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Nenu 31F, very much introverted.

Roju na interactions is very limited just - daddy, na dogesh(2), ma pani ammai, na garden and vaaraniki okasari na bestie tho phone lo muchatlu.

Apudu apudu edaina profile nachithe matrimony lo text cheyadam and see how things go.

I don't even meet the people until and unless I really really like them and got those butterflies.

Ivala daddy office nundi ochaka ma sambashana:

D: Enti ivala sangathulu evaraina nachara

Me: Nope, emi levu

D: Sarle poni, life ayina enjoy cheyi nachina valatho phone lo matladu, baitiki vellu ala long drive ko ekkadiko ala journey chei.

Me: Duh( Flabbergasted Sunil expression)

Ya matladachu kani vaalu athukupotharu mali vadalaru jiguru jinganiya..Naku avsarama.

D: Adi nijame le.. sarle edoti 🫢

Me: Ivala dinner dosa ne

D: Vachesariki annam untadi ante ee dosa ente babu

Me : Sarada, pindi migilipoindi

D: Sarle edoti, ivala ye series pedthunav

Me: Save the 🐅 🐯 🐅 🐯

//Insert ikka ikka pakka pakka//

Yeah parents like these exist.. 😅

Idea: Dog Groomer

Investment: 5k for products

Procedure: Bath, Trimming, Blow Dry.

Expected Payment : Depending on size of the pet.

Small: 800

Medium: 1000

Large: 1200

I think there is scope for this business in Hyderabad since many people have other activities in weekends. However the area of opportunity lies in visiting the clients house..

My groomer who visits my house is super busy and he mentioned that he'd visit Mahesh Babu's and Amala's house regularly.

Also the rate card can be pushed up if you are really good at it..

Maybe an app for groomer and availability of his slot.

Other features which can be added

1. Dog walker

2. Dog boarding at their house for certain amount and time ( there is an app for this already where many college goers are active on it)

Note: One should be pet lover for this type of job..

Dad lent 5L for interest to known friend in 2021 and he gave us 2 cheques.

He paid interest for 1.5 years and stopped paying further.

Dad engaged lawyer by paying 30k and informed to start legal proceedings.

That lady lawyer went to debtor's home and got a blank paper signed by that debtor and also collected 80k from him without our knowledge.

When we asked the lawyer shouted on us stating, I am already handling why are you in touch with him and stopped responding to us entirely from that day and it's been more than 8 months.

What are the next possible ways to receive the amount back because debtor is like - check with your lawyer and get that amount back only then I'd pay the balance.

Idi romba kastamaina katha. Girl and Boy both are 31 years.

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Cut chesthe mana Boy ki parents leru. Girl ki mother ledu, due to Cawrowna.

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Nannu emo giant family lo ne idam ana planning day 1 nundi. But na introvert nature ki idi advantage ani, I was okay to catch up with the guy.

So even before these tiny details were shared, Naku koncham kuda intrest ledu to meet him.

1. Thana forehead and face medha chickenpox la spots unai.

2. Hair kuda poinde light ga 🥲

3. Kani daddy tho ah abai chala nidananga, matured ga achi chusi matladadu, so daddy liked him first.

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Location recommended by him: Third wave cafe ( me being Hyperacusis and on top of that akkada art competition edo pettadu ah cafe lo- v overwhelming)

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Sharp 3 ki nenu daddy vellamu, he mentioned he'd get his cousin. We met, First nenu ah abai ni chusanuapudu thanu na kanna aiomayam la anipichadu. Exactly eduruga we were seated but he didn't notice us.

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Dad said you guys keep talking we will be downstairs. That cousin and dad left.

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Anyways once we both were given privacy, in 10-15 minutes waiter bro ochi rendu pedha glasses of coffee with cream pettadu- he said mi vallu kinda unnaru. I was relieved.

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Now I was super hungry and I hate sweets and desserts. But Inka aakali esi adi taste chesa as usual tastebuds ani waaak ani oka signal. Inka I ate 1/3rd of it.

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Miru thinandi or tagandi anna.. ah abai chala confident analo innocence analo mari telidu he said

- ledu nenu ivvani thinanu, i avoid junk and Naku diabetes undi annadu..

Nenu stun, kani react avvakudadu ani motivate cheskoni I tried staying as calm and casual as possible. My face just can't hide expressions like fleabag character.

Chala positive ga I further discussed his habits gatra.

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In person chusaka he did have that mini kangaroo pouch, ani ignore chesi I just sticked to the topic. Nene debri dani ante thanu Inka silent ga unnadu.

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Nenu Inka em adagalo telika metformin entha mg vadtharu annanu, tablets kadu insulin ey annadu..

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(Mind you, I have got the awareness of this disease through my dad when he got diabetic around 45-50 years, madhyalo he did use insulin for few months and bounced back to tabs)

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G: Nenu adiga oh type 1 ah ani

B: no type 2 ne.

G: Oh from when did you get this

B: Almost 15 years aipoindi, class 10 nunde undi

G: Oh that's terrible, ye part ki inject cheskuntaru thigh ah? ( Inside me dead by his answers but outside ah coffee kuditha eating with spoon as my coping mech)

B: highest fat unnadanike thigh kadu stomach ey

G: okay, how do you manage being along and epudaina high ainda emergency la. Mi hb1ac entha untadi random ga

B: ante usually 6 untadi koni koni sarlu 10 kuda untadi but seasonal fruits like mangoes unte Inka I can't stop myself. Post lunch 180 untadi but okasari 550 velindi.

G: (vaaari devudaaaaa + ok ok cool) 550 ante too much kada fits lantidi emaina ravachu emo kada or unconscious avvadam

B: ahem fits kadu, paralysis osthadi

G: (insert brahmi expression +inner voice - entra babu anni intha casual ga chepthunadu )Ohhh yaa paralysis

G: ella intha chinna vaysulo sugar

B: ( boys family has carbonated drinks business in rural village) adey ee drinks every summer epudu fridge lo undevi so ala tagevallam and chinnapudu I was v.fat almost like Jr Ntr in young days.

G: (Daaayyymm) sorry to hear that so what happened with your father.

B: Dad - Covid, mother battled long term illness due to sugar and kidney failed. So after her death i returned back from US and staying here only.

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//Pizza pettadu waiter bhaiya on table ( yay food finally//

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G: Pizza thinandi - oka slice thinnachu emi avvadhu oka slice ke chala veggies esadu

B: ledu nenu Ippude thinesi ochanu miru thinandi

G: Avuna yemi chesaru lunch

B: Hehe giggling, ante last night leftover chicken unte thinna

G: (chandramukhi husband expression - bhagavanthuda)

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G: sarey mi job enti yemi chestharu

B: nenu Business analyst, kani ippudu bench medha unnanu

G: (karma ra Devuda)

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G: So mi brother em chesthadu how is he what's his name

B: hmm yaa thanu koncham Intelligent Disabled, we are trying to make him independent.. he got a job and doing good. But nevertheless he beats me in video games and is too good at it.

G: ( no longer shocked anymore, i have absorbed the entire energy in me and asking just about him and family) i totally agree, god somehow creates them with some high level skills that we normal ppl do not have it.. good that he is very much talented..

( Naku Inka questions adige threshold ledu but I just saw a bag behind him that said gym - let's ask gym topic)

G: so do you gym

B: no I don't

G : oh good

B : good kadu adi bad ani annali

G : ( my facepalm, bodypalm, headpalm moment) nenu bad anantha matrane emi maradhu kada inka

B : ( Hysterically Laughing)

G: Anyways how did US happen, H1B from India is little confusing.

B: Yeah adi chinna consultancy unte vale pamparu. Vellanu 4 months unnanu, job market was down coz it was year end and they asking 10YOE and I just have 4. Thought to try parttime but year starting lo ne parttime hiring chestharu..so Inka after moms death and me being jobless there, i returned back..alla veladam illegal ey but I went and had my time

G: Nice, you really did an international vacation..

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Thankfully dad came from behind and said thinu babu.

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Even before I could just say anything this fellow uttered no uncle I'm diabetic so I won't have it...

Now we all know how parents worry 10X especially in AM and straight fatak ani Moham medha chepesadu.

Nenu Inka ma daddy face chudalekapoya - his 100X disappointment.

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Nenu Inka ekuva time waste cheyadhu and also dad's gotta go to work ani I said let's get going.

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Naku idantha chusaka I felt sad, bad, blessed and gratitude.

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Sad for his innocence, he being elder and so naive ani antha open ga chepinanduku..

Also starting lo nidananga matladthunnadu which dad felt matured anni anna kada, he was having slow memory he was really really taking time to speak..

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Bad that he isn't caring for his health knowing his family history of diabetes and he being he and not trying gym etc.

Blessed and gratitude to be born to my dad, because even though he is diabetic he listens to me. We both are like besties, my words matter at my place.

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Andariki edo okati untadi leda osthadi after 30+ anna conclusion ki vachesa.

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Nenu anna Inka daddy tho so ee swathimuthyam kosam nenu Radhika 2.0 avvala odha ani.. I asked shall I turn back and wave bye.. he said no need let's just leave.

I turned and waved bye.. cousin annadu kani but he+6 ocharu.

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Last punch by B: Edaina this diabetes is a big advantage anadu - sleep osthe chaalaa drowsy ga osthadi baguntadi ..

Me -( Oreeeeeyyyyyyyy adi sugar ekuva ayi raaaaawwww ) yeah adey super ga padukovachu 🫡😵😵‍💫

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My final thoughts were:

Ah abai ki nenu asalu nachaledu ani alla he carried himself ani memu neutral ga ee situation ni accept chesthunnam.

Or

He really is a gem of a guy but too innocent for the world.

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Intha Chepina nenu average ey - I'm ex corporate, Slim,5.2,fair, 52kgs, financially into Stock marketing and saved 5M - just sorted with my hobbies and life..

I just pray and hope that everyone stays happy, healthy and find healthy partners and bring healthy kids only whenever you are fit and ready for this unpredictable world.. 😇

Ee Tuitions cheppadam, cloud kitchen, Rapido lo rider, uber lo udyogam lantivi kakunda anything unique jobs?

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If at all screen chudalsi osthe ee typing, survey, pay per comment on Google reviews kuda kakunda.. unique ga?

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Mestri pani ani annakandi 😑

I mean with AI anything like parttime ..

Bajirao Mastani lo Pinga song is supposed to be Pinga ga pori, Pinga ga pori... anta..

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But me sang the whole time until now as

Binnagpuri Binnagpuri Binnagpuri Bingaaa... 🤣😂😭( Ala Google lo kodthe Bhojpuri song osthe kani ardham kale, had to search actual song using movie title as - Priyanka Deepika Ranveer movie songs)

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Milo kuda ee talent untadi don't feel shy yaaaa...

Kid has something like cycle or car - sound exact ga metal dumbbell left side nundi right side floor medha roll chesinatu sound osthadi.

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If not that sound edo oka constant knocking sound like bed repair or whatever.

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Nenu style movie lo dharmavarapu la - sound engineer.

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I don't want to sound rude since I harvest fruits/veggies and share with them and rest of apt guys.

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Daddy ki chepthe he did ask - mi pilodu Baga golla chesthunnadu ante - ma vadda abbey adem ledu ani valla nanna..

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What and how should I get this disturbing sound get stopped forever... Naku chaala Chiraku ga undi lecha nidra lo..

That eventually led to happy marriage?

I had never installed dating apps and on verge to installing.

The thing is I am super emotional and sensitive and have this disease of being empathetic to every idiot and listen to their sob stories and stay in touch until they be fine.

I wanted to know if it's safe or stay away knowing myself..