My rant as a girl in this subreddit.
I've posted in this sub 3 times, over various months. This last time was one of the worst.
The first message I got was " Are you karma farming? " when I responded with no i got met with " Well you have 20K karma " . Ah yes because my account is 2 years old and I AM ACTIVE? Like did that thought never cross your mind 😭?
After that it just got progressively worse. In total I think i ended up with maybe just over 100 messages. You know what most of them were? HORNY MEN. If it wasn't horny men it was 38+ year olds messaging me. I AM 26 WHAT DO WE HAVE TO TALK ABOUT 😭?
Oh! AND LET'S NOT FORGET THE " Its not like your gonna respond anyways. " " No one responds to dms here." Why would I want to respond to a message when your opener is basically like talking to Sadness from Inside Out 😭? How is " its not like your gonna respond " genuinely appealing. You wouldn't go up to someone in person and say that or anything close to that.
I had people claiming it was false and that I wasn't looking to talk to anyone. Y'all. I have one friend who is busy right now. No one to talk to. I just wanted friends :( all i've gotten met with is people immediately self sabotaging with the " its not like you'll respond ", horny men, people old enough to be my parent, and then getting called a liar.
Y'all wonder why women don't post and this has to be exactly why. As soon as y'all see F in the title its like y'all lose the ability to have critical thinking skills. I am very socially awkward but jesus christ im not out here doing half the shit y'all are and then complaining when I don't get a response back FOR DOING WEIRD SHIT.
✨️Rant over✨️
Edit: Y'all are proving my point in my dms 😭 tell me why almost instally i got two messages. One from someone who is 48 ASKING FOR SNAPCHAT and just now another one saying " Hey babe ".
Whack.