I think the great love is if you find someone that open your eyes,make you a better person
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I think the great love is if you find someone that open your eyes,make you a better person

And inspire you to do better things with your life .Somebody that accept you just as you are,And they do that with each other.And they also have their hearts in the same place,We have similar goals similar passions.

u/Williamchan1987 — 10 hours ago

Accepting oneself does not preclude an attempt to become better

True growth begins with acceptance. When we embrace who we are—our strengths, flaws, and everything in between—we build a foundation strong enough to carry us forward.

Acceptance isn’t complacency. It’s not saying, “This is all I’ll ever be.” Instead, it’s the starting point for transformation. From a place of self-acceptance, every step we take toward improvement is fueled by clarity and compassion, not by shame or self-criticism.

🌱 Ask yourself: What’s one way I can honor who I am today, while still taking a step toward the person I want to become?

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u/Williamchan1987 — 15 hours ago
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When in uncertainty or feeling exposed, don't retreat

Stay brave, stay uncomfortable, lean into hard conversations and keep leading.
Staying brave isn't about oversharing or weeping uncontrollably—it's recognizing your psychological armor and staying authentically human when vulnerable.

u/Williamchan1987 — 1 day ago
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Why is art so beautiful? Because it serves no purpose. Why is life so ugly and full of absurdity? Because everything in it is driven by purpose, ambition, and ulterior motives.

u/Williamchan1987 — 3 days ago
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As long as you stay the same. You’ll be in the place

You don’t get out of the people pile by accident.You don’t get out of the people pile by luck.You’re gonna have to make decisions. You’re gonna have to be courageous. You’re gonna take steps you’ve never taken before. You get other people power by intentionally.Doing something you’ve never done before and paying a price that you’ve never paid before.

u/Williamchan1987 — 4 days ago

The Kumagaya Uchiwa Festival (くまがや うちわまつり) is one of the biggest and most famous summer festivals in Kumagaya, Saitama. It’s also considered one of the most iconic Gion-style festivals in the Kanto region.

u/Williamchan1987 — 4 days ago
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Hey guys, Remember: if living isn't for happy, what's the point to be a hundred?

In this life can never be repeated, so please be happy, let things go easily, keep life simple. Keep your heart open and bright. The storms are in heaven's hands, but your happiness is in your hands. Happiness is most important—always first, everything else secondary. Peace.

u/Williamchan1987 — 5 days ago

The best way to navigate life can be summed up in two simple phrases. Shine brilliantly in your own world and be at ease in the world of others.Do you agree?

u/Williamchan1987 — 5 days ago
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You can’t go back and change the past, but you can always start fresh today. Don’t stress over things you have no control over.

u/Williamchan1987 — 6 days ago
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All negativity is caused by an accumulation of psychological time and denial of the present.

Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are caused by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence.

u/Williamchan1987 — 6 days ago
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The three factors that seem to have the greatest influence on increasing our happiness are our ability to reframe our situation more positively, our ability to experience gratitude, and our choice to be kind and generous.

u/Williamchan1987 — 7 days ago
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What is the difference between a wife and a prostitute? A prostitute will fulfill all of your needs with your money. But a wife will fulfill all of her needs with your money. I think it makes perfect sense.Do you agree with that?

u/Williamchan1987 — 7 days ago

People don’t have to like you. People don‘t have to love you. They don’t even have to respect you. But when you look in the mirror,you‘d better love what you see.

u/Williamchan1987 — 7 days ago
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The view from the Enoden train windows is absolutely breathtaking. It’s so beautiful that I’d ride the Enoden just for this scenery. 🌅🌊✨

u/Williamchan1987 — 9 days ago
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I think about decisions in three ways: hats, haircuts, and tattoos

Most decisions are like hats. Try one and if you don’t like it, put it back and try another. The cost of a mistake is low, so move quickly and try a bunch of hats.

Some decisions are like haircuts. You can fix a bad one, but it won’t be quick and you might feel foolish for a while. That said, don't be scared of a bad haircut. Trying something new is usually a risk worth taking. If it doesn't work out, by this time next year you will have moved on and so will everyone else.

A few decisions are like tattoos. Once you make them, you have to live with them. Some mistakes are irreversible. Maybe you'll move on for a moment, but then you'll glance in the mirror and be reminded of that choice all over again. Even years later, the decision leaves a mark. When you're dealing with an irreversible choice, move slowly and think carefully.

u/Williamchan1987 — 9 days ago
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Never explain yourself to others.

Those who understand you need no explanation; those who don't, a hundred words won't clarify.
Your actions don't require everyone's understanding; your character doesn't require universal affection.
Either make friends with those who have interesting souls, or get along with those who are simple and honest.
The meaning of meeting lies in illuminating each other. If not, then what is there to fear in walking alone?
You must know that this is freedom in its purest form.

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u/Williamchan1987 — 10 days ago
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Accepting oneself does not preclude an attempt to become better

True growth begins with acceptance. When we embrace who we are—our strengths, flaws, and everything in between—we build a foundation strong enough to carry us forward.

Acceptance isn’t complacency. It’s not saying, “This is all I’ll ever be.” Instead, it’s the starting point for transformation. From a place of self-acceptance, every step we take toward improvement is fueled by clarity and compassion, not by shame or self-criticism.

🌱 Ask yourself: What’s one way I can honor who I am today, while still taking a step toward the person I want to become?

u/Williamchan1987 — 11 days ago

We are feeling deeply challenged, trying to hold on and believe in ourselves, and I do not mean in a toxic way. I am talking about a way that comes from confidence, the kind of confidence that can keep us moving forward when we are feeling.

u/Williamchan1987 — 11 days ago