29F | What is female friendship?

Had a really hard life and now I'm at a stage in life that I'm comfortable, I want to have friends obviously female friends, but i honestly don't know how to keep friendships.

I really wish to have a girls group like i have observed from afar of my cousins or relatives but i have never understood how to have that healthy relationship.

Any guidance / advice / questions are appreciated.

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 8 days ago

29F | What is female friendship?

Had a really hard life and now I'm at a stage in life that I'm comfortable, I want to have friends obviously female friends, but i honestly don't know how to keep friendships.

I really wish to have a girls group like i have observed from afar of my cousins or relatives but i have never understood how to have that healthy relationship.

Any guidance / advice / questions are appreciated.

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 8 days ago

Need a Home Maid / Helper

I have been trying to find a maid for house work for 2 months now with no luck.

I have tried fb groups and all the links i could think off

I don't have any problem in paying the current rate of 5k per work even.

Still the only option I'm being given right now is via some agencies that charge commission equal to the salary and don't take any responsibility.

If anyone can help out in any way I'd really appreciate it.

Location : Inside cantt area near d. watson

P. s : Yes I know how to get the security check done and keeping cnic and always being vigilant of what the maid is doing

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 11 days ago

F | 29 | Islamabad/ Global - Anyone serious about marriage?

YOB :1997

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Height : 5 feet, ( Slim)

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Marital Status: Single

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Location: Near Islamabad

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Accommodation: owned

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Family Status : Upper Midde / Middle Class

​

Education: BS SE

​

Income Source: Remote Software Project Manager

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Personality:

Selectively Social, Mature, Responsible, Organised, Well-Mannered, Open-minded, understanding, good listener, and respectful, Likes pets such as cats and birds

​

Religion & Short Detail:

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I pray 5 times a day, fast, learn and understand the Quran. I don’t wear a hijab, but I do wear a dupatta and modest clothing

​

Hobbies & Interests:

Strength training in the gym, going for walks, watching good shows and spending quality time with family. Exploring the latest smart gadgets. And obviously the girly interests of fashion, shopping and all things cute.

​

Family Details

Father, Mother and 2 Siblings ( Will share details in DM)

​

Caste Urdu Speaking ( Personally don't have a preference )

​

Requirements :

Only Pakistan origin ( Cuz how am I going to communicate casually in another language 🥲, English feels too formal)

​

Not open to people currently in smaller cities, karachi, Germany or USA

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Age 28.5- 32 ( hard limit)

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Younger one's please don't waste time

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Open to practising religion together

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God fearing, Fun loving, understanding, respectful,

​

Earns more than me ( Min pkr 200k)

​

Responsible, financially stable and provider mindset

​

Education: Bachelors minimum

​

Believes in transparency and bestfriend kinda bond

​

Is not bald

​

Is not healthier/ chubby , I'm very slim and petite

​

physical attraction matters to me

​

Deal Breakers :

Very conservative, Drinking, smoking, any drug use including sheesha, polygamy, and anger issues

​

Preferred Family Setup: nuclear / semi-nuclear

​

Do You Want Children?: Yes, Within first year of marriage ( important for me)

​

Timeframe for Marriage: Preferably by this year dec

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Family involvement after 1 week at maximum

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 2 months ago

F | 29 | Islamabad/ Global - Anyone serious about marriage?

YOB :1997

​

Height : 5 feet, ( Slim)

​

Marital Status: Single

​

Location: Near Islamabad

​

Accommodation: owned

​

Family Status : Upper Midde / Middle Class

​

Education: BS SE

​

Income Source: Remote Software Project Manager

​

Personality:

Selectively Social, Mature, Responsible, Organised, Well-Mannered, Open-minded, understanding, good listener, and respectful, Likes pets such as cats and birds

​

Religion & Short Detail:

​

I pray 5 times a day, fast, learn and understand the Quran. I don’t wear a hijab, but I do wear a dupatta and modest clothing

​

Hobbies & Interests:

Strength training in the gym, going for walks, watching good shows and spending quality time with family. Exploring the latest smart gadgets. And obviously the girly interests of fashion, shopping and all things cute.

​

Family Details

Father, Mother and 2 Siblings ( Will share details in DM)

​

Caste Urdu Speaking ( Personally don't have a preference )

​

Requirements :

Only Pakistan origin ( Cuz how am I going to communicate casually in another language 🥲, English feels too formal)

​

Not open to people currently in smaller cities, karachi, Germany or USA

​

Age 28.5- 32 ( hard limit)

​

Younger one's please don't waste time

​

Open to practising religion together

​

God fearing, Fun loving, understanding, respectful,

​

Earns more than me ( Min pkr 200k)

​

Responsible, financially stable and provider mindset

​

Education: Bachelors minimum

​

Believes in transparency and bestfriend kinda bond

​

Is not bald

​

Is not healthier/ chubby , I'm very slim and petite

​

physical attraction matters to me

​

Deal Breakers :

Very conservative, Drinking, smoking, any drug use including sheesha, polygamy, and anger issues

​

Preferred Family Setup: nuclear / semi-nuclear

​

Do You Want Children?: Yes, Within first year of marriage ( important for me)

​

Timeframe for Marriage: Preferably by this year dec

​

Family involvement after 1 week at maximum

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 2 months ago

Surgeon Recommendation Needed

A close relative in Wah cantt needs hip replacement surgery after a fracture. Kindly suggested the best orthopedic surgeon.

Is it a good idea to get it done from Wah cantt or any best surgeon in Islamabad?

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 3 months ago

F | 28 | Looking for someone from Pakistani origin

Height : 5 feet, ( Slim)

Marital Status: Single

Location: Near Islamabad

Accommodation: owned

Family Status : Upper Midde / Middle Class

Education: BS SE

Income Source: Remote Software Project Manager

Personality

Selectively Social, Mature, Responsible, Organised, Well-Mannered, Open-minded, understanding, good listener, and respectful, Likes pets such as cats and birds

Religion & Short Detail:

I pray 5 times a day, fast, learn and understand the Quran. I don’t wear a hijab, but I do wear a dupatta and modest clothing

Hobbies & Interests:

Strength training in the gym, going for walks, watching good shows and spending quality time with family. Exploring the latest smart gadgets. And obviously the girly interests of fashion, shopping and all things cute.

Family Details

Father, Mother and 2 Siblings ( Will share details in DM)

Caste Urdu Speaking ( Personally don't have a preference )

Requirements for a PartFulfil Must Fulfill

Only Pakistan origin ( Cuz how am I going to communicate casually in another language 🥲, English feels too formal)

Age 28 - 32 ( hard limit)

Open to practising religion together

God fearing, Fun loving, understanding, respectful,

Earns more than me ( Min pkr 200k)

Responsible, financially stable and provider mindset

Education: Bachelors

Believes in transparency and bestfriend kinda bond

Is not bald

Is not healthier/ chubby , I'm very slim and petite

physical attraction matters to me

Deal Breakers :

Very conservative, Drinking, smoking, any drug use including sheesha, polygamy, and anger issues

Preferred Family Setup: nuclear / semi-nuclear

Do You Want Children?: Yes, Within first year of marriage

Timeframe for Marriage: Preferably by this year dec

Family involvement after 2 weeks at maximum

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 3 months ago

Need advice about which country to move to

Looking for recommendations to migrate from Pakistan as a single male, professional video editor, working with Dubai based company along with freelancing.

Education : Media Sciences

Not looking for study route.

Any country for skilled worker visa or work visa ?

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 3 months ago

Where to go | Video editor

Looking for recommendations to migrate as a single male, professional video editor, working with Dubai based company along with freelancing.

Education : Media Sciences

Not looking for study route.

Any country for skilled worker visa or work visa ?

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 3 months ago

F | 28 | Islamabad - Looking for someone who's serious about marriage

Height & Weight: 5 feet, 41 kgs ( Slim)

Marital Status: Single

Location: Near Islamabad

Accommodation: owned

Family Status : Upper Midde / Middle Class

Education: BS SE

Income Source: Remote Software Project Manager

Personality

Selectively Social, Mature, Responsible, Organised, Well-Mannered, Open-minded, understanding, good listener, and respectful, Likes pets such as cats and birds

Religion & Short Detail:

I pray 5 times a day, fast, learn and understand the Quran. I don’t wear a hijab, but I do wear a dupatta and modest clothing

Hobbies & Interests:

Strength training in the gym, going for walks, watching good shows and spending quality time with family. Exploring the latest smart gadgets. And obviously the girly interests of fashion, shopping and all things cute.

Family Details

Father, Mother and 2 Siblings ( Will share details in DM)

Caste Urdu Speaking ( Personally don't have a preference )

Requirements for a Partner , Must Fulfill:

Preference for nearby cities like Islamabad / Rwp, but open to lahore and abroad, apart from Karachi.

Only Pakistan origin ( Cuz how am I going to communicate casually in another language 🥲, English feels too formal)

Age 28 - 31 ( hard limit)

Open to practising religion together

God fearing, Fun loving, understanding, respectful,

Earns more than me ( Min pkr 200k)

Responsible, financially stable and provider mindset

Education: Bachelors

Preference for the same field ( IT , CS , SE ) but open to other fields apart from doctors and anyone who works nights on site

Believes in transparency and bestfriend kinda bond

Is not bald

Is not healthier/ chubby , I'm very slim and petite

physical attraction matters to me

Deal Breakers

Very conservative, Drinking, smoking, any drug use including sheesha, polygamy, and anger issues

Preferred Family Setup: nuclear / semi-nuclear

Do You Want Children?: Yes, Within first year of marriage

Timeframe for Marriage: Preferably by this year dec

Family involvement after 2 weeks at maximum

If you are serious and willing for family involvement DM me your profile, will not entertain general msgs

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 3 months ago

[HIRING] - Figma UI/UX Designer

Company Overview:

We are a growing, fast-paced software agency delivering high-quality digital products. As a small team, we value agility, clear communication, and direct ownership. We love turning complex client visions into beautifully polished, functional realities.

Job Description & Responsibilities:

\* Extend and scale an existing, in-progress Figma design base file.

\* Build out new screens and flows according to evolving client requirements.

\* Improve and iterate on current layouts based on detailed, granular client feedback.

\* Create custom icons and inject a sleek, futuristic design aesthetic.

\* Develop advanced 3D animations directly inside the Figma workspace.

\* Deliver a fully functional prototype as the final, complete product.

Qualifications/Experience Required:

\* Expertise in Figma, specifically in modifying, organized scaling, and building upon existing design files.

\* Proven capability in creating 3D animations natively within Figma.

\* Strong eye for detail, specifically for futuristic, high-tech, and modern UI styles.

\* Excellent feedback implementation skills to execute precise changes from client notes.

Location:

\* Remote (Pakistan)

Salary Range:

\* PKR 50,000 - PKR 60,000 per month

Contract & Probation Terms:

\* Initial Contract: 1-month probation contract.

\* Performance Clause: Subject to immediate termination if performance or output quality fails to meet client standards and feedback requirements.

Work Conditions:

\* Full-time dedicated remote agency role.

\* Hours: Minimum 8 hours per day.

\* Tracking: Must use a time-tracking tool (records hours and captures periodic screenshots; no camera needed).

Design Expectations Note:

\* Visual Benchmarks: We have specific samples and visual references detailing the exact level of futuristic aesthetics and 3D micro-animations expected for this project. These samples will be shared with shortlisted candidates during the initial screening.

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 3 months ago

[HIRING] - Figma UI/UX Designer

Company Overview:

We are a growing, fast-paced software agency delivering high-quality digital products. As a small team, we value agility, clear communication, and direct ownership. We love turning complex client visions into beautifully polished, functional realities.

Job Description & Responsibilities:

* Extend and scale an existing, in-progress Figma design base file.

* Build out new screens and flows according to evolving client requirements.

* Improve and iterate on current layouts based on detailed, granular client feedback.

* Create custom icons and inject a sleek, futuristic design aesthetic.

* Develop advanced 3D animations directly inside the Figma workspace.

* Deliver a fully functional prototype as the final, complete product.

Qualifications/Experience Required:

* Expertise in Figma, specifically in modifying, organized scaling, and building upon existing design files.

* Proven capability in creating 3D animations natively within Figma.

* Strong eye for detail, specifically for futuristic, high-tech, and modern UI styles.

* Excellent feedback implementation skills to execute precise changes from client notes.

Location:

* Remote (Pakistan)

Salary Range:

* PKR 50,000 - PKR 60,000 per month

Contract & Probation Terms:

* Initial Contract: 1-month probation contract.

* Performance Clause: Subject to immediate termination if performance or output quality fails to meet client standards and feedback requirements.

Work Conditions:

* Full-time dedicated remote agency role.

* Hours: Minimum 8 hours per day.

* Tracking: Must use a time-tracking tool (records hours and captures periodic screenshots; no camera needed).

Design Expectations Note:

* Visual Benchmarks: We have specific samples and visual references detailing the exact level of futuristic aesthetics and 3D micro-animations expected for this project. These samples will be shared with shortlisted candidates during the initial screening.

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 3 months ago

F | 28 | Islamabad - Looking for someone who's serious about marriage

Height & Weight: 5 feet, 41 kgs ( Slim)

Marital Status: Single

Location: Near Islamabad

Accommodation: owned

Education: BS SE

Income Source: Remote Software Project Manager

Personality

Selectively Social, Mature, Responsible, Organised, Well-Mannered, Open-minded, understanding, good listener, and respectful, Likes pets such as cats and birds

Religion & Short Detail:

I pray 5 times a day, fast, learn and understand the Quran. I don’t wear a hijab, but I do wear a dupatta and modest clothing

Hobbies & Interests:

Strength training in the gym, going for walks, watching good shows and spending quality time with family. Exploring the latest smart gadgets. And obviously the girly interests of fashion, shopping and all things cute.

Family Details

Father, Mother and 2 Siblings ( Will share details in DM)

Caste Urdu Speaking ( Personally don't have a preference )

Requirements for a Partner

Preference for nearby cities like Islamabad / Rwp, but open to other major cities and abroad, apart from Karachi.

Only Pakistan origin ( Cuz how am I going to communicate casually in another language 🥲, English feels too formal)

Age 28 - 31

Open to practising religion together

God fearing, Fun loving, understanding, respectful,

Earns more than me

Responsible, financially stable and provider mindset

Education: Bachelors

Preference for the same field ( IT , CS , SE )

Believes in transparency and bestfriend kinda bond

Is not bald / open to getting hair treatments

physical attraction matters to me

Deal Breakers

Very conservative, Drinking, smoking, any drug use including sheesha, polygamy, and anger issues

Preferred Family Setup: nuclear / semi-nuclear

Do You Want Children?: Yes

Timeframe for Marriage: Preferably this year,

If you are serious and willing for family involvement DM me your profile, will not entertain general msgs

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 3 months ago

Hi All, Below is my profile, can anyone please share their opinion on if I am being unreasonable and is it that difficult to find a guy for marriage

F | 28 | Islamabad - Looking for someone who's serious about marriage

Height & Weight: 5 feet, 41 kgs ( Slim)

Marital Status: Single

Location: Near Islamabad

Accommodation: owned

Education: BS SE

Income Source: Remote Software Project Manager

I don't plan to work full-time after marriage since i have seen 2 examples in my own family of how. much it effects the early years of a child

Personality

Selectively Social, Mature, Responsible, Organised, Well-Mannered, Open-minded, understanding, good listener, and respectful, Likes pets such as cats and birds

Religion & Short Detail:

I pray 5 times a day, fast, learn and understand the Quran. I don’t wear a hijab, but I do wear a dupatta and modest clothing

Hobbies & Interests:

Strength training in the gym, going for walks, watching good shows and spending quality time with family. Exploring the latest smart gadgets. And obviously the girly interests of fashion, shopping and all things cute.

Family Details

Father, Mother and 2 Siblings ( Will share details in DM)

Caste Urdu Speaking ( Personally don't have a preference )

Requirements for a Partner

Preference for nearby cities like Islamabad / Rwp, but open to other major cities and abroad, apart from Karachi.

Age 28 - 31

Open to practising religion together

God fearing, Fun loving, understanding, respectful,

Earns more than me

Responsible, financially stable and provider mindset

Education: Bachelors

Preference for the same field ( IT , CS , SE )

Believes in transparency and bestfriend kinda bond

Deal Breakers

Very conservative, Drinking, smoking, any drug use including sheesha, polygamy, and anger issues

Preferred Family Setup: nuclear / semi-nuclear

Do You Want Children?: Yes

Timeframe for Marriage: Preferably this year

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u/Virtual-Tear-6150 — 4 months ago