u/Mac_Demarcist

I just need to know if I'm being too paranoid or not

Let me explain the context:

Before meeting my mother my father met another woman, they had two kids together

And then he abused his wife and tried to kill her so they got divorced and then he met my mother

They only had me

We grew up in a pretty isolated place, where he was fully in control and also pretty abusive

He couldn't stop telling me about stuff from another country ( His father's country )

And how we should go there

After some serious stuff with the police and the justice etc he had to stop seeing us

But he kept stalking me especially, going to my school, staying in front of the apartment etc

One day he stole my id papers and card because he needed it to take me and him back to his country

This event was maybe 3/4 years ago

And a few days ago I texted him about money, because I needed money for something

I barely text him

And right after texting him I received a very strange message from my brother, which haven't talked to me since 2019

He said "Hello sis, if you wanna text me, you can do it on this number, you're in my heart forever"

And I replied "Woah, I thought you forgot about me"

And then he said "I didn't, what was meant to happen is just delayed"

And I had a very bad chill in my spine, like a strange feeling, I asked what he was talking about and he didn't replied

Should I worry they're planning something? Because this proves that they're still in contact but what does it mean ?

My father has been trying to attack my mother in all the ways he could, trying to find mistakes she might have made or things like that

Everyone keep telling me that I shouldn't trust me, that he's evil etc, but can it be that far ?

I talked about it with a friend, but I'm afraid they don't take me seriously

And beside that, there's no public information about my father

I have his criminal record, but not the complete one

I heard that they'll add character description in a week so, maybe let's wait ? Or am I just blinded by hope

Hey

I was thinking about this question a lot

I know that one of the first step to take is to go into school, talks to parents and make global prevention

Because it's impossible to completely lock young people out of the internet

But at the same time, I know it can't be considered enough

So, what alternative can we propose to our gouvernement instead of scanning faces and id ?

In France, they're trying to create an ai apparently, that can guess age by hands

What do you guys think?

For me, internet should be anonymous, that's the point, and I don't trust third party or the government itself with our data, especially since a lot of governmental app got hacked this year and had a lot of data breaches

What alternative can we think about? Tell me what you think

Personally, I don't tell people I'm a compulsive liar, I'll be afraid they might think I lie about my traumas

At the same time, I think it might be obvious sometimes that I lie, especially about small random stuff

Hey, so, apparently I reached the brush import limit? I thought the limit was about how many brushes you have and not how many you imported, because even if I delete other brush, I'm still stuck and I can't import any new one

Should I restart a new account so I can have my brushes again ?

I've always asked myself this

Hey, so an hospital posted a video on tiktok, saying we should go screening and a lot of women in the comments explained that, the screenings greatly increased the risk of cancer, that it was a scam, etc

I don't usually believe in conspiracy theory like that, I'm just surprised that half the comments are about it, when a regular video about x-ray have normal comment section Of course I don't believe it

Is there a reason? Are breast more fragile towards x-ray? Or is it just because women feel insecure when it comes to the healthcare system because of the lack of research?

The more and more I meet people in the same group of stuff I do and the more I start to realise that I'm not the special person I thought I was

I know I'm going to get slapped by reality pretty soon and I'm scared

How to overcome the fact that I'm not special? Not the only one

I've been friends with him for like a year, and those last months were complicated, he had a lot of stuff going on in his life

He told me he wasn't feeling alright and now he's been offline for like days

What should I do ?

Okay

So like in 2022 I got friend with someone, they didn't liked me much but from my point we were pretty close

We stopped talking after less than a year and she started ghosting me

I missed her so so so much, I couldn't stop trying to make conversations, to stalk her accounts and also to move on by finding someone similar like her

Then I met someone this summer, so it's been almost a year

Everything was good, even more than good, he really liked me back a lot

( All of this is platonic ofc )

And I was obsessed with him, to the point I cared more about him than my irl friends

Then he stopped talking from nowhere

I know I might sound a bit cringe but I was really obsessed with them, I can't stop checking their account, because they're still active, just ignoring me

How do I move on ?

I feel like there's always something missing when I meet someone new

Hey, I'm a bit bad with socialising but I like games, shows, books, nature, arts, hikes, history, mythology, sports etc

We can learn to know eachother in dm if needed

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Yo, j'habite a environ 20 minutes de Grenoble, je voulais savoir s'il y avait des gens chauds pour devenir potes, ou sortir etc ?