u/Lost-Photo-9027

I am educated, considerate and not entitled. I have been told that I have a good dressing sense( i dress modestly), smell good and that I am easy to talk to. I am well-read and enjoy having deep conversations. I don't sleep with these men as they end up showing their intentions pretty early on. I like to take time to build some connection before we can head in that direction( I have never hooked up before).So could it just my looks that makes these men not pursue me for relationships and they think they can do better? Please don't mind being brutally honest, I can handle it.

I am in my 30s now, and it has been the case since my 20s. I meet these men on apps

Hello,

Please note that my employment contract states that I have to give one month notice if I want to quit. Does that mean I will be required to complete the full one month or can I leave beforehand?

I was under the impression that men couldn’t initiate messaging on bumble. But a guy super liked me, I matched but didn’t message him, but he actually messaged me first.
Is he paying for it or men can initiate? I dont have an opening move because its not there on my profile

I have never got an EI, thinking if I should quit or wait for them to fire me.

I have reached a point in my life that I don’t trust myself anymore. I used to think I was atleast average in terms of intelligence and knew what I was doing, but most of my life decisions have turned out to be wrong. I have been unhappy for years and have been feeling quite disconnected to my own life, as if my life isn’t mine. Everyone I know has moved on to next chapters of their lives and I am still stuck in a loop.

Does anybody here relate?

Being a lawyer has stressed me out so much for the past few months that my retail job 10 years back feels like a dream. I basically wasted my youth on this, and this is the end result? A job at home depot would be nice at this point, so I can turn off my brain at night. Nothing is more precious than a peace of mind. Glad we have a sub like this

It is not for a job opportunity

I am looking to switch to regulatory or privacy jobs, but I don't have experience in it.