u/tabbyvani
r/GlowUps r/BeforeandAfter r/WeightlossJourney r/truerateme r/fit r/amIfatBrutallyHonest r/WorkoutMotivation r/GuessMy_ r/caloriedeficit r/GymMotivation r/chat r/creepyPMs r/LooksmaxingAdvice r/HairDye r/unimeals r/intermittentfasting r/amIuglyBrutallyHonest r/personality_tests r/lookyourbest r/DressForYourBody r/ShittyRestrictionFood r/Needafriend r/FancyFollicles r/strengthtraining r/ratemyfridge r/FridgeDetective r/AppearanceAdvice r/fashion r/diet r/progresspics
F/21/168cm [155lbs > 116lbs =39lbs] (7 months) can’t wait for Halloween to finally dress up
I am at a healthy weight, plz don’t speculate and lie in my comments like last time
u/tabbyvani — 15 days ago
▲ 105 r/caloriedeficit
people (irl) have generally been treating me better since I lost weight, anyone else?
adding pics for engagement or else nobody gaf, anyway I’ve noticed how people (irl) have been so much friendlier to me, mostly men but also some women. Online it’s a war zone, people have been genuinely enraged at me for losing weight so we don’t talk about that, but in person? I didn’t realise it would be such a shift.
u/tabbyvani — 1 month ago
▲ 96 r/creepyPMs
Making new accounts to get mad at me for not looking at his cock?
u/tabbyvani — 2 months ago
▲ 53 r/truerateme
21F gotten a lot of unfavourable comments on my looks after wl, am I cooked ?
wl is weight loss btw, I lost 13 or so kilograms in the last 5-7 months and people have been coming at me for my looks saying I look like a rectangle face and bad now
u/tabbyvani — 2 months ago
F/21/168cm [65kg > 52kg = 13kg] (6 months) same party different me
u/tabbyvani — 2 months ago
▲ 70 r/lookyourbest
Is my style really that bad?
Former fatty so no I don’t want to wear tight of revealing clothes
u/tabbyvani — 2 months ago
lost 13kg, now what?
If u say gain it back I’m blocking you I cannot keep having the same conversation about how unhealthy and miserable I was before
u/tabbyvani — 2 months ago
▲ 92 r/lookyourbest
I am happier with a lower weight, but many comments disagreed - what is the objective truth?
I (naturally) lost all the weight I gained from binge ED, but ppl on here have said I was better chubby, I have a hard time believing it but after so many people saying it? I’m so confused, back then I was insulted for being fat now I’m insulted for making an effort? #confused (for serious, help!)
u/tabbyvani — 2 months ago
▲ 9 r/HairDye
*some* of my hair colours :D
ask for info if u wanna know which dyes I’ll try my best to remember (also the lion doesn’t concern herself with the constant weight fluctuations the lion had an ED)
u/tabbyvani — 2 months ago
▲ 4 r/Needafriend
20F bruh I’m so sick of being criticised
To make a long story short, I’m 6 months in recovery from my eating disorder. It’s been going decent, I’d say, I’m happy with my progress, the problem is the people around me. If I gain weight, I’m criticised for being fat and whatever, if I make an effort to do better like workout, avoid things that trigger my ED, that’s also not ok for them.
The other day a friend of mine got genuinely upset and lowk felt like she was guilting me cuz I wouldn’t go get a cheesecake with her.
Eating out especially sweet is just a trigger for me, (I’m recovering from binge eating disorder and bulimia) so I have to say no, also I don’t want to spend a lotta money before vacation. I mean?? What does she want? I said no so many times, she wouldn’t accept any alternative either, I’m sick of everything revolving around food.
Nobody knows about my recovery minus my bsf, bf and some family. I just wish ppl would stop frustrating me so bad, idk.
u/tabbyvani — 3 months ago
▲ 5 r/chat
20F feel like I’m losing my mind :D
To make a long story short, I’m 6 months in recovery from my eating disorder. It’s been going decent, I’d say, I’m happy with my progress, the problem is the people around me. If I gain weight, I’m criticised for being fat and whatever, if I make an effort to do better like workout, avoid things that trigger my ED, that’s also not ok for them.
The other day a friend of mine got genuinely upset and lowk felt like she was guilting me cuz I wouldn’t go get a cheesecake with her.
Eating out especially sweet is just a trigger for me, (I’m recovering from binge eating disorder and bulimia) so I have to say no, also I don’t want to spend a lotta money before vacation. I mean?? What does she want? I said no so many times, she wouldn’t accept any alternative either, I’m sick of everything revolving around food.
Nobody knows about my recovery minus my bsf, bf and some family. I just wish ppl would stop frustrating me so bad, idk.
u/tabbyvani — 3 months ago
10kg difference in my face (summer 2025 and summer 2026)
u/tabbyvani — 2 months ago