u/jacksbatmansignal

I cannot connect my inspire 2 to Google's new app whatsoever.

I kind of took a break from using the watch, but used it to track my heart rate for my health and can't afford a new watch!!! Help??? 😭

I live in a sober living (always sober but mental health program pays for it) that is abusive and kinda transphobic because they won't respect my pronouns.

Anyway, so today I told house managers over text that we have bedbugs. One of the house managers called me and I told her that I cannot be outside for 6 hours in the heat when they tent the house as I have nowhere to go and have a medical condition that makes me sensitive to heat, as well as having one heatstroke seizure in the past, and on top of having a betta fish in the house. She said she could take the fish and I was like lol no, not happening. Then she suggested I go to the library or the mental health program for 6 hours.

Told her no, ya'll need to provide me somewhere to go for those 6 hours, as well as my fish.

She refused.

I was like you do realize I can sue you if I go out there in the heat and have a heatstroke seizure because you're refusing me accommodations right?

She freaked the fuck out and said I would be getting kicked out.

Then she lied in the group chat, saying I was "requesting" to leave. I called her out.

So eventually, as I'm making panicked phone calls, her husband the other house manager comes to the house to harass me through my bedroom door while I'm on the phone. I get off the phone eventually, and have him on video coming up to my door again after I told him to stop talking to me because I don't feel safe. He admitted that he had me sign a paper saying I'm not a tenant (which is illegal but he acts like it isn't), that I told him to not talk to me because I felt unsafe and he still kept talking, and then he tried to say that he wasn't gonna kick me out and didn't know what his wife had talked about with me, that I was making a huge deal out of this, and then he laughed and said I wouldn't possibly have a seizure for standing out in the heat for 6 hours (???).

So eventually I call the cops, they show up and are equally unhelpful and say it is a civil matter while house manager is standing there smirking like I'm insane, lying to the cops, and he kept walking in and out of the house to scare me when I told the cops to stop him from doing that because I didn't want him going into my room to fuck with my stuff.

So I'm like "whatever" and walk away because the cop is standing there playing braindead and asking me if I knew this guy is running an unlicensed sober living, why did I wait until I had a problem to report it? And the cops did jack shit.

They even asked the house manager as I stormed off "do you know how to evict them?"

Oh and the mental health program? Yeah, they called me and claimed they weren't taking sides and were just trying to keep the peace as they suggested I go to the library because house managers have to spray the house. Then wondered why I yelled at them for not listening to me...

Umm yeah I only have $30 to my name, 211 is useless, mental health program is laughably bad as usual and will house me somewhere even worse, so awesome 😭 I wanna get into a clhf or something but aggghh

I'm living in a sober living paid for by a mental health program (I'm sober and have always been, just the only housing available) and there's this guy that lives in the men's house next door.

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Anyway he's a sweetheart and has offered to help me with stuff, so he comes by to help me with a table.

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I decide to mention I'm trans (ftm) and he's like huh??

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So basically he's never heard of trans people/lingo at all, and so I had to awkwardly figure it out how to explain stuff to him.

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Like he knew nothing about it at all (he's kinda an older guy) and asked me if I'd get a dick, do you keep your lady parts, what does passing mean, etc.

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I kinda laughed awkwardly because I was worried he'd be transphobic, but he was genuinely chill and was like nah I'm just wondering, I've never heard about it before.

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He seemed super sweet, like he laughed about stuff but he was like that's so cool! And I think he's being genuine yk?

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And he asked me which way I'd swing, like if I was a guy would I be with women or guys and I said guys, and he laughed and was all really that's cool!

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I was terrified because he's kind of an older dude but because he's literally never heard about being transgender he was just more curious honestly. It was so sweet!

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I was worried he would like not want to be friends anymore (I mean I think we're friends haha I haven't lived here long) but he was just like "oh neat!!"

I'm living in a sober living paid for by a mental health program (I'm sober and have always been, just the only housing available) and there's this guy that lives in the men's house next door.

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Anyway he's a sweetheart and has offered to help me with stuff, so he comes by to help me with a table.

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I decide to mention I'm trans (ftm) and he's like huh??

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So basically he's never heard of trans people/lingo at all, and so I had to awkwardly figure it out how to explain stuff to him.

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Like he knew nothing about it at all (he's kinda an older guy) and asked me if I'd get a dick, do you keep your lady parts, what does passing mean, etc.

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I kinda laughed awkwardly because I was worried he'd be transphobic, but he was genuinely chill and was like nah I'm just wondering, I've never heard about it before.

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He seemed super sweet, like he laughed about stuff but he was like that's so cool! And I think he's being genuine yk?

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And he asked me which way I'd swing, like if I was a guy would I be with women or guys and I said guys, and he laughed and was all really that's cool!

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I was terrified because he's kind of an older dude but because he's literally never heard about being transgender he was just more curious honestly. It was so sweet!

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I was worried he would like not want to be friends anymore (I mean I think we're friends haha I haven't lived here long) but he was just like "oh neat!!"

Hey! I'm a 23 year old gay trans guy who doesn't entirely pass (gonna get on t + surgeries eventually). I love betta fish, fishies in general, video games, listening to music, going swimming, watching my betta, obsessing over my special interests (currently Batman rn lmao), watching movies, going shopping, writing, doodling, the beach, and a bunch of other stuff!

I'm disabled and a lil overweight so I want to go swimming more and get outside more often! I also moved back here a month ago so honestly idk what cheap shit there is to do these days! I am quite broke rn heads up but I (would hope anyway) anyone here is more looking for connections and not wealth! I also want to learn to draw eventually too so if you draw I will 100% oggle your work lmao. I'm super friendly and actually listen to people, I'm kinda the person in the friend group people vent to xD I do have depression and have a habit of not venting to other people too lol! Trying to work on it.

Umm other than that I'm also autistic (it's impossible to get diagnosed as an adult tbh) so I kinda talk loud and a lot, so. Lol.

I've also never dated before, so... yeah. I think that's it. Feel free to contact me!