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I’m 4’10” and been with my husband for 20+ years and married for 15. He was my first bf ever and we’ve had a great relationship. However, the past 2-3 years I’ve noticed him growing increasingly insecure about himself and our relationship. He almsot consistently acts like I am going to leave or cheat on him and the topic of height gets brought up a lot. He is 5’6-5’7 ish. He’s gotten super protective to the point I can’t go out alone without him (to grocery stores, the gym, etc) he truly believes some man is going to waltz in and take me from him and he makes me feel guilty or puts me down a lot but I know it’s bc of his own fears and insecurites. We are both in therapy indivually btw….. just wondering what I can possibly do to ease his feelings and ensure he knows that I’m not leaving and I love him for who he is height and all. I do tell him this a low but he doesn’t believe me

My glutes are my weakest muscle and I’ve tried on and off for years to grow stronger larger glutes. Finally taking it super seriously and since January I’ve built up to this.
It might not be much for some girls, but huge deal for me.

Also before anyone compares I do have extensive athletic background and a former bikini bodybuilding Champion in 2012 so this was a longgg time
Coming

I’ve noticed something about myself and I’m curious what others think from a body language/psychology perspective.

When I’m talking to someone, I naturally maintain pretty deep, prolonged eye contact—not in a creepy “serial killer stare” way, but because I’m genuinely interested and fully engaged in the conversation. I want people to feel seen and truly listened to since that’s so rare these days

I’ve noticed a lot of people seem to get uncomfortable. They’ll look away frequently, break eye contact, or sometimes barely make eye contact at all.

Does prolonged eye contact tend to intimidate people? Do most people interpret it as confidence, intensity, attraction, or something else? Or is it simply that many people aren’t used to that level of eye contact?

I’d love to hear your experiences, whether you’re the one making eye contact or the one receiving it.
Is this a common courtesy of the past? Have times changed so much that it isn’t welcome anymore ?

Edited to add: I know eye contact is tough for neurodivergent ppl (my husband and son are AuDHD…that’s not what I’m talking about here though)

**2nd edit: I am a woman if that makes a difference, I was raised by older parents who grew up in the 50’s and this was considered polite to look at people when they speak. I’m honestly shocked by all the comments here 😅… and no I don’t continue eye contact if I already sense the person is uncomfortable. I do look away or down on occasions or at my surroundings etc while someone speaks and and by prolonged I don’t man dead stare I mean even just a few seconds of eye to eyes meeting I notice ppl just hate that these days. It’s bizarre to me

I’ve noticed something about myself and I’m curious what others think from a body language/psychology perspective.

When I’m talking to someone, I naturally maintain pretty deep, prolonged eye contact—not in a creepy “serial killer stare” way, but because I’m genuinely interested and fully engaged in the conversation. I want people to feel seen and truly listened to since that’s so rare these days

I’ve noticed a lot of people seem to get uncomfortable. They’ll look away frequently, break eye contact, or sometimes barely make eye contact at all.

Does prolonged eye contact tend to intimidate people? Do most people interpret it as confidence, intensity, attraction, or something else? Or is it simply that many people aren’t used to that level of eye contact?

I’d love to hear your experiences, whether you’re the one making eye contact or the one receiving it.

Edited to add: I know eye contact is tough for neurodivergent ppl (my husband and son are AuDHD…that’s not what I’m talking about here though)

Looking for some new anime’s to watch. I really loved these so anything very similar that you loved and would recommend would be appreciated 🥰

Looking for recommendations for an HRT doctor experienced with women in surgical menopause, preferably someone who understands both hormone optimization and fitness/body composition goals.

A little background: I’m 39, a former bikini bodybuilding competitor, and had a hysterectomy years ago. My ovaries were left in place but appear to be largely non-functional at this point.

Not currently on HRT, and recent comprehensive bloodwork was normal overall, but I’m experiencing symptoms that make me feel like it’s time to consult with a specialist.

Looking for someone who takes symptoms, quality of life, muscle preservation, recovery, energy, and long-term health into account.
Bonus if they are knowledgeable about:
Surgical menopause
Testosterone therapy in women
Growth hormone/peptides
Body composition and resistance training
Perimenopause/menopause optimization

I’d love to hear:
Who you use
Whether they’re local or telehealth
What your experience has been
Approximate costs if you’re comfortable sharing
Thanks in advance!☺️🫶🏼

Hi everyone! I’m looking for recommendations for a truly exceptional aesthetician in the Orlando area.

I have very sensitive, reactive skin, so preferably someone who is knowledgeable about skin barrier health, gentle treatments, and customized skincare rather than a one-size-fits-all approach.

Bonus points if they:
• Specialize in sensitive or compromised skin
• Incorporate Korean skincare techniques or treatments
• Offer treatments such as Korean facials, lymphatic massage, PDRN, skin boosters, or advanced hydration treatments

If you’ve had a great personal experience with someone, I’d love to hear who you recommend and why.

TIA! 💕

Is there a secret club where all the 35–45 year olds who still love to dance hang out? 😂

I’ve been missing going out and dancing lately, but DT Orlando isn’t really my scene anymore. It feels like the only time I dance now is at weddings… and in your 40s there aren’t exactly a lot of weddings happening anymore. 😅

Looking for fun places with good music, dancing, and a slightly older crowd. Salsa, bachata, Latin nights, reggaeton, live bands—I’m open!

What are your favorite go-to spots?