics and engineering professor who wanted to approach channeling with scientific rigor. Alongside Carla Rueckert and Jim McCarty (forming L/L Research), they treated the sessions like a formal laboratory study with audio recordings and strict question-and-answer protocols. While you won't find it in mainstream peer-reviewed journals like Nature, it is widely considered the gold standard of metaphysics because the material remained incredibly detailed and internally consistent over hundreds of recorded sessions.

When you look at male mental health through this lens, it’s a total game-changer because it completely dismantles the stressful "lone wolf" mentality. Men are constantly told to be hyper-independent, bury their struggles, and just tough it out, which usually just leads to isolation and burnout. The Law of One says that hyper-independence is a glitch in the matrix—since we’re all connected, leaning on a community or asking for backup isn't weak, it’s just how things are naturally supposed to work. It also reframes heavy, suppressed emotions not as flaws, but just as blocked energy that you need to actually face and feel so you can get your vitality back, while shifting the definition of true strength away from dominating others and toward a real purpose of protecting and supporting the people around you.

On a deeply personal level, this philosophy can be a lifeline when you've hit the absolute absolute bottom. For years, I found myself trapped in the bleak, heavy headspace of the blackpill, feeling completely isolated and carrying the crushing weight of being 29 and never having had a woman in my life. I was incredibly strict and brutal on myself, viewing every romantic or social gap as a personal failure. But when I finally understood the Law of One, something shifted. I realized my physical body isn't "me"—it’s just a vehicle, a driver's car that happened to be born into some really unfortunate, challenging circumstances in this lifetime. That realization allowed me to finally stop the self-punishment and instead choose to take good care of this vehicle. I learned that my true, overarching mission here isn't about hitting societal milestones; it's about fostering love and unity, and sharing that genuine energy with the people who actually need it.

In the end, this whole philosophy just takes the heavy pressure off. It reminds you that going through tough chapters, career shifts, or quiet, isolated periods doesn’t mean you’re failing at life—it just means you’re navigating a complex, high-level school for the soul. Instead of burning yourself out trying to conquer the outer world and prove your worth to everyone else, you get to focus on quietly mastering your own inner world. It lets you drop the harsh self-judgment, realize you don't have to carry everything on your own shoulders, and just focus on managing your energy and choosing love over control one day at a time.

Lets be clear about hustling and hustle culture.

Many people assume that hustle culture is working two jobs in order to pay off the bills, but I remember a time when hustling actually meant you were already living comfortable but "hustled" in order to achieve more things in life. That's why they used to call it a side-hustle

People are brainwashed to think working multiple jobs to barely afford basic necessities is hustling, and its not. That just surviving.

I just want to mention, I am 29(M) and I have never been in relationship before, I never got laid, and I never even had my first kiss before.

FYI: Yes I talk to women, yes I have female friends/acquaintances

No, women don't show any signs that they are romantically interested in me.

I'm the type of a guy that's more motivated with a partner, and I know that its better to have no partner than bad partner but I just feel like I could accomplish so much more in life if I was able to experience love and relationships. If I even had a good women in my life, I would be motivated like 100x more than I am now.

Life just feels so empty without romance and love, like toys(cars, games, travel etc) and friends are just not satisfactory enough for me.

I really try to just ignore this problem but to be honest guys, every time I see a girl and I feel she has no romantic desire for me, I just go to a deep depression no matter how great my day was before.

Seriously chery ev vehicles are already here IN TORONTO testing their cars out or whatever

When are we going to see those beautiful BYD come in and shake up the auto sector here in Canada. Those cars are insane!

Ugliness in this generation especially should be considered a disability.

Being ugly man means you will never get to experience love/relationships with women and have to then be told by society to keep pushing and suffering anyways for no reason

Ugly men are the butt of the joke in most men groups, men will pick the shortest unattractive dudes in the group and playful mock him knowing he can't say much back. Sure as an ugly man, you can argue or banter back but you will always be a constant target and it's annoying

Being ugly man makes you less likely to make good income or even get promoted, so stop telling ugly men to work hard when the cards are stacked against them

So ugly men are not welcome socially by women or by men, ugly men have to work much more harder and even then good income/promotions is not even guaranteed

Ugly men are not given basic human decency or acknowledgement as human beings.

I would truly not wish any man to ever experience ugliness, it is constant suffering and depression

I believe if you're truly ugly man, you should be given welfare check for the pain and suffering of being forced into this world and society with stats that you cannot change. Let them live out the rest of what little they get to experience in life peacefully.

Not all incels are basement dwellers like the stereotypes that want us to be, the truth is many of us have an education, we have jobs and live quiet painful depressing lives.

I have never been in a relationship before or even had my first kiss, not by choice but because the average women doesn't find me romantically attractive and I've essentially been filtered out of dating.

Please respect the blackpill. It will humble continuously as it has done to me many times when I tried to fight against it.

I tried to go against the grain and I really thought if I self improved, I would be attractive to women.

The truth is no matter how much you self improved as an ugly man, it doesn't really do shit.

Muscles we all know mostly attracts other dudes and only if you're already good looking dude will women "notice" your muscles.

I really thought i just needed to be more confident, so I tried to be more social or funny, what I notice is that it doesn't make you more attractive if you're not already attractive to begin with.

Being confident, social, funny, charismatic is a multiplier IF YOU'RE ALREADY HANDSOME TO BEGIN WITH

If you're an ugly man people both men and women actually, just look for ways to socially bully you, or disregard you, or complain or get micro aggressive with you.

If you are confident and ugly you are the punching bag of the social environment you find yourself in because you're easy target to average and good looking people.

Like holy I really rolled had the unlucky deck of cards in my hand.

This is like dark souls nightmare mode level

Being short and bald dude is brutal af.

I feel for you for all my short and bald kings ❤️😭

Not all incels are basement dwellers like the stereotypes that want us to be, the truth is many of us have an education, we have jobs and live quiet painful depressing lives.

I have never been in a relationship before or even had my first kiss, not by choice but because the average women doesn't find me romantically attractive and I've essentially been filtered out of dating.

Please respect the blackpill. It will humble continuously as it has done to me many times when I tried to fight against it.

I tried to go against the grain and I really thought if I self improved, I would be attractive to women.

The truth is no matter how much you self improved as an ugly man, it doesn't really do shit.

Muscles we all know mostly attracts other dudes and only if you're already good looking dude will women "notice" your muscles.

I really thought i just needed to be more confident, so I tried to be more social or funny, what I notice is that it doesn't make you more attractive if you're not already attractive to begin with.

Being confident, social, funny, charismatic is a multiplier IF YOU'RE ALREADY HANDSOME TO BEGIN WITH

If you're an ugly man people both men and women actually, just look for ways to socially bully you, or disregard you, or complain or get micro aggressive with you.

If you are confident and ugly you are the punching bag of the social environment you find yourself in because you're easy target to average and good looking people.