Life's Manipulation - Part 5. How insecure bfs, simps and performative men promote misandry?

1. Promoting Misandry is the best way to make sure that your gf does not talk to any other guy

I have a friend (playboy, as he is super handsome, ofc) - he told me that many guys including him are super insecure that their gf will leave them behind, So they take drastic steps - making their gf to block all male best friends and constantly preaching her how all men are bad and provoking misandry within them.

This was seen among many friends of mine.

That's why, you will often see that misandrists have a bf.

Because social media sets the fire and their insecure bfs make sure to fuel it so that she does not talk to any other guys.

2. Single males in their twenties or thirties are the most performative

Like I have literally seen Thirties sub saying -
"As a man, I believe there should be ban on men going outside after 7 pm." ~ Age 34
"As a man, I respect the protests and all men should support it too." ~ Age 31

Like come on bro unc, do you even know what are the slogans of protests???
Or yeah, ban yourself from going outside after 7 pm and leave all of us alone

3. Average redditor mindset

When we say women, it means each and every women out there (including our mother and sisters).
When they say men, it means - specifically the men who have committed heinous crimes against women.

4. Simps and performative males (and feminists too, ofc)

Any man with self respect will NOT go to protests and shout out slogans which his against his own gender.
But NAH, we got simps and performative males who are trying their best to win the hearts of the girls.

5. Any man who is not in touch with social medias will NEVER accept that women commit crimes against men too

Yes, you have read it right.

Our news headline where man or boy is the victim - they just mention "sexual relation" instead of rape, hide gender where ever guy is the victim and woman is guilty, etc.

So, for any millennial, boomer, gen z or gen alpha - who are not specifically searching for male victims will NEVER be able to accept the cases of false accusations, alimony, murders, etc are really high too.

6. Special thanks to misogynistic memes pumped out by meme subreddits in name of shitposts which is fueling misandry too.

7. There are NO official stats for men who became victim of the judiciary system, law abuse and what not.
So, for any normal guy, they are aware of just 2-3 cases which is directly compared to the number published in rape reports.
And ofc, so they will not fight for men rights either.

Ask any normal guy who are not active in men rights judiciary systems or this sub. None of them are aware of the cases.

Even in rape reports, false rape accusations and male victims are included.

Our law does not have any ways of recognizing male victims.

8. Jumping to conclusion after seeing partial information

Even where there are stats, like 2007 report where it is told that young boys faces more sexual abuse than young girls.

Guess how internet reacted?

They said that even they are sexually abused by men too.

Whereas on the 127th page, it's clearly mentioned that the abuse is more by their mother (who is a woman)

So yeah, you know it's correct when people say -
"Mard hi mard jaati ki dushman hai"

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 15 days ago
▲ 42 r/AskIndianMen+1 crossposts

Reddit manipulation - Part 4. What y'all think?

https://preview.redd.it/34h4l60jkash1.png?width=873&format=png&auto=webp&s=e003b8f74e7989e681d4d537c07f8cf70342b3ef

Posted in several subs.

25 - 90 upvotes in each of the posts.

Comment section -

https://preview.redd.it/d7chhxyrkash1.png?width=863&format=png&auto=webp&s=218a7073a2542f1eb817429d65e9a1935508c57b

A really simple internet search -

https://preview.redd.it/6qxojuzukash1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=022b3fcbb8f76843fa6c57d29a97d1873e869973

There are people out there who are deliberately trying to push false cases to promote misandry among young girls.

If any girl is seeing this post, please do fact check whatever you see on social media.

Why I did not posted in AIW?
Ans - I am already aware what will the comment section will look like. They all will push their agenda of saying that if there is just one false case doesn't mean every case is false, men are monsters, etc etc

So posting here ~

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 17 days ago

A really dumb question about how LLMs get trained

Please don't get offended, the question or this entire post maybe completely stupid and useless, but I am curious -

Most of the people I have came across in internet - they hate LLM because according to them it "steals" data.

But I am curious, like -

If AI has to pay everyone on whose data which it trains, will not most of them restrict it from doing so? Or will not the AI API prices skyrocket?

Like, we want the LLM to be super advanced and super cheap but at the same time we don't want it to be trained on any data or anything - how can this both even exist simultaneously?

Even if AI is getting trained on our data, it will not be like that this specific person X has searched and asked all those stupid things and then it will post it on social media tagging us. They will be trained anonymously with exabytes of other data.

(I am not talking about enterprise data or sensitive data or professional data.)

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 1 month ago

Can someone please explain me the hatred against Bear in the movie Obsession?

(I am really sorry I had to use LLM to phrase my thoughts into clear post. I could have posted my words directly but they were messy and unreadable. I tried to point out the bias which I noticed in several comments. I will be really thankful for unique insights and explanations. :D )

Ever since Obsession dropped, nearly every review, video essay, and thread paints Bear as an entitled, manipulative villain who deliberately enslaved Nikki.

People judge him as if he were a mastermind who read the script beforehand, rather than an insecure music store clerk who snapped a cheap novelty trinket in a moment of heartbreak. If you step into his shoes without narrative hindsight, his actions make sense for an ordinary, terrified guy caught in an impossible nightmare.

Before the comment section repeats the same four video-essay talking points, let's address why those arguments fall apart under scrutiny:

1. "The phrasing of his wish was possessive and controlling"

Critics constantly claim Bear is evil because he wished she would love him "more than anyone in the world" instead of wishing for confidence to ask her out. This criticism only works in complete hindsight.

Nobody buys a novelty plastic stick at a weird kiosk expecting actual demonic magic to warp reality. For Bear, snapping that willow was the exact psychological equivalent of wishing upon a shooting star after getting your heart broken. When people daydream or make impulsive wishes about their crush, they wish for mutual love; nobody drafts a hyper-specific, legally binding contract with situational boundaries for a toy they don't even believe works.

2. "He ignored her mental breakdown for validation"

A common criticism is that Bear saw Nikki having erratic emotional swings on night one and supposedly ignored her obvious suffering just to get physical affection. This conveniently forgets what actually happens in the scene.

Nikki gave him a completely plausible, real-world explanation for her distress: severe stress and mood swings over her father battling cancer. Bear and their friend group already knew about her family crisis, so believing her explanation was not malicious denial. He had zero reason to conclude that a plastic willow had literally split her soul into two entities.

3. "He got offended when the real Nikki begged to die"

People love pointing to the scene where Nikki begs him to kill her, claiming Bear only cared about his bruised ego because she would rather die than love him. That is pure thematic interpretation, not what a real person experiences in that room.

Bear was looking at his lifelong friend spiraling into inexplicable, terrifying mania. A regular person confronted with someone begging for death does not coldly analyze romantic consent; they are paralyzed in shock, wondering whether she is having a psychotic break or if a supernatural presence is toying with them. Expecting him to instantly comprehend the split-consciousness mechanics of an ancient curse in that moment is unrealistic.

4. "He hid the truth and let his friends die"

Viewers claim Bear maliciously hid the curse from Ian and Sarah to protect his reputation, leaving them defenseless. But knowing a curse exists is entirely different from expecting your childhood friend to turn into a literal slasher villain.

Until Sarah was murdered, Bear had no reason to believe Nikki was capable of butchering their mutual friends. The moment he witnessed her violent turn, he immediately acted and warned Ian to stay far away from the house. When he finally realized that his own life was the only sacrifice that could undo the spell and free her, he went through with it and died to break the curse.

The Bottom Line

Bear was cowardly, emotionally insecure, and completely out of his depth, but being an insecure guy who made a foolish wish does not make him a sociopathic villain. He never wanted Nikki or his friends harmed, and treating him like an intentional monster ignores the human reality of panic, shock, and supernatural terror.

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 1 month ago

Can someone please explain me the hatred against Bear in the movie Obsession?

(I am really sorry I had to use LLM to phrase my thoughts into clear post. I could have posted my words directly but they were messy and unreadable. I tried to point out the bias which I noticed in several comments. I will be really thankful for unique insights and explanations. :D )

Ever since Obsession dropped, nearly every review, video essay, and thread paints Bear as an entitled, manipulative villain who deliberately enslaved Nikki.

People judge him as if he were a mastermind who read the script beforehand, rather than an insecure music store clerk who snapped a cheap novelty trinket in a moment of heartbreak. If you step into his shoes without narrative hindsight, his actions make sense for an ordinary, terrified guy caught in an impossible nightmare.

Before the comment section repeats the same four video-essay talking points, let's address why those arguments fall apart under scrutiny:

1. "The phrasing of his wish was possessive and controlling"

Critics constantly claim Bear is evil because he wished she would love him "more than anyone in the world" instead of wishing for confidence to ask her out. This criticism only works in complete hindsight.

Nobody buys a novelty plastic stick at a weird kiosk expecting actual demonic magic to warp reality. For Bear, snapping that willow was the exact psychological equivalent of wishing upon a shooting star after getting your heart broken. When people daydream or make impulsive wishes about their crush, they wish for mutual love; nobody drafts a hyper-specific, legally binding contract with situational boundaries for a toy they don't even believe works.

2. "He ignored her mental breakdown for validation"

A common criticism is that Bear saw Nikki having erratic emotional swings on night one and supposedly ignored her obvious suffering just to get physical affection. This conveniently forgets what actually happens in the scene.

Nikki gave him a completely plausible, real-world explanation for her distress: severe stress and mood swings over her father battling cancer. Bear and their friend group already knew about her family crisis, so believing her explanation was not malicious denial. He had zero reason to conclude that a plastic willow had literally split her soul into two entities.

3. "He got offended when the real Nikki begged to die"

People love pointing to the scene where Nikki begs him to kill her, claiming Bear only cared about his bruised ego because she would rather die than love him. That is pure thematic interpretation, not what a real person experiences in that room.

Bear was looking at his lifelong friend spiraling into inexplicable, terrifying mania. A regular person confronted with someone begging for death does not coldly analyze romantic consent; they are paralyzed in shock, wondering whether she is having a psychotic break or if a supernatural presence is toying with them. Expecting him to instantly comprehend the split-consciousness mechanics of an ancient curse in that moment is unrealistic.

4. "He hid the truth and let his friends die"

Viewers claim Bear maliciously hid the curse from Ian and Sarah to protect his reputation, leaving them defenseless. But knowing a curse exists is entirely different from expecting your childhood friend to turn into a literal slasher villain.

Until Sarah was murdered, Bear had no reason to believe Nikki was capable of butchering their mutual friends. The moment he witnessed her violent turn, he immediately acted and warned Ian to stay far away from the house. When he finally realized that his own life was the only sacrifice that could undo the spell and free her, he went through with it and died to break the curse.

The Bottom Line

Bear was cowardly, emotionally insecure, and completely out of his depth, but being an insecure guy who made a foolish wish does not make him a sociopathic villain. He never wanted Nikki or his friends harmed, and treating him like an intentional monster ignores the human reality of panic, shock, and supernatural terror.

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 1 month ago

Every benchmarks gets saturated after certain period of time, then why is HLE not yet saturated?

Every benchmarks get saturated after certain period of time where several frontier models often secure over 90%.

But, HLE - this benchmark is so old but have not yet been saturated. How is that even possible?

I have seen several toughest maths benchmarks getting saturated (or will be very saturated) but the highest score in HLE is still in 60s %.

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago

Every benchmarks gets saturated after certain period of time, then why is HLE not yet saturated?

Every benchmarks get saturated after certain period of time where several frontier models often secure over 90%.

But, HLE - this benchmark is so old but have not yet been saturated. How is that even possible?

I have seen several toughest maths benchmarks getting saturated (or will be very saturated) but the highest score in HLE is still in 60s %.

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/OpenAI

How to learn how to use ChatGPT and codex efficiently?

Now, before you tell me that it's just basic and we don't have to learn anything.

Often I see that there are new updates releasing here and then.

We have several features like ChatGPT Work, Codex, etc

There are several procedures, rules and best techniques of how to use them efficiently, how to prompt efficiently, etc

Are there any ways to learn them?

I am able to find the videos of youtube but they are pretty old.

So, I was wondering, can I learn from OpenAI academy? Are there courses regularly updated as per their versions?

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago

Don't be this b*tch

https://preview.redd.it/u0c7hcbj99mh1.png?width=1822&format=png&auto=webp&s=21406d017d85ca7353e0ba827d8225abb957c52f

No AI was used - this person is spamming AI on every peer review's comment boxes.

https://preview.redd.it/vqv9me0o99mh1.png?width=928&format=png&auto=webp&s=f51f9f4bda06e9781a51f86ee5e9d5880f796db2

I have got 0 in both my assignments.

Why?

Well -

https://preview.redd.it/kgfqv82s99mh1.png?width=387&format=png&auto=webp&s=421635eb0c36582bbac886f5904b1d1a7a662a1e

https://preview.redd.it/5lcpjh7y99mh1.png?width=1810&format=png&auto=webp&s=654e0011c36bb2130b0ac5b5e735f05d636a495c

Then we have another person who spams "ok" everywhere...

So, if peer reviewer #5 is not reviewing my assignment then it's my fault..

If someone doing ts, then it's also my fault.

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago

How NOT to get misandrist posts in Insta and Reddit?

Hey, I am new to insta.

I use insta primarily in my browser (microsoft edge).

I started using Insta and every alternate posts are pure misandry and instead of people defending in comments, I often see people accepting it and lacs of likes on the post.

I try not to mind and block the channel/user so that I don't get their post. Yet, I see different channel with misandrist posts again.

Are there any ways to block misandrist contents on my feed?

I created new insta account hoping NOT to get them, yet I get them.

On Reddit too, I started new account with interest in writing, tech and gaming. Yet, I somehow land on misandrist posts...

Like, just now before writing this post - I came across a post which asked -

Why women friends are jealous among themselves? (Mind you, this was asked by Indian women in women's community)

And in the comments ppl were saying that it's the result of patriarchy because men are taking up everything and they all have to fight with each other for very few remaining things.

Oh please...

I try to block those users so as not to get them - I blocked over 50 users (pseudo-feminists, simps, misandrists and misogynists too) - yet my feeds are full of them and it's impossible to block so many people

Please help - they are trying to make me hate one gender specifically without any reasons. Meanwhile irl, I see them kissing each other and having romance with each other... They love each other so deeply, yet I see these kind of posts... Bruh...

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago

Vellum v/s Hermes v/s OpenClaw v/s Deepseek Harness

My task mostly revolves around extremely long horizon tasks.

Like, I paste around 600 images then I want the agent to solve every (high school level) question and create markdown of detailed solutions in Question and Answer format.

Few of the best agents which were able to help me through out these with ease -
ChatGPT Work
Perplexity Computer
Claude

Many people have recommended me solution where I have to manually create the workflow but I want the managed services - I searched and came across the above 4 mentioned options.

Which one is best for my workflow?

I will be really thankful if anyone is able to provide me guidance and their experience across these agents.

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago

Vellum v/s Hermes v/s OpenClaw v/s Deepseek Harness

My task mostly revolves around extremely long horizon tasks.

Like, I paste around 600 images then I want the agent to solve every (high school level) question and create markdown of detailed solutions in Question and Answer format.

Few of the best agents which were able to help me through out these with ease -
ChatGPT Work
Perplexity Computer
Claude

Many people have recommended me solution where I have to manually create the workflow but I want the managed services - I searched and came across the above 4 mentioned options.

Which one is best for my workflow?

I will be really thankful if anyone is able to provide me guidance and their experience across these agents.

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago

Vellum v/s Hermes v/s OpenClaw v/s Deepseek Harness

My task mostly revolves around extremely long horizon tasks.

Like, I paste around 600 images then I want the agent to solve every (high school level) question and create markdown of detailed solutions in Question and Answer format.

Few of the best agents which were able to help me through out these with ease -
ChatGPT Work
Perplexity Computer
Claude

Many people have recommended me solution where I have to manually create the workflow but I want the managed services - I searched and came across the above 4 mentioned options.

Which one is best for my workflow?

I will be really thankful if anyone is able to provide me guidance and their experience across these agents.

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago

Too tough to keep track, any newsletter/website which helps me keep track of the latest advancement and releases?

Every now and then, I see a new better benchmark getting released, a new model getting released, a new harness, a large new update, pricing changes, etc etc

It's getting too tough to keep track of everything... Are there any way by which I can easily keep track of all the advancement and releases?

And to add, there are products out there, which are the best of best, yet they have no news or any talks about them anywhere

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago

Which is the best (autonomous) AI agent harness where can I bring my own model?

I have used these agents - ChatGPT Work and Perplexity computer. They are the best tools I ever came across.

I gave them 98 images of questions, they were able to solve those questions - create three markdown files - notes, solutions and cheat sheets.

So, you can see that my task is extremely long horizon. Several tasks are 10x larger than what I described.

Are there any open source alternative or something where I can bring and connect my own model and it autonomously perform exactly as ChatGPT Work or Perplexity Computer?

I don't want to take the burden of downloading individual skills, creating custom sub-agents, defining workflows, etc.

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago

Which is the best (autonomous) AI agent harness where can I bring my own model?

I have used these agents - ChatGPT Work and Perplexity computer. They are the best tools I ever came across.

I gave them 98 images of questions, they were able to solve those questions - create three markdown files - notes, solutions and cheat sheets.

So, you can see that my task is extremely long horizon. Several tasks are 10x larger than what I described.

Are there any open source alternative or something where I can bring and connect my own model and it autonomously perform exactly as ChatGPT Work or Perplexity Computer?

I don't want to take the burden of downloading individual skills, creating custom sub-agents, defining workflows, etc.

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago

Seriously, how you guys even find your soulmate or life-time partner?

Most of us are in colleges where most of the people are boys.

Like, I myself am in the college where there are only guys.

This made me curious, how will one even be able to find soulmate?

Few ways which I notice -

1. Dating Apps -

Problems with them -
a. Most people think that it's used by chhapris.
b. People there have extremely high standards.
c. The entire process of you getting matched with someone is dependent on looks (and few other factors).

2. Matrimonial Apps -

Problems with them -
a. You don't know the person, you marry them on the basis of kundli and other written statistics.

Other places like Gym - only have guys as well. (Atleast the time I visit there, only has guys)

When I was in school - it was co-ed, yet they made boys and girls sit completely in different classes, different, queues, different stairs, etc - which made communication impossible. (And moreover, as I don't know local language, it was way more awkward)

On road, malls, etc - like we see in kdramas, fictions, etc - I don't think it is suitable to try this in India (unless you want to get tagged creep).

Workplace - I have seen many experts telling NOT to start relationship in workplace and keep professional life separate from personal life.

Arrange Marriage - Same, you are first decided by how much you earn and then you are decided by looks.

I will be thankful if you guys share how you were able to find your soulmate.

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago

Seriously, how you guys even find your soulmate or life-time partner?

Most of us are in colleges where most of the people are boys.

Like, I myself am in the college where there are only guys.

This made me curious, how will one even be able to find soulmate?

Few ways which I notice -

1. Dating Apps -

Problems with them -
a. Most people think that it's used by chhapris.
b. People there have extremely high standards.
c. The entire process of you getting matched with someone is dependent on looks (and few other factors).

2. Matrimonial Apps -

Problems with them -
a. You don't know the person, you marry them on the basis of kundli and other written statistics.

Other places like Gym - only have guys as well. (Atleast the time I visit there, only has guys)

When I was in school - it was co-ed, yet they made boys and girls sit completely in different classes, different, queues, different stairs, etc - which made communication impossible. (And moreover, as I don't know local language, it was way more awkward)

On road, malls, etc - like we see in kdramas, fictions, etc - I don't think it is suitable to try this in India (unless you want to get tagged creep).

Workplace - I have seen many experts telling NOT to start relationship in workplace and keep professional life separate from personal life.

Arrange Marriage - Same, you are first decided by how much you earn and then you are decided by looks.

I will be thankful if you guys share how you were able to find your soulmate.

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago

Clarifying the hatred against "good guys"?

Tl;dr - You start valuing things which are rarer, not things which are extremely common.

I am seeing across several posts where they were hating the fact that the people are pointing out that the girls hate good guys...

Let me clarify, let me clarify.

Yes, it's true

Guys hate good girls AND girls hate good guys... (I will speak in general, not just of one gender)

Now, why does this happen?

The simple reasons are -

Availability - Good ppl often dedicate their entire free time to partner, hoping to be available and give their best to their partner.
Meanwhile so called red flags, talk with their partner, once in a while (I am not even joking) - this creates the sense that he is busy in his great goal and as they provide less time - they have more topics to talk about, and can hold convo lot better, - and after waiting for the whole day, if someone talks to you for 5 minutes, it feels extremely prestigious and worthy.

Manipulation - Good guys are often always comforting, too agreeable, no manipulation skills, no demands, nothing...
Meanwhile red flags often use push and pull technique, agreeing and disagreeing, demanding things, etc - these all make girls feel that they are getting seen and they are helpful.

That's why often you see girls flexing on insta that their guys are the brightest red flags - because they are...

Girls often fall for playboys for this reason too...

This is the plot of several romance kdramas and cdramas too...

That's why in a relationship often their is a owner and a slave (this was intro of anime which is totally true)

The entire thing is totally true when the gender is reversed

Idk why we are even fighting over this, this is basic psychology...

Oh, I forgot to add, I have told the entire thing from perspective of teens and young adults...

This can be entirely wrong when more mature people fall in love with each other

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u/Lucky_Creme_5208 — 2 months ago