so much bs it’s ridiculous

hi, this may be a long rant.
point 1: muslim men being allowed to marry non muslim women
how the hell does it make sense for muslim men to be allowed to marry non muslim women, but when a muslim woman wants to marry a non muslim man its like the world will collapse? they claim it’s because back then they would financially support the women, and apparently non muslim men are more likely to be evil to muslim women??? gtfo my face. i’ve met non muslim men that are angels compared to muslim men.

point 2: the afterlife
this will NEVER make sense to me. this is the biggest reason as to why i left islam. all non muslims go to hell, all muslims go to heaven. what about the rapists? the murderers? those that never got introduced to islam? isn’t allah supposed to guide those that he loves? sounds biased from him for me. a muslim rapist will go to hell, not eternally though because he’s STILL a muslim, and then go to heaven after. doesn’t heaven mean that you don’t feel any bad feelings? how would you feel regret? pain? shame? fucking ridiculous. and the point about how there’s more women in hell than men? just say you HATE WOMEN.

point 3: abuse
they claim that women in islam are loved. no they are not. why are more muslim women abused by muslim men? don’t even bring up the culture fact. that’s just blatantly stupid. many men think they can abuse women and get away with it by repenting. because that’s what islam has said. ‘oh but allah only forgives them if their victim has forgiven them’ who the fuck wants to forgive their abuser? islam makes victims feel as though you have to forgive those who have hurt you because if you hold a grudge it’s a sin (i might not be completely right about this). (also this point isn’t just about women being abused).

point 4: the people following the religion
holy fuck. they brought me to my breaking point. the fuck you mean i can’t wear makeup or pluck my eyebrows? if i’m gonna sit in hell w rapists because i wanted to shape my brows so be it. you guys are stupid. why do dawah bros sit there and criticise everything a woman does? never forgetting when one said women shouldn’t wear coats over their abaya. FUCK YOU

point 5: modesty
right. women have to cover head to toe, but men can show anywhere except from their belly button to their knees? how is that fair? if my hair makes men feel a certain way how the fuck is that my fault? if i wanna talk loud in public yes i will. i’m not gonna be fucking quiet.

thank you for listening to my rant 🤌

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u/meowmeowmeows27 — 9 days ago

how to come to terms with your sexuality?

hi all! this may be confusing, if you would like to know anything else please let me know.
i’m F18, and for years i’ve always KNOWN ive liked girls. i come from a muslim background (don’t follow the religion anymore, pls don’t hate under this post) and i think i have internalised homophobia? my first kiss was a girl. one of my best friends. i’ve kissed many guys, but as much as i’ve tried to feel romantic feelings for them, i literally cannot. i know i like girls. when i was 13 i came out as bi to a few of my friends then i kinda went down the extreme religious pipeline and took it back. i’ve only told two of my friends recently that i like girls, but i haven’t labeled myself. i don’t know how to accept this about myself. im scared to act on my feelings, and that may be because i still carry that internalised shame within me. any advice would be appreciated

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u/meowmeowmeows27 — 9 days ago
▲ 2 r/AskMen

how do you show a woman interest if you want something long term with her?

edit: i am a straight female i was just wondering if there’s anything you do in particular if you are serious about a girl. love all the comments tho lol u guys are funny!!

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u/meowmeowmeows27 — 9 days ago

is CBT the best solution for long term suicidal ideation?

hi all, for context, i’m 18 years old and i’ve struggled with suicidal ideation along with self harm since i was around 10 years old. i’ve had multiple therapists who i have done CBT therapy with, but im not sure it’s working. although i try my best in therapy, i feel as though im not making much progress. i know you have to try help yourself too, but i feel hopeless. any advice would be amazing.

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u/meowmeowmeows27 — 9 days ago

how to not make dishes too salty?

i find that when i make a meal meant for one person, i salt it perfectly. however, when im making a meal for multiple people i either under-salt or over-salt.

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u/meowmeowmeows27 — 9 days ago

how to cook rice?

everytime i attempt to cook rice it always turns out too mushy and everytime someone has tried to explain how to cook it, i just never get the hang of it. any help?

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u/meowmeowmeows27 — 9 days ago

trying to find a comfort show

hi all! as the title suggests, i’m trying to find a comfort show. i’d like something that is lighthearted, can make me laugh but can also be used as a background show. some shows i’ve watched that could be deemed as a comfort show are: gilmore girls, one tree hill, supernatural (one of my favs but keep rewatching) and im currently watching the OC. any recommendations would be appreciated!

edit: thank you all so much for the recommendations. you’re the best!!!

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u/meowmeowmeows27 — 9 days ago
▲ 1 r/UniUK

zoology

hi all! i’m planning to study zoology in september, and i was wondering what kind of careers i get into with this? thank you!

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u/meowmeowmeows27 — 9 days ago
▲ 2 r/Makeup

how can i make my makeup look more alternative?

as of right now my makeup is very minimal, bb cream, berry blush, winged eyeliner, mascara and a darkish lipstick (sin by mac). how could i make myself appear more alternative in terms of my makeup?

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u/meowmeowmeows27 — 10 days ago

moving to uni in september

hi guys!! i’m moving to notts for uni in September, i’m not a fan of clubbing or drinking, was just wondering if there are any recommendations?
to help, i like: food, painting, hiking, movies, anime
any recs are greatly appreciated 🥹

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u/meowmeowmeows27 — 10 days ago