u/Soccer-Plane-444

I keep getting emails for this big announcement/next phase of Calendly...any idea where this is going?

The funny thing is, I think the product works as intended & don't see any reason to eff it up or add more things we don't need, but the way they are framing it, feels like it's some big overhaul/something completely different?

Something that's increasingly starting to bother me is when people (usually those older than me) seemingly project onto me – telling me what they would do if they were me/my age, as if what I'm doing or saying I want to do is incorrect in their mind. It's like a subtle jab, as if I'm beneath them because I don't think like them...ridiculous.

Being soneone who thinks outside the box, when they do this, it's like nails on a chalkboard. I'm hyper aware to it now & it's annoying as hell lol.

Anyone relate?

I'm a CCFC fan from the US that would like to order one of the new home kits. It seems my only option is to order from your team store online (which I'm happy to do, it's just highly unlikely I'd go through the process to do a return so looking for sizing help before placing an order). My plan was to buy one of the older kits on sale/clearance & one of the new ones.

I reached out to customer service via email for sizing help & never got a reply.

For context: I've never worn a Hummel jersey before. The sleeves look like they run longer than a normal kit? I wear a small in Adidas/Nike/Puma/Joma. Usually replica more so than authentic but I'm cool with either. I have a more lean build & do like a closer or tighter fit (ideally not skin tight though 😅).

Out of those brands mentioned, Joma fits me the best. I love their fit. On the other side, Puma can feel a bit boxy in the shoulders (just has a weird cut for my body type I guess).

Any help would be appreciated! 👏

Hey fellow INFJs. I'm 37 & have started to feel things really deeply (shocker, very INFJ-y of me lol) but it's different than being empathetic or intuitive. I'm not saying those things aren't part of it...but hear me out...

Over the last year or so, when I'm talking to someone (usually more pronounced from a dating/romantic sense) that I don't feel aligned with, I can feel it *deeeeep* in my body. Like a restlessness, an annoyance, a disconnect. A 30m car ride feels like 3 hours.

Whereas when I'm with someone I'm aligned with, it's the exact opposite. My body feels free, feels open, feels pure, the connection feels limitless/exciting/energizing. A 30m car ride goes by in 3 seconds.

I guees what I'm trying to say, is what feels profound lately, are that these feelings aren't just in my head intuitively speaking, it's that I'm starting to feel it as a deep visceral feeling in my body which I can't say was always the case.

I (37m) am convinced that being met (truly met) emotionally/intellectually is the most validating & attractive thing.

I've started to realize just how surface-level, non-committal, casual the world operates in & being met on our wavelength, our frequency, there's a shared understanding between us. There's a willingness to go deeper, fueled by curiosity. I get you & you get me.

And I mean this for friends/family/coworkers/significant others etc. It doesn't really matter the person's role in your life or what you're doing, it's the shared presence between the two people.

I just had to write this out today. I hope someone else can relate. It's so intoxicating when you're able to be truly met, IMO.

It allows me to be my most genuine, truest, authentic self (& I hope does the same for them in return).

My pod is about relationship dynamics/attachment styles (for context: 30 EPs in, weekly, solo, try to shoot for under 10min). I'd love to collab with other podcasters in this space.

Nothing to sell. No BS. Just would love to do a geninue, real talk, cross EP about what we're seeing out in this broken world of dating & relationships right now.

I'm feeling a little unmotivated lately talking to myself lol. Have really tried to push listener feedback/questions/ideas in last 10 EPs & getting crickets in return (I know not totally uncommon).

Edit: if you want to hear my style/see if we vibe, the pod is called Securely You.

I just had an interesting ah-ha that feels very INFJ-ish.

I've always liked to zig when others zag. Do things outside the box. I don't root for the *best* sports teams, I like the lesser known, underdogs. I can't tell you a single top50/100 mainstream song right now. I like more indie, up & comer type stuff.

The list can go on for days but I'll stop there lol. Anyone else relate?

What is the coolest/most unique job you've come across at an airport? I feel like there are so many duties/roles/people at an airport, running things behind the scenes, that as normal passengers we have no idea exist. I'm just curious!

Earlier today something moved through (or was activated inside of) me & I wrote in pure stream of consciousness what you see below. Answering the question to what is real love?

My body got chills as I started writing it and as I was reading it over before posting. If anyone could relate, I knew it would be my fellow INFJs, so I wanted to share.

I hope this can help or comfort someone! No matter what has happened in your life, or your current circumstances, you are worthy. We all deserve this kind of love ❤️

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The love I believe in is pure.

The love I believe in has no bounds.

The love I believe transcends this earthly existence.

It's a union between two humans that is forever everlasting.

It's a connection between two souls that time & distance cannot break.

It's a space where when one is hurting, the other is there to provide comfort.

It's a place where when one is down on their knees, the other is there at their side.

When you have had a hard day, you're able to melt into their arms & their very presence puts you at ease.

Real love never forgets that first date, that first hug, that first kiss – and every other “first” you've created together.

But not only does it never forget, it's forever cherished.

Each day together is treated like a blank canvas. One you paint with laughter, with joy, and with endless adventure.

It doesn't matter if it's a random Tuesday evening on the couch or your plane just landed at an international destination, you have a smile on your face because you get to do it with your best friend.

Real love is patient. Real love is kind. And real love is truly unconditional.

This day, every day & in all days.

The end 🩵

I've been an solopreneur for the last decade & this question/thought has been on my mind for the last few weeks...

What (& how) has the landscape of entrepreneurship, and in my case moreso solopreneurship, changed?

The reason I ask is I feel like I started my business for no other reason than that it felt aligned to me, felt right in my soul, that it was the vehicle to live the lifestyle I desire.

Is it simply I have always been internally driven?

I can't help but feel so much of what I see today seems like everyone is chasing the next high, the quick buck, the next viral whatever, the materialistic gain, or success framed from a vanity/external standpoint...& I'm left standing here feeling like we're not even playing the same game anymore.

I loved SWA because of how simple and flexible everything was. If plans changed, you changed your flight. If you canceled, you got a credit. It felt customer friendly.

I actively chose SWA (& connection flights) over direct flights from bigger carriers for years because of this.

Now I feel like every single policy change makes that flexibility a little harder to use (or should I say nonexistent? Lol?)

My latest example:

I booked two Basic fares February 4 for travel in August (6th & 8th). I found cheaper flights on the exact same days, & wanted to reroute my flight home to a different city altogether.

All I wanted was let me cancel & use that funds to rebook my travel (would have saved ~$100).

But I can't simply cancel and use those credits because the Basic credits expire 6mo from purchase date (I'm literally missing it by a few days).

What I don't understand is why the rule couldn't simply be: "You have 6mo from purchase date to book a new flight." If you book within that window for travel later, cool, no biggie. If you end up changing or canceling that replacement flight, then you forfeit the credit. I'd be down for that.

Instead, it feels like every possible option is blocked. I can't use the existing credit for the flights I originally bought it for. Changing to a cheaper flight actually costs me more because of the fare rules (you can't "change" a flight from basic fare to basix fare). So essentially canceling will makes these credits unusable for me.

One idea I thought of was upgrading the flights from Basic to Choice, then canceling & using those credits in full (with 12mo expiration) but have heard that doesn't reliably work either.

That's why it's so annoying to me because what was once such a customer friendly airline, now literally looks under every stone to make sure they are turning the knives into our backs at each opportunity lol.

PS – For context, this isn't a SWA one-timer here. I've been AL or ALP over the last 4-5 years.

I (37m) experienced my first kidney stone last month.

ER visit confirmed stone on 6/9, 5-6mm stone removed 6/16 via internal lithotripsy (I think that's the right way to say it). Was told it broke up as they were removing it or something to that effect. Stent removed 6/22. It's now been just over 2 weeks (7/6) since stent removal.

The first 6 hours post-stent removal were the most painful for me. Going to the bathroom was horrible. I've noticed since then that my bladder muscles seem much more loose/weak?Like if I need to pee, I need to pee now lol. I can't really hold it. I assume that'll improve overtime, not super concerned.

What has me concerned is I started noticing similar symptoms starting yesterday morning (7/6) but to a much lesser intensity level than the initial stone.

Some light discomfort *down there* (not necessarily pain, more so just an awareness of it) & a little bit in the back area as well (the typical kidney stone back pain area). I've taken advil around the clock since. No need for Oxy at this point but do have a few left, if needed.

I'm scheduled for an ultrasound & 24h urine test the end of July. I called the Urologist office yesterday afternoon to see what I should do, if anything, and/or to move those follow-up appointments up sooner. When I talked to them I didn't necessarily feel any of the back pain yet so that wasn't mentioned to them.

They were very nice, let me talk through things (I had a hard time explaining it) & said I should call back if I experience fever, chills or burning when I urinate. Otherwise just keep drinking lots & lots of water to flush things. Said it's most likely fragments working their way out and/or an infection.

A few hours after talking to them, when I felt the back pain, it made me think "well it's gotta be fragments because that's the only thing that would cause pain in thar area". (I think, anyways)

I'm just a little uneasy about this. It has been a bit traumatic for me this last month & don't want to have to go through this all again. How long can these "fragments" hang around for? What should I be expecting.

I think the uncertainty is messing with me. I'm apprehensive to leave my place for fear something will come out or I'll be in a lot of pain when I randomly have to use a public bathroom or somewhere I'm unfamiliar with. I live alone & recently moved to a new city.

For context, I started noticing the stuff described above at 9a Monday. It's 12p Tuesday as I post this.

As the title says, what do you wish was different about our current dating landscape? Online or off it, it feels pretty discouraging for 99% of people right now.

If you could snap your fingers & change one thing, what would it be?

Is there a way we could structure in-person dating events to work better?

I have been on apps for years, gone to plenty of offline, singles events, & everything just feels like it's missing the mark, repeatedly, badly, frustratingly so lol.

Recently relocated to DEN & watching these WCup games, has me thinking, wouldn't we have been a great city to host matches at Empower Field? Were we ever seriously considered?

Is it worth running IG ads to increase visibility of your pod? Mine is about relationship dynamics/attachment styles.

I recently crossed 550 downloads spanning 45 countries, weekly 10min solo EPs since October 2025, no active marketing.

I (37m) have been running my own web design/consulting business for the past decade.

Lately I've realized I'm less interested in the technical "pixel pusher" side of the work and much more energized by helping people, solving problems, coordinating moving pieces, and being the person others rely on.

I've also always been fascinated by airports (fly 15-25x/year). I love the environment, the energy, and the amount of coordination it takes to keep everything running smoothly.

While I could absolutely see myself in a customer facing role like a gate agent, I'm more interested in the behind the scenes ops side.

The part I'm struggling with is that I've been self employed for so long that I have no idea how my background would actually be viewed. Part of me worries that hiring managers would see "10 years of running your own business" and think "this person won't fit in" rather than seeing the transferable skills.

Has anyone here made a similar transition from being self employed into the aviation/airport industry?

Or if you're involved in hiring, how would you view someone with that background?

Any specific roles come to mind that I should look into?

I've been running my own web design / consulting business for the past decade.

I've recently realized that the part of the business I enjoy most isn't building websites anymore. It's working with clients 1:1 - helping them solve problems, answering questions, teaching them how to do XYZ, and building real, long term relationships.

Before starting my biz, I worked at a marketing agency where I fondly remember the customer facing aspects of that role, to this day.

Because of that, CS has been on my mind. Many of the core skills seem transferable but part of me worries that after spending so many years running my own thing, hiring managers may not view my experience as favorably as someone coming from a more traditional corporate background/ladder?

Has anyone here made a similar transition, or hired someone from a solopreneur background?

What helped, what hurt, and what would you recommend?

I know I can easily just ChatGPT or Google this but I want to hear from real people :)

What separates soneone from being an aviodant (attachment style) VS actually narcissistic? I feel like the lines could potentially get a little blurry?