u/blueberriedaydream

Looking for active members to join wars and participate in clan games

We send a lot of troops and are active

Idk how this works I’ve been playing on and off for around 12 years lol

Thanks

I think it ended in a shootout w the cops idk

I feel like there’s no way he made it out

I’ve had this number for 5 fucking years

This lady keeps using it anyway

I get verification texts for her to log into her accounts (I’ve logged into all her accounts and posted and created spam)

I keep getting calls from her 3 kids schools. I’m done.

I’ve considered public shame and posting her on Facebook but I don’t think that would help considering I’ve already gotten into her accounts.

Need options

I’m very much the tell it how it is friend even if the truth is ugly. People often don’t take this well even if they say they want the honest truth

I’ve recently been accused of acting fake.. and I have been acting fake because I feel like I can’t be honest with people about anything because of the way they take things

I could probably be a little nicer in my delivery I guess but I think the bigger problem is just me calling people out in the first place

How would you navigate this?

Just trying to get more recs from people like me lol

I know this sounds terrible but hear me out. His family talks about wishing people dead, calling immigration on people, getting people fired— like just laughing talking about it at dinner. I’ve overheard the things they have to say about me and my “people” (race). It’s honestly evil.

I have been having significant health issues and have had to go to a lot of specialist appointments and things that I just don’t want to talk to anyone about let alone people who actively hate me.

My brother has also been in and out of the hospital for a couple months now with significant injury complications including now organ failure.

So, I go by myself to all the scary appointments, the imaging, the biopsy, even now the treatments. I even go by myself to see my brother. A few times I’ve asked my bf to come but told him to turn off his location because I feel like I have a right to privacy.

There’s cameras all over the house, his family asks constantly about what we’re doing, where we’re going, keep tabs on our finances—everything.

I wouldn’t mind them having his location if they actually cared but his car got a flat at 4am and my car in the shop so I couldn’t go help him and he called his family and nobody went. My brother drove over an hour one way to go help instead.

They don’t care about him at all. They treat him like a paycheck and that’s it.

I want him to stop sharing his location so I feel comfortable asking him to come with me to my appointments but I don’t really know what to say.

I can’t currently move due to finances and the specialist appointment and treatments

Any advice is welcome thank you

It’s annoying to me that she sits in their office crying about how her “friend” betrayed her and all the things she told her in confidence instead of asking for a lawyer

Me and my bf were arguing about if she’d have been arrested for doing drugs in front of the fed or if she flipped because she was just scared

Yesterday I had a hard conversation with my boyfriend about the things I have heard his family say and he said that he’s not really surprised because he has heard them say racist things about other people in the past but thought they’d gotten over it.

We talked and he agreed we need to move but I asked him to not say anything until we sign for the apartment later today.

Last night I started having chest pains and went to the emergency room, they said it was just anxiety and sent me home with a muscle relaxer and an anxiety medication.

Well this morning we woke up and I’m being accused of stealing a FEW THOUSAND dollars from someone’s backpack in the house and how “convenient” it was that we weren’t home right after they noticed it was missing. They’re asking for my discharge paperwork from the hospital which I think is absolutely absurd. I provided time stamped and location marked photos that I’m being accused of altering.

They have cameras and won’t check them because they’re too “nervous”.

There are caregivers in and out of the house all day for my bfs mom, they clean and help her with medication and bills etc. Everyone has friends over all day every day, I don’t leave my room except to go to the restroom or kitchen or leave. I have helped clean this entire house multiple times, they even asked me to take everything down from every cabinet and wash and wipe the cabinet and put it back.

In my life I’ve only stolen food when I was a kid with my mom because we had no food and we didn’t steal candy or extras it was always canned tuna or chicken or ramen just something to get a little protein.

I don’t know what to even say or do about this at all other than leave and my bf is scared it’s going to make us look guilty.

Copy paste of og post:

Aitj for giving my bf an ultimatum about his family

I 23f have lived with my bf 25m and his family for about 2 months now, been together for 4 years. (We pay a significant amount for rent)

I have been no contact with my family since I was 15 so his family is all I really ever had. We have gone to eat, church, etc everything has always been pleasant. We’ve stayed at his sister and her husbands’ home before.

I found out as soon as we moved in (first day) they all secretly hate me. I hear them talk about “people like me” as soon as I leave the room. It doesn’t matter how nice I am to them, how much I clean or contribute or anything it’s just not going to change. “Those (race) people are all xxxxx” “they’re all like that” “I can’t believe he would stay with someone (race)”

I can’t even repeat the things I’ve heard

His siblings today were being loud getting ready for a bbq and I overheard them saying how big I look how I look like I’m transgender and one of the friends was like “that’s how all dumb ass fat ass (race) people look” and honestly I almost lost my mind.

I decided to dramatically fake throwing up and go to my room so I wouldn’t have to help prep all the food and start cooking. My bf is downstairs helping his family and honestly I don’t even know how to tell him about today. He keeps coming up to check on me and bring me water and I’m just in shock.

I moved here because the school program I started a few months ago is close to here and I couldn’t afford my place by myself and tuition.. He told me he’d talked to his family about me moving in and said that it was good. I have noticed they don’t treat him very well either, he’s kind of the family punching bag and he complains openly to me about it especially more the last couple weeks.

I found a place that’s not much more expensive than what we pay here but granted it’s a small apartment.

TL;DR my boyfriend’s family pretends to like me and is secretly racist behind my back. I found an apartment and want to move but idk how to tell him.

AITAH if I give my bf the ultimatum of move with me or break up and I’ll get a roommate?

TL;DR pt 2:

My bfs parents are racist and accusing me of stealing from them because I was in the hospital and are accusing me of lying about being in the hospital. We don’t know what to do or say without looking guilty.

I have planters fasciitis in both feet and I’m tired of all the extra cushion in my shoes I feel like I’m happier barefoot at this point.

I’ve bought a pair of vivo barefoot but I didn’t like the fit and I want to try on shoes in store

Also any recommendations if you’ve suffered from this as well please, my feet turn purple and look bruised it’s excruciating

8.5 very wide US

Southern California

I’m in a long term relationship and I just recently found out that my bf entire family talks badly about me.

I’m just wondering how this will potentially affect us / future kids

I 23f have lived with my bf 25m and his family for about 2 months now, been together for 4 years. (We pay a significant amount for rent)

I have been no contact with my family since I was 15 so his family is all I really ever had. We have gone to eat, church, etc everything has always been pleasant. We’ve stayed at his sister and her husbands’ home before.

I found out as soon as we moved in (first day) they all secretly hate me. I hear them talk about “people like me” as soon as I leave the room. It doesn’t matter how nice I am to them, how much I clean or contribute or anything it’s just not going to change. “Those (race) people are all xxxxx” “they’re all like that” “I can’t believe he would stay with someone (race)”

I can’t even repeat the things I’ve heard

His siblings today were being loud getting ready for a bbq and I overheard them saying how big I look how I look like I’m transgender and one of the friends was like “that’s how all dumb ass fat ass (race) people look” and honestly I almost lost my mind.

I decided to dramatically fake throwing up and go to my room so I wouldn’t have to help prep all the food and start cooking. My bf is downstairs helping his family and honestly I don’t even know how to tell him about today. He keeps coming up to check on me and bring me water and I’m just in shock.

I moved here because the school program I started a few months ago is close to here and I couldn’t afford my place by myself and tuition.. He told me he’d talked to his family about me moving in and said that it was good. I have noticed they don’t treat him very well either, he’s kind of the family punching bag and he complains openly to me about it especially more the last couple weeks.

I found a place that’s not much more expensive than what we pay here but granted it’s a small apartment.

TL;DR my boyfriend’s family pretends to like me and is secretly racist behind my back. I found an apartment and want to move but idk how to tell him.

AITAH if I give my bf the ultimatum of move with me or break up and I’ll get a roommate?

Who would watch?

I don’t think she really gets the recognition she deserves from her family for all her efforts in the kitchen

I’ve flown a handful of times and each time I am violently sick the entire time. I take a lot of Dramamine, eating, not eating, sleep aid, nothing seems to help

Is there anything I can do? Has anyone delt with this?

So I want to preface this with I am in school

I’m dealing with a lot of problems in life in general right now - roommates, relationship, work, family, car, health issues and I am just struggling a lot.

If I get a therapist and I get medication or get diagnosed with anything will it hurt my future career?

Coming from poverty, mental health issues, etc

This whole thing is going to sound like a drama show

My bfs aunt and uncle have raised him since he was a young child but treat him very very differently from his cousins.

I came up to live here recently and we share a room

Well his cousins treat me really bad as well as him. They talk bad about everything I do. I drive bad, I’m messy, I’m dirty, I spend too much time in my room, I spend too much time out of the house, I do nothing, I do too much, I’m rude etc.

They don’t understand the pressure I have to study and make good grades and it’s hard to be around people who criticize and talk aggressively even jokingly and I also have health issues.

A lot of stuff happened in a few weeks, my good childhood friend offed himself, my bf aunt had been in hospital for an illness and we thought she was getting better and would come home and suddenly passed, boyfriend totaled his car driving tired and stressed, got my identity stolen, he bought a car that broke down, I had to pay for 2 different rental cars, finals for school
~all in 5 weeks

I drove 14 hours to my mates funeral and stayed two nights for the funeral and drove 14 hours home.

I sat in hospital overnight multiple times with his family, talked to drs, helped with funeral arrangements, scanned photos for hours and made a funeral slideshow during my finals week.

I was home alone and making food and his cousin came home and I asked if he wanted me to leave
(I shouldn’t have he doesn’t like me, has yelled at me before, actively talks a lot of shit about me, walks in on me in the restroom, tells me not open the fridge or use stuff in the kitchen) and he was like what’s your problem and I was shaking just trying to get my food out of the oven and we ended up arguing about how my bf is a grown man and doesn’t do things he’s supposed to so I snapped at him to talk to my bf instead and he told me never to talk to him again and I started crying and I left

I had a panic attack a few weeks ago and started crying to my boyfriend about how I feel like a child living here because I can’t do anything right and I feel like I need permission to do anything here and his cousins overheard everything I said.
They started telling me about how I should feel comfortable to live here and what’s wrong with me and I was already so flustered and stressed out I blurted out and yelled that I had been abused a lot as a child and to just leave me alone.

I was accused of trying to manipulate the situation and get everyone to feel bad for me when their mom had just passed away and I immediately felt horrible that wasn’t my intention at all. I was having a mental breakdown.

I left by myself crying in my car for over an hour and he called me and told me they were saying like wtf is wrong with me and where am I going and I’m crazy and everything else.

It’s been weeks and they don’t speak to me and things are just getting worse.

I haven’t been speaking to them much because I’m embarrassed and ashamed and I shouldn’t have told them anything about my abuse I had been through and it wasn’t to manipulate, I truly don’t even know why I said it.

I don’t know what to about this. I don’t leave my room except to leave the house or go to the restroom or clean, I don’t use the kitchen at all.

There is a cultural difference as well I don’t know if that matters :/