Tracking down father?
How much effort would you take in trying to track down a father?
I am very newly pregnant. I had planned on doing solo motherhood by choice in a year or two when I was more financially stable. However I had a hook up from a dating app where condom broke and plan B failed (like it has for me in the past, but that was in a committed relationship). When I told him I'm worried I might be pregnant, he told me he wasn't ready to be a father and unmatched me on the app. I only know first name, city he lives in, employer and his hometown but he did tell me one of his relatives was a relatively well known person with an identifying detail and I was able to find out who they are. He doesn't know any details about me that he could track me down if he changes his mind. I could track down who he is through a private investigator or reaching out to people from his hometown/his relative to at least give him the option to be involved once baby is here but I don't know how extra that is? I wish I could've given him my contact information before he blocked so he could at least get a hold of me if he changes his mind.
How much effort would you put into giving him a chance to be involved? I am of the camp that as long as a father isn't abusive, he should be told he has a child. But idk what to do in this situation when he's pretty much made any communication impossible and made it difficult to find him.