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It’s 12:48 AM, which means today is officially my 29th birthday.

Honestly, I just feel numb. Don't get me wrong—I’m deeply thankful to God for where I am in life, my health, and my family. But at the same time, I can't shake this quiet heavy feeling. There are so many things I truly believed would have happened for me by this age, and they just haven't. The gap between where I thought I’d be at 29 and where I actually am feels overwhelming tonight.

I have a full day ahead of me, and to be frank, I really don't feel like doing the whole birthday cake routine. I know I’ll smile and blow out the candles in the morning for the happiness of my family, because I love them and want them to enjoy it, but my heart just isn't in it.

I told myself I wanted to buy myself a birthday present—a little gesture to acknowledge the day—but I’m sitting here completely blank. Nothing comes to mind. Nothing feels exciting or desirable right now.

D.O.B: 1997

Height: 5'0" (Slim)

Complexion: Fair

Residence: Near Islamabad

Marital Status: Single

Caste: Sheikh Siddiqui (Open to any)

Religion: Sunni Muslim (Regular with prayers, observes hijab)

Education: BS Software Engineering

Occupation: Software Project Manager (Remote)

About Me:

Grounded, introverted, and value open communication, honesty, and a peaceful home. Having balanced a remote career while managing key household responsibilities for over 6 years—from budgeting to daily operations—I bring practical maturity and structure. I believe in a balanced partnership built on trust and mutual respect, and come from a household where daily tasks are managed with domestic help, preferring a similar arrangement in the future.

Non Negotiables :

* Age: 28–35 years

* Education: Minimum Bachelor's

* Financials: Stable provider mindset

* Marital Status: Single or Divorced (without children)

* Setup: family owned home (Nuclear / Semi-nuclear)

* Relocation: Open but not long wait times

* Traits: God-fearing, respectful, fit/active (not chubby), mature, and moderate in views.

Dealbreakers:

Smoking, vaping, alcohol, drugs, sheesha, polygamy, unmanaged anger, lack of communication, or haram income.

Need reviews about Dr Faridullah Khan Zimri for Orthopedic surgery and post operative infections

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lLooking for my sister , only serious contact

Gender: Female

Age: 35

Height: 5’7”

Complexion: Fair

Sect: Sunni

Education: MBA Project Management

Marital Status: Single

Profession: Working Professional

Values: Moderate

City of Residence: Islamabad

Father’s Occupation: Retired govt official

Mother’s Occupation: Retired Government Teacher

Siblings: 3 sisters ,1 brother

About her:

Shes is a calm, grounded, and emotionally aware individual who values sincerity, family, and purpose. She is a practicing Muslim and a God-fearing woman, who strives to place Allah above all in every decision and phase of life. Down-to-earth, thoughtful, and strong-headed, a natural decision-maker who respects elders and embraces traditional family values. She enjoys reading, exploring new cultures through travel, and finding meaning in everyday moments. With a balanced outlook on life, she believes in personal growth, faith, and emotional connection.

Life Partner Preferences:

She is looking for a practicing Muslim man, someone who is spiritually aware and lives with a sense of accountability. A person who understands the true essence of marriage, knows the emotional and practical responsibilities of a husband, and values the bond between husband and wife as one built on mutual respect, compassion, and understanding.

He should be passionate about building a family and fulfilling the role of a husband as described by Allah, with sincerity, care, and responsibility. Someone who sees providing for his family not as a burden, but as a noble duty entrusted to him. He should be emotionally intelligent, able to manage his emotions, especially anger and have the humility to recognize his mistakes and the strength to make them right. A flexible, caring individual who upholds moral values, respects family, and can walk through life as a supportive and thoughtful partner.

Height: 5’10” or above

Marital Status: Single

Education/Profession: Well-educated, holding a professional degree (any respectable field)

Values: Moderate

Physical Attraction matters to her, she is MaShaAllah good looking also

Location: Rawalpindi / Islamabad and close surroundings along with out of country with family in Rawalpindi / Islamabad

Looking for my sister , only serious contact

Gender: Female

Age: 35

Height: 5’7”

Complexion: Fair

Sect: Sunni

Education: MBA Project Management

Marital Status: Single

Profession: Working Professional

Values: Moderate

City of Residence: Islamabad

Father’s Occupation: Retired govt official

Mother’s Occupation: Retired Government Teacher

Siblings: 3 sisters ,1 brother

About her:

Shes is a calm, grounded, and emotionally aware individual who values sincerity, family, and purpose. She is a practicing Muslim and a God-fearing woman, who strives to place Allah above all in every decision and phase of life. Down-to-earth, thoughtful, and strong-headed, a natural decision-maker who respects elders and embraces traditional family values. She enjoys reading, exploring new cultures through travel, and finding meaning in everyday moments. With a balanced outlook on life, she believes in personal growth, faith, and emotional connection.

Life Partner Preferences:

She is looking for a practicing Muslim man, someone who is spiritually aware and lives with a sense of accountability. A person who understands the true essence of marriage, knows the emotional and practical responsibilities of a husband, and values the bond between husband and wife as one built on mutual respect, compassion, and understanding.

He should be passionate about building a family and fulfilling the role of a husband as described by Allah, with sincerity, care, and responsibility. Someone who sees providing for his family not as a burden, but as a noble duty entrusted to him. He should be emotionally intelligent, able to manage his emotions, especially anger and have the humility to recognize his mistakes and the strength to make them right. A flexible, caring individual who upholds moral values, respects family, and can walk through life as a supportive and thoughtful partner.

Height: 5’10” or above

Marital Status: Single

Education/Profession: Well-educated, holding a professional degree (any respectable field)

Values: Moderate

Physical Attraction matters to her, she is MaShaAllah good looking also

Location: Rawalpindi / Islamabad and close surroundings along with out of country with family in Rawalpindi / Islamabad

Looking for my sister , only serious contact

Gender: Female

Age: 35

Height: 5’7”

Complexion: Fair

Sect: Sunni

Education: MBA Project Management

Marital Status: Single

Profession: Working Professional

Values: Moderate

City of Residence: Islamabad

Father’s Occupation: Retired govt official

Mother’s Occupation: Retired Government Teacher

Siblings: 3 sisters ,1 brother

About her:

Shes is a calm, grounded, and emotionally aware individual who values sincerity, family, and purpose. She is a practicing Muslim and a God-fearing woman, who strives to place Allah above all in every decision and phase of life. Down-to-earth, thoughtful, and strong-headed, a natural decision-maker who respects elders and embraces traditional family values. She enjoys reading, exploring new cultures through travel, and finding meaning in everyday moments. With a balanced outlook on life, she believes in personal growth, faith, and emotional connection.

Life Partner Preferences:

She is looking for a practicing Muslim man, someone who is spiritually aware and lives with a sense of accountability. A person who understands the true essence of marriage, knows the emotional and practical responsibilities of a husband, and values the bond between husband and wife as one built on mutual respect, compassion, and understanding.

He should be passionate about building a family and fulfilling the role of a husband as described by Allah, with sincerity, care, and responsibility. Someone who sees providing for his family not as a burden, but as a noble duty entrusted to him. He should be emotionally intelligent, able to manage his emotions, especially anger and have the humility to recognize his mistakes and the strength to make them right. A flexible, caring individual who upholds moral values, respects family, and can walk through life as a supportive and thoughtful partner.

Height: 5’10” or above

Marital Status: Single

Education/Profession: Well-educated, holding a professional degree (any respectable field)

Values: Moderate

Physical Attraction matters to her, she is MaShaAllah good looking also

Location: Rawalpindi / Islamabad and close surroundings along with out of country with family in Rawalpindi / Islamabad

Had a really hard life and now I'm at a stage in life that I'm comfortable, I want to have friends obviously female friends, but i honestly don't know how to keep friendships.

I really wish to have a girls group like i have observed from afar of my cousins or relatives but i have never understood how to have that healthy relationship.

Any guidance / advice / questions are appreciated.

Had a really hard life and now I'm at a stage in life that I'm comfortable, I want to have friends obviously female friends, but i honestly don't know how to keep friendships.

I really wish to have a girls group like i have observed from afar of my cousins or relatives but i have never understood how to have that healthy relationship.

Any guidance / advice / questions are appreciated.

I have been trying to find a maid for house work for 2 months now with no luck.

I have tried fb groups and all the links i could think off

I don't have any problem in paying the current rate of 5k per work even.

Still the only option I'm being given right now is via some agencies that charge commission equal to the salary and don't take any responsibility.

If anyone can help out in any way I'd really appreciate it.

Location : Inside cantt area near d. watson

P. s : Yes I know how to get the security check done and keeping cnic and always being vigilant of what the maid is doing

YOB :1997

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Height : 5 feet, ( Slim)

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Marital Status: Single

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Location: Near Islamabad

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Accommodation: owned

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Family Status : Upper Midde / Middle Class

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Education: BS SE

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Income Source: Remote Software Project Manager

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Personality:

Selectively Social, Mature, Responsible, Organised, Well-Mannered, Open-minded, understanding, good listener, and respectful, Likes pets such as cats and birds

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Religion & Short Detail:

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I pray 5 times a day, fast, learn and understand the Quran. I don’t wear a hijab, but I do wear a dupatta and modest clothing

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Hobbies & Interests:

Strength training in the gym, going for walks, watching good shows and spending quality time with family. Exploring the latest smart gadgets. And obviously the girly interests of fashion, shopping and all things cute.

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Family Details

Father, Mother and 2 Siblings ( Will share details in DM)

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Caste Urdu Speaking ( Personally don't have a preference )

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Requirements :

Only Pakistan origin ( Cuz how am I going to communicate casually in another language 🥲, English feels too formal)

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Not open to people currently in smaller cities, karachi, Germany or USA

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Age 28.5- 32 ( hard limit)

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Younger one's please don't waste time

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Open to practising religion together

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God fearing, Fun loving, understanding, respectful,

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Earns more than me ( Min pkr 200k)

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Responsible, financially stable and provider mindset

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Education: Bachelors minimum

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Believes in transparency and bestfriend kinda bond

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Is not bald

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Is not healthier/ chubby , I'm very slim and petite

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physical attraction matters to me

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Deal Breakers :

Very conservative, Drinking, smoking, any drug use including sheesha, polygamy, and anger issues

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Preferred Family Setup: nuclear / semi-nuclear

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Do You Want Children?: Yes, Within first year of marriage ( important for me)

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Timeframe for Marriage: Preferably by this year dec

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Family involvement after 1 week at maximum

YOB :1997

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Height : 5 feet, ( Slim)

​

Marital Status: Single

​

Location: Near Islamabad

​

Accommodation: owned

​

Family Status : Upper Midde / Middle Class

​

Education: BS SE

​

Income Source: Remote Software Project Manager

​

Personality:

Selectively Social, Mature, Responsible, Organised, Well-Mannered, Open-minded, understanding, good listener, and respectful, Likes pets such as cats and birds

​

Religion & Short Detail:

​

I pray 5 times a day, fast, learn and understand the Quran. I don’t wear a hijab, but I do wear a dupatta and modest clothing

​

Hobbies & Interests:

Strength training in the gym, going for walks, watching good shows and spending quality time with family. Exploring the latest smart gadgets. And obviously the girly interests of fashion, shopping and all things cute.

​

Family Details

Father, Mother and 2 Siblings ( Will share details in DM)

​

Caste Urdu Speaking ( Personally don't have a preference )

​

Requirements :

Only Pakistan origin ( Cuz how am I going to communicate casually in another language 🥲, English feels too formal)

​

Not open to people currently in smaller cities, karachi, Germany or USA

​

Age 28.5- 32 ( hard limit)

​

Younger one's please don't waste time

​

Open to practising religion together

​

God fearing, Fun loving, understanding, respectful,

​

Earns more than me ( Min pkr 200k)

​

Responsible, financially stable and provider mindset

​

Education: Bachelors minimum

​

Believes in transparency and bestfriend kinda bond

​

Is not bald

​

Is not healthier/ chubby , I'm very slim and petite

​

physical attraction matters to me

​

Deal Breakers :

Very conservative, Drinking, smoking, any drug use including sheesha, polygamy, and anger issues

​

Preferred Family Setup: nuclear / semi-nuclear

​

Do You Want Children?: Yes, Within first year of marriage ( important for me)

​

Timeframe for Marriage: Preferably by this year dec

​

Family involvement after 1 week at maximum

A close relative in Wah cantt needs hip replacement surgery after a fracture. Kindly suggested the best orthopedic surgeon.

Is it a good idea to get it done from Wah cantt or any best surgeon in Islamabad?

Height : 5 feet, ( Slim)

Marital Status: Single

Location: Near Islamabad

Accommodation: owned

Family Status : Upper Midde / Middle Class

Education: BS SE

Income Source: Remote Software Project Manager

Personality

Selectively Social, Mature, Responsible, Organised, Well-Mannered, Open-minded, understanding, good listener, and respectful, Likes pets such as cats and birds

Religion & Short Detail:

I pray 5 times a day, fast, learn and understand the Quran. I don’t wear a hijab, but I do wear a dupatta and modest clothing

Hobbies & Interests:

Strength training in the gym, going for walks, watching good shows and spending quality time with family. Exploring the latest smart gadgets. And obviously the girly interests of fashion, shopping and all things cute.

Family Details

Father, Mother and 2 Siblings ( Will share details in DM)

Caste Urdu Speaking ( Personally don't have a preference )

Requirements for a PartFulfil Must Fulfill

Only Pakistan origin ( Cuz how am I going to communicate casually in another language 🥲, English feels too formal)

Age 28 - 32 ( hard limit)

Open to practising religion together

God fearing, Fun loving, understanding, respectful,

Earns more than me ( Min pkr 200k)

Responsible, financially stable and provider mindset

Education: Bachelors

Believes in transparency and bestfriend kinda bond

Is not bald

Is not healthier/ chubby , I'm very slim and petite

physical attraction matters to me

Deal Breakers :

Very conservative, Drinking, smoking, any drug use including sheesha, polygamy, and anger issues

Preferred Family Setup: nuclear / semi-nuclear

Do You Want Children?: Yes, Within first year of marriage

Timeframe for Marriage: Preferably by this year dec

Family involvement after 2 weeks at maximum

Looking for recommendations to migrate from Pakistan as a single male, professional video editor, working with Dubai based company along with freelancing.

Education : Media Sciences

Not looking for study route.

Any country for skilled worker visa or work visa ?

Looking for recommendations to migrate as a single male, professional video editor, working with Dubai based company along with freelancing.

Education : Media Sciences

Not looking for study route.

Any country for skilled worker visa or work visa ?

Height & Weight: 5 feet, 41 kgs ( Slim)

Marital Status: Single

Location: Near Islamabad

Accommodation: owned

Family Status : Upper Midde / Middle Class

Education: BS SE

Income Source: Remote Software Project Manager

Personality

Selectively Social, Mature, Responsible, Organised, Well-Mannered, Open-minded, understanding, good listener, and respectful, Likes pets such as cats and birds

Religion & Short Detail:

I pray 5 times a day, fast, learn and understand the Quran. I don’t wear a hijab, but I do wear a dupatta and modest clothing

Hobbies & Interests:

Strength training in the gym, going for walks, watching good shows and spending quality time with family. Exploring the latest smart gadgets. And obviously the girly interests of fashion, shopping and all things cute.

Family Details

Father, Mother and 2 Siblings ( Will share details in DM)

Caste Urdu Speaking ( Personally don't have a preference )

Requirements for a Partner , Must Fulfill:

Preference for nearby cities like Islamabad / Rwp, but open to lahore and abroad, apart from Karachi.

Only Pakistan origin ( Cuz how am I going to communicate casually in another language 🥲, English feels too formal)

Age 28 - 31 ( hard limit)

Open to practising religion together

God fearing, Fun loving, understanding, respectful,

Earns more than me ( Min pkr 200k)

Responsible, financially stable and provider mindset

Education: Bachelors

Preference for the same field ( IT , CS , SE ) but open to other fields apart from doctors and anyone who works nights on site

Believes in transparency and bestfriend kinda bond

Is not bald

Is not healthier/ chubby , I'm very slim and petite

physical attraction matters to me

Deal Breakers

Very conservative, Drinking, smoking, any drug use including sheesha, polygamy, and anger issues

Preferred Family Setup: nuclear / semi-nuclear

Do You Want Children?: Yes, Within first year of marriage

Timeframe for Marriage: Preferably by this year dec

Family involvement after 2 weeks at maximum

If you are serious and willing for family involvement DM me your profile, will not entertain general msgs

Company Overview:

We are a growing, fast-paced software agency delivering high-quality digital products. As a small team, we value agility, clear communication, and direct ownership. We love turning complex client visions into beautifully polished, functional realities.

Job Description & Responsibilities:

\* Extend and scale an existing, in-progress Figma design base file.

\* Build out new screens and flows according to evolving client requirements.

\* Improve and iterate on current layouts based on detailed, granular client feedback.

\* Create custom icons and inject a sleek, futuristic design aesthetic.

\* Develop advanced 3D animations directly inside the Figma workspace.

\* Deliver a fully functional prototype as the final, complete product.

Qualifications/Experience Required:

\* Expertise in Figma, specifically in modifying, organized scaling, and building upon existing design files.

\* Proven capability in creating 3D animations natively within Figma.

\* Strong eye for detail, specifically for futuristic, high-tech, and modern UI styles.

\* Excellent feedback implementation skills to execute precise changes from client notes.

Location:

\* Remote (Pakistan)

Salary Range:

\* PKR 50,000 - PKR 60,000 per month

Contract & Probation Terms:

\* Initial Contract: 1-month probation contract.

\* Performance Clause: Subject to immediate termination if performance or output quality fails to meet client standards and feedback requirements.

Work Conditions:

\* Full-time dedicated remote agency role.

\* Hours: Minimum 8 hours per day.

\* Tracking: Must use a time-tracking tool (records hours and captures periodic screenshots; no camera needed).

Design Expectations Note:

\* Visual Benchmarks: We have specific samples and visual references detailing the exact level of futuristic aesthetics and 3D micro-animations expected for this project. These samples will be shared with shortlisted candidates during the initial screening.

Company Overview:

We are a growing, fast-paced software agency delivering high-quality digital products. As a small team, we value agility, clear communication, and direct ownership. We love turning complex client visions into beautifully polished, functional realities.

Job Description & Responsibilities:

* Extend and scale an existing, in-progress Figma design base file.

* Build out new screens and flows according to evolving client requirements.

* Improve and iterate on current layouts based on detailed, granular client feedback.

* Create custom icons and inject a sleek, futuristic design aesthetic.

* Develop advanced 3D animations directly inside the Figma workspace.

* Deliver a fully functional prototype as the final, complete product.

Qualifications/Experience Required:

* Expertise in Figma, specifically in modifying, organized scaling, and building upon existing design files.

* Proven capability in creating 3D animations natively within Figma.

* Strong eye for detail, specifically for futuristic, high-tech, and modern UI styles.

* Excellent feedback implementation skills to execute precise changes from client notes.

Location:

* Remote (Pakistan)

Salary Range:

* PKR 50,000 - PKR 60,000 per month

Contract & Probation Terms:

* Initial Contract: 1-month probation contract.

* Performance Clause: Subject to immediate termination if performance or output quality fails to meet client standards and feedback requirements.

Work Conditions:

* Full-time dedicated remote agency role.

* Hours: Minimum 8 hours per day.

* Tracking: Must use a time-tracking tool (records hours and captures periodic screenshots; no camera needed).

Design Expectations Note:

* Visual Benchmarks: We have specific samples and visual references detailing the exact level of futuristic aesthetics and 3D micro-animations expected for this project. These samples will be shared with shortlisted candidates during the initial screening.

Height & Weight: 5 feet, 41 kgs ( Slim)

Marital Status: Single

Location: Near Islamabad

Accommodation: owned

Education: BS SE

Income Source: Remote Software Project Manager

Personality

Selectively Social, Mature, Responsible, Organised, Well-Mannered, Open-minded, understanding, good listener, and respectful, Likes pets such as cats and birds

Religion & Short Detail:

I pray 5 times a day, fast, learn and understand the Quran. I don’t wear a hijab, but I do wear a dupatta and modest clothing

Hobbies & Interests:

Strength training in the gym, going for walks, watching good shows and spending quality time with family. Exploring the latest smart gadgets. And obviously the girly interests of fashion, shopping and all things cute.

Family Details

Father, Mother and 2 Siblings ( Will share details in DM)

Caste Urdu Speaking ( Personally don't have a preference )

Requirements for a Partner

Preference for nearby cities like Islamabad / Rwp, but open to other major cities and abroad, apart from Karachi.

Only Pakistan origin ( Cuz how am I going to communicate casually in another language 🥲, English feels too formal)

Age 28 - 31

Open to practising religion together

God fearing, Fun loving, understanding, respectful,

Earns more than me

Responsible, financially stable and provider mindset

Education: Bachelors

Preference for the same field ( IT , CS , SE )

Believes in transparency and bestfriend kinda bond

Is not bald / open to getting hair treatments

physical attraction matters to me

Deal Breakers

Very conservative, Drinking, smoking, any drug use including sheesha, polygamy, and anger issues

Preferred Family Setup: nuclear / semi-nuclear

Do You Want Children?: Yes

Timeframe for Marriage: Preferably this year,

If you are serious and willing for family involvement DM me your profile, will not entertain general msgs

Hi All, Below is my profile, can anyone please share their opinion on if I am being unreasonable and is it that difficult to find a guy for marriage

F | 28 | Islamabad - Looking for someone who's serious about marriage

Height & Weight: 5 feet, 41 kgs ( Slim)

Marital Status: Single

Location: Near Islamabad

Accommodation: owned

Education: BS SE

Income Source: Remote Software Project Manager

I don't plan to work full-time after marriage since i have seen 2 examples in my own family of how. much it effects the early years of a child

Personality

Selectively Social, Mature, Responsible, Organised, Well-Mannered, Open-minded, understanding, good listener, and respectful, Likes pets such as cats and birds

Religion & Short Detail:

I pray 5 times a day, fast, learn and understand the Quran. I don’t wear a hijab, but I do wear a dupatta and modest clothing

Hobbies & Interests:

Strength training in the gym, going for walks, watching good shows and spending quality time with family. Exploring the latest smart gadgets. And obviously the girly interests of fashion, shopping and all things cute.

Family Details

Father, Mother and 2 Siblings ( Will share details in DM)

Caste Urdu Speaking ( Personally don't have a preference )

Requirements for a Partner

Preference for nearby cities like Islamabad / Rwp, but open to other major cities and abroad, apart from Karachi.

Age 28 - 31

Open to practising religion together

God fearing, Fun loving, understanding, respectful,

Earns more than me

Responsible, financially stable and provider mindset

Education: Bachelors

Preference for the same field ( IT , CS , SE )

Believes in transparency and bestfriend kinda bond

Deal Breakers

Very conservative, Drinking, smoking, any drug use including sheesha, polygamy, and anger issues

Preferred Family Setup: nuclear / semi-nuclear

Do You Want Children?: Yes

Timeframe for Marriage: Preferably this year