I’m pretty sure my dad is cheating on my stepmom. (On tinder) I’m 18F. Dad 45M
So a little backstory, my dad cheated on my mom when I was 6 years old (while my mom was pregnant) with my now stepmom. My parents got a separation about 4 years ago (when my mom found out) and 2 years ago a finalized divorce. Well back to today, I was sitting down having family dinner and my dad’s phone was open. I saw an icon that I thought was tinder, went to my room. Went to AppStore to see what the tinder icon looks like, sure enough, he has tinder. I don’t know if I’m going crazy (I’m not I’m just trying to deny it) I don’t know what to do. I’m going to tell my mom tomorrow, and grandma when I next see her. But I seriously don’t know what to do in this moment. It’s better my step mom find out right now than later. But I seriously don’t know what to do, I think I’m in a state of denial.
Anyways, suggestions? I already know this is going to take a toll on my mental health.