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Normalize cancelling hangouts cause you feel ugly asf😭🙏

u/T_hehehe — 3 days ago

Building my closet from scratch, need help with jeans.

As I said, I'll be going to college in few months and I took a gap year so I don't have clothes and am planning to build it from scratch. So what jeans should I buy and how many?

Any help will be really appreciated.

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u/T_hehehe — 3 days ago

Sharing your friends personal life with your partner is not chic, it is breach of privacy and trust.

As I said, if you share everything that your friend tell you to your s/o you are NOT a good friend. No, I don't want your bf to know that I had a mental breakdown on Tuesday and that's why I didn't go to work pls girl it's embarrassing🧍‍♀️No, I don't want your gf to know that the reason I dislike pickles is because of a bully from highschool, just shut up🙏

I hate it sm and I think it's acceptable to break friendship if even after you told them many time to not tell your personal things to their s/o

Edit: I'm sorry I used the word chic idk it was the first one to come to my mind🙏😭 it is not correct but yall got my point🙏😭🧍‍♀️

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u/T_hehehe — 9 days ago

Sharing your friends personal life with your partner is not chic, it is breach of privacy and trust.

As I said, if you share everything that your friend tell you to your s/o you are NOT a good friend. No, I don't want your bf to know that I had a mental breakdown on Tuesday and that's why I didn't go to work pls girl it's embarrassing🧍‍♀️No, I don't want your gf to know that the reason I dislike pickles is because of a bully from highschool, just shut up🙏

I hate it sm and I think it's acceptable to break friendship if even after you told them many times to not tell your personal things to their s/or.

Edit: I'm sorry I used the word chic idk it was the first one to come to my mind🙏😭 it is not correct but yall got my point🙏😭🧍‍♀️

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u/T_hehehe — 9 days ago
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What really happened in leviticus?

I finished watching the movie, I love it, the cinematography was really good and the acting too. Their chemistry was peak,Loved how they got together in the end. But what I didn't understand is what the healer did to them(I'm sorry, I am not Christian so Idk😭)? And why did Naim's mom let it? She knew it would follow him, then too. She is the worst mother. And hunter's father too, when he knew that it'll take his son to his grave but he still did that

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u/T_hehehe — 10 days ago
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Lwk done with my friends idc( crashing out)🧍‍♀️

u/T_hehehe — 14 days ago

Can someone explain me axiom of equality.

As the title says, I have read about it. I'll be really grateful if someone explained it existence with connection irl.

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u/T_hehehe — 20 days ago

Why is 'A Little Life' hated so much?

I've recently read it and I really liked it. The depth of trauma, writing style everything was really good. I felt connected to it in so many ways and was able to understand why things were unfolding in such way. In my opinion it is one of the best book that I've ever read. I think it will be considered a classic in the next 100 years.

After reading, I looked up for it's reviews and edits, they are not many and there is so much hate towards it. Many have said that it was trauma porn, which I do not agree with cause it all felt real atleast to me, cause there are certain things that don't leave you no matter what you do. Many said that the story was not good, that jude could've been healed but he didn't wanted to and many other stuff.

I genuinely am not able understand such argument. Feel free to share your experience while reading it, I'd love to know it.

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u/T_hehehe — 21 days ago

Why is 'A Little Life' hated so much?

I've recently read it and I really liked it. The depth of trauma, writing style everything was really good. I felt connected to it in so many ways and was able to understand why things were unfolding in such way. In my opinion it is one of the best book that I've ever read. I think it will be considered a classic in the next 100 years.

After reading, I looked up for it's reviews and edits, they are not many and there is so much hate towards it. Many have said that it was trauma porn, which I do not agree with cause it all felt real atleast to me, cause there are certain things that don't leave you no matter what you do. Many said that the story was not good, that jude could've been healed but he didn't wanted to and many other stuff.

I genuinely am not able understand such argument. Feel free to share your experience while reading it, I'd love to know it.

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u/T_hehehe — 21 days ago

AMA I love sad things.

I love sad music, books, movies anything. I think they bring a sense of belonging, whenever I see them I don't feel sad I mean I do feel sad but I feel connected, I get a feeling that I finally belong somewhere. Ama anything related to it.

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u/T_hehehe — 23 days ago

How to be a good friend again.

I have three loving friends whom I love more than anything and they do the same. But nowadays there is a kind of gap in our friendship and idk what to do. So basically last year I took a gap year to prepare for med school, and my friends moved to other cities for college. 2025 was the worst year of my life I'd rather ear glass than to relive it again I was so depressed the whole year and then admist some family drama happened. So all I did that year was wakeup study cry study and sleep. Whenever I am going through something I distance myself from everyone as much I can, not in a I don't want them but in I don't want to affect you with my negative energy.

This is what I did with my friends unfortunately, I told them some things are going on at home but they that what I am going through was some basic level shit but I was on verge of going insane to the point I saw no point in living. Then they started complaining that I don't hangout with them and don't call them. The two of them use to hangout and call each other every other day so now they know everything about each other and idk anything much just on the surface level. Whenever my friends use to go through anything they use to text me first but now they don't and I feel so bad for being a bad friend. I just want to be support of my friends again.

Fast forward the whole year went like this, now the exam is done, I was fine for a week but I spiraled again and barely have energy to get out of house. A few days back they asked me to hangout and I lied that my mom is saying no,cause idk how to explain it to them. They think that I don't wanna hangout with them, I really wanna do I love them so much but I don't have the energy to do anything. This led to them saying that the whole year we kept up with you that no it's ok you need to study and stuff but now what's the reason. Idk how to explain to them, I am really bad at saying my emotions out loud ig it's cause I am middle child and never had that privilege so I keep most of the things to myself, the most I do is write them out, this really helps me. As I said that the whole year I stayed at home, I literally have nothing going on my life And whenever they ask me about my life I have nothing to talk about and they think I don't wanna tell them.

Idk what to do now I love my friends so much, I don't want to lose them how do I tell them all this. How do I go back to being the good friend.

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u/T_hehehe — 1 month ago