u/hartleyhigh

hi girlies, so i was having an argument over a post of sex work in another sub. 80% men were defending sex work.

men can discuss but be respectful

there 100s of men defending sex work saying “oh but its their money they can do wtv” or w things like “its w consent bw each other” , “sex work is not bad” “men have urges women dont u shouldn't speak on that”

sex workers deserve the same respect as other people. sex work as an industry is soo fucked up, women are exploited, hurt , abducted to be working as a sw. so if i know a man that has paid for sw contributes to an industry that has always hurt women.

if u as a man dont respect sex workers bec they have sex for “money” how can men expect respect from women for paying for sex work?

so girls i want your opinion on this , am i wrong to think sw is a demeaning and degrading to women as an industry? any man paying for sex w a woman views women as objects for sex and that is messed up .

again, im anti sex work, im not anti sex workers

hii so i came across gooddot a few days ago and i was a bit skeptical to order vegan meat yk? i was a meat eater before but I'll be v v honest i legit couldn't tell the difference if it was chicken or mutton.

so my question is , is that goodddot legitimate right? like they arent selling meat in the name of vegan meat, right? im skeptical so i need someone who has tried it to tell me about taste and whether its worth buying

so like my title says, i know gotras mean your family or ancestors had the same lineage / bloodline. i get it but how can this be possible between 2 people from different regions or states?

there are also many people who adopt a particular gotra just because they follow the principles of the particular maharishi.

even if we consider thats valid, if we can name 7-9 ancestors that are not common between bride and groom , why is same gotra marriage still not accepted socially? how does any of this make it incestous.

scientifically the gotra system has no valid backing. i understand rh factor in bloodgroup is important but now that can be mitigated aswell.

is this now more of am accepted custom or is there any logical argument behind this.

psa : im not a hater, im just very curious about this gotra system because to me in the modern age makes no sense to me

idk if this is the right sub or flair but according to y'all who played mary better? laurie or zoe . (im tryna see something)

NO HATE BTW. there's this one cs on youtube and on insta. THEY HAVE NO IDEA WHAT FAILING FEELS LIKE . they have no idea how horrible it feels after an attempt esp where you truly worked so hard for that.

“this is why u couldnt clear” bs ass titles and its the most bs thing I've ever seen. all this bs js to sell some course or mentorship bec they want to “guide” you. if you truly care about your community so much maybe try giging those advice for free. fym 1499 for 1 hr zoom like what the fuck?

im so stressed for tomorrow's open book☹️

i think brenda wouldve been a great mum to missy

guys, valuation theory kaha se kar rahe ho? pls help

bhai im so scared , numericals abhi bhi nai horahe upar se reit invit dono revise krna baaki hai

i did solve numericals few weeks ago but now i cant seem to remr at all, what do i do? shubham sir’s video is 8hrs long almost 🫩🫩🫩

im sorry for my language but im so so so fucking scared. im so burned out , exhausted and mentally tired. tgis has to be one of the worst attempts ever

GUYS HOW ARE U ALL STUDYING SM, I STUDIED IT BEFORE AND I CANT RECALL ANYTHING ANYMORE

hi so i have a break of 3 months now and im planning to learn soft gel x at home, ive gotten them twice before from salon and then relied on pressons however i want to utilize my time. so based on all search and youtube this is all ive finalised, do i need anything more for learning? also should i get these from local nail supply stores or online?

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hi so im 22f , so like the title says i was someone who went around kissing people casually and never spoke to them again. this was when i was 14-16 i think ive kissed around 10-12 people i dont even remember at this point. i always felt like i was hypersexual and i didnt realise why.

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i was 9 when i was groped by group of guys and they slid their hands under my tshirt, squeezed my breasts and whatnot. i didnt realise it back then but later on it did hit. i was a fat kid and also hit puberty fast so naturally i had bigger breasts and wider hips compared to other kids. men would make sexual gestures to me and everything , i didnt think much of it.

when i turned 11 , a guy from my block wanted to be my bf and naturally as a fat kid w no male attention, i was happy that someone wanted to date me. i said yes and when he kissed me (i didnt know he would kiss me) i didnt push back and let it happen only to realise his friends and some girls recorded me kissing him and blackmailed me for months.

ive lived with that fear for idk so many months/years . at that time there was a guy in the group who was involved in the video making plan told me "i would get the video deleted dw" and i again fell for something like that and i didnt know he wanted sexual favors from me back then , he was 16 or 17ish and i was 11 and also a friend's brother , so i trusted his word. everytime this video thing came back he would ask me to do things to him , things for him. there was a time where i was alone on aterrace and he came up intoxicated and started dry humping me forcefully , i kept fighting but he was too huge for my age and i couldnt so i let it happen until he got off on me and stopped on his own.

everybody around me in school, classes, colony, blocks, knew i was the community whore bec i let people do whatever they wanted. guys would befriend me , expect something and when they didnt get anything they would spread shit like i gave them a handjob or abj. i was so scared of all of this , i stopped leaving my house, avoided public other than school and stayed away from everyone. i stopped going to birthday parties and stayed in my room 24/7 crying. my day was basically, school-home-tuition-home.

when i turned 14, i was so tired of all the names and shit for things i didnt even do , i started acting on them , anytime a guy befriended me, i would kiss him once and then never see him again. i kept doing this until i turned 16 and a guy who was 22 years old did this to me, i had a terrible relationship w my father growing up. i never discussed this to anyone but to him i did and that was my one of the biggest mistake of my life.

he would console me , make me feel happy and i was sure that ive found the loml and then one day he told me he was inviting all his friends casually so i should come too. and my stupid ass did go and things happened, he forced himself on me and it didnt go in bec i kept crying asking him to stop. he got upset and said some fucked up thing. i got up , got dressed and went home. i never saw him again after that but it was horrifying.

cut to me being 22 , i still dont go out in public spaces in my block bec im so scared w that fact that everyone knows i was promiscous as a kid. i have a decent degree that im working on abd im horrified of being on instagram. i turned to religion hoping it would bring me peace but the horrors that i hear from my mom over "girls that leave their boundaries live a sad life" and it fucks me up everytime. i have a loving bf whom ive told all this but im still so scared to call him over or any of my uni friends bec im scared that what if people from my past tell them something that i havent told them??

im sorry for the long post, i js wanted to let out , bec ive never shared 100% of this to anyone.

had protected sex (no ejaculation but bit slip) on may 2 , had bleeding (dark red and clots) 12 days after however the flow was lot lighter than normal. and lasted 2.5 - 3 days max with spotting on 3rd day. could it be because of noreisterone i took last month?

if you've chosen labour law as your elective PLEASE HELP ME OUT W VIDEO LECS OR NOTES FOR OSHWC PLSPLSPLS