How are relations with the majority religion and minority in country like Albanian christians, Greek Muslims, Pomaks etc ?

Do you face discrimination ? Do you have your own local parties ? Have you considered immigrating to a different country because of any discrimination ? Thanks a lot.

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u/tipputappi — 2 days ago
▲ 15 r/TMKOC

Why doesnt Jetha ever crashout about Sunder ?

He has scammed Jetha of lakhs of rupees atp but his family sides with sunder because they dont know about the fact that Sunder never pays back. Champak seemingly dislikes him as well but never voices them . Maybe he would if he knew about the fact that Sunder never pays back .

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u/tipputappi — 2 days ago

How do I (24F) deal with my parents (55M and 54F) who are generally really racist ?

We are Indian to start of with. so idk how to explain it in blunter terms , my parents are pretty racist. They would always tell me to stay away from "Thugs" in subway, road etc ( usually thug referred to black guys). I don't know how my father befriended them, but a few months ago, he made a lot of new friends at his workplace in the south (Baptist folks, who can be really racist). They send him 'memes' and stuff, most of which feature black guys stealing, being 'fatherless,' etc. You get the idea about the kinda guys he hangs out with.

They are also pretty xenophobic towards a lot of south asian ethnicities ( and muslims in general ofc) .They also find queers "mentally ill" (thanks newsmax and foxnews) It wont be that surprising that still vote dem though. They like other asian though apparently Chinese , Vietnamese , Japanese etc are "really good hardworking ppl" .

its like they cant see most of the world without any generalisation ffs.

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u/tipputappi — 4 days ago

How do you actually deal with really racist parents ?

We are Indian to start of with. so idk how to explain it in blunter terms , my parents are pretty racist. They would always tell me to stay away from "Thugs" in subway, road etc ( usually thug referred to black guys). I don't know how my father befriended them, but a few months ago, he made a lot of new friends at his workplace in Texas (Baptist folks, who can be really racist). They send him 'memes' and stuff, most of which feature black guys stealing, being 'fatherless,' etc

They are also pretty xenophobic towards a lot of south asian ethnicities ( and muslims in general ofc) .They also find queers "mentally ill" (thanks newsmax and fonews) It wont be that surprising that still vote dem though. They like other asian though apparently Chinese , Vietnamese , Japanese etc are "really good hardworking ppl" .

its like they cant see most of the world without any generalisation ffs.

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u/tipputappi — 4 days ago

How do I deal with really racist parents ?

We are Indian to start of with. so idk how to explain it in blunter terms , my parents are pretty racist. They would always tell me to stay away from "Thugs" in subway, road etc ( usually thug referred to black guys). I don't know how my father befriended them, but a few months ago, he made a lot of new friends at his workplace in Texas (Baptist folks, who can be really racist). They send him 'memes' and stuff, most of which feature black guys stealing, being 'fatherless,' etc

They are also pretty xenophobic towards a lot of south asian ethnicities ( and muslims in general ofc) .They also find queers "mentally ill" (thanks newsmax and fonews) It wont be that surprising that still vote dem though. They like other asian though apparently Chinese , Vietnamese , Japanese etc are "really good hardworking ppl" .

its like they cant see most of the world without any generalisation ffs.

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u/tipputappi — 4 days ago

what values do you look for in a potential partner ?

I know cultural proximity is an answer but what does it mean for you ? If you are religious then do you want someone from the same branch like orthodox/catholic etc ? Is not having similar political opinions a deal breaker for you ?

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u/tipputappi — 4 days ago

what values do you look for in a potential partner ?

I know cultural proximity is an answer but what does it mean for you ? If you are religious then do you want someone from the same branch like orthodox/catholic etc ? Is not having similar political opinions a deal breaker for you ?

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u/tipputappi — 4 days ago

If you had to marry from someone not your country then what values would you look for in them ?

I know cultural proximity is an answer but what does it mean for you ? If you are religious then do you want someone from the same branch like orthodox/catholic etc ? Is not having similar political opinions a deal breaker for you ?

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u/tipputappi — 4 days ago
▲ 24 r/AITAH

AITAH for banning men from our bookclub ?

I know this sounds wrong but hear me out. I am a member of a book club and we often meet together and each read whatever we want , take a pic or so later and then post it on the club's ig page. Its supposed to get readers to join and make friends that way.

Lately though as the page has started getting a few followers and our events seem to get a bunch of men everyweek that often just try to start conversations with the women present , ofc not all of them are creepy but we have a weirdo every alternate week or so. Me and some of the other older members also noticed that because of this , the amount of new women showing up has reduced as well. Earlier we'd get a new woman or two everyweek but now its not that certain.

Some of the other compromises suggested where making ppl apply on a website we build but I convinced others that its a lot of work to maintain and approve applications so I talked to the existing men present ( about 12/13 of them) if they were cool with segregating and most agreed. So we made 2 smaller clubs inside the main one and now men are banned from the women's section but women may interact with the men in their section since most men didnt mind it.

One particular guy though told me that I was being very stuck up and inconsiderate since its normal for ppl to seek out friendships and that may be across sexes. I mean Idk thats probaly true but I dont think going back to the status quo is the right idea. So AITAH ?

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u/tipputappi — 11 days ago

To what extent are gender roles present in your country ?

So do young men these days learn to cook ? did your father help around the house ? if yes was it common ? Are boys still given a pass for being shitty because "boys will be boys" . Did you face or see any sexism in schools ? if you have a sibling of opposite sex was he/she treated differently ? if you are a older sibling and a girl, were you supposed to be "second mother " to your sibling ? Ofc I would like to hear more than just these questions if any. Thanks a lot.

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u/tipputappi — 11 days ago

To what extent did gender roles impact you growing up ?

So do young men these days learn to cook ? did your father help around the house ? if yes was it common ? Are boys still given a pass for being shitty because "boys will be boys" . Did you face or see any sexism in schools ? if you have a sibling of opposite sex was he/she treated differently ? if you are a older sibling and a girl, were you supposed to be "second mother " to your sibling ? Ofc I would like to hear more than just these questions if any. Thanks a lot.

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u/tipputappi — 11 days ago

whats the best way I(23F) can tell my friend(23F) that I cant matchmake her ?

I have a friend who I am somewhat close with, she has been looking for a bf for a bit and I know a guy who she thinks might make a good partner for her. I am not very close with him since he is a coworker but I do know that he is also single and might get along well with her. I did "introduce" them on Ig but she has been asking me if its possible for me to take her along on a next social event at work.

I can ofc do that since ppl apparently do bring their friends along ( this would be my only second event there since I recently got that job) but I am honestly not sure if I should get that involved. They can text on ig and meet outside since I think the guy is also interested ( I didnt tell him that "look this is my friend, she is single hit her up" but rather just asked him if he would like to hang out with her and maybe he also expects to fr meet her since he also asked me twice when are the plans due ? idt he is looking for platonic friend here anyway since he has many of them and also looking for a date )

They are both nice ppl but I honestly feel me introducing them and stuff involves me in the drama and I want to be very lowkey at work. So I told her that no Idt she can come with me for the event, she said that its difficult to emotionally connect with a person on ig and asked me if I could maybe host a small party outside and invite him as well . I thought about it but again , I dont want to be that involved and friendly at work so I told her that I woulnt do it and she seems to be kinda hurt by it. she didnt say anything about it since and feign normalcy but seems kinda distant now. I really want to help her and would love for her in a relationship but I am not sure how

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u/tipputappi — 14 days ago
▲ 9 r/AITAH

AITAH for not matchmaking my friend ?

I have a friend who I am somewhat close with, she has been looking for a bf for a bit and I know a guy who she thinks might make a good partner for her. I am not very close with him since he is a coworker but I do know that he is also single and might get along well with her. I did "introduce" them on Ig but she has been asking me if its possible for me to take her along on a next social event at work.

I can ofc do that since ppl apparently do bring their friends along ( this would be my only second event there since I recently got that job) but I am honestly not sure if I should get that involved. They can text on ig and meet outside since I think the guy is also interested ( I didnt tell him that "look this is my friend, she is single hit her up" but rather just asked him if he would like to hang out with her and maybe he also expects to fr meet her since he also asked me twice when are the plans due ? idt he is looking for platonic friend here anyway since he has many of them and also looking for a date )

They are both nice ppl but I honestly feel me introducing them and stuff involves me in the drama and I want to be very lowkey at work. So I told her that no Idt she can come with me for the event, she said that its difficult to emotionally connect with a person on ig and asked me if I could maybe host a small party outside and invite him as well . I thought about it but again , I dont want to be that involved and friendly at work so I told her that I woulnt do it and she seems to be kinda hurt by it. she didnt say anything about it since and feign normalcy but seems kinda distant now so thats making me like TA.

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u/tipputappi — 15 days ago

AITA for not matchmaking my friend ?

I have a friend who I am somewhat close with, she has been looking for a bf for a bit and I know a guy who she thinks might make a good partner for her. I am not very close with him since he is a coworker but I do know that he is also single and might get along well with her. I did "introduce" them on Ig but she has been asking me if its possible for me to take her along on a next social event at work.

I can ofc do that since ppl apparently do bring their friends along ( this would be my only second event there since I recently got that job) but I am honestly not sure if I should get that involved. They can text on ig and meet outside since I think the guy is also interested ( I didnt tell him that "look this is my friend, she is single hit her up" but rather just asked him if he would like to hang out with her and maybe he also expects to fr meet her since he also asked me twice when are the plans due ? idt he is looking for platonic friend here anyway since he has many of them and also looking for a date )

They are both nice ppl but I honestly feel me introducing them and stuff involves me in the drama and I want to be very lowkey at work. So I told her that no Idt she can come with me for the event, she said that its difficult to emotionally connect with a person on ig and asked me if I could maybe host a small party outside and invite him as well . I thought about it but again , I dont want to be that involved and friendly at work so I told her that I woulnt do it and she seems to be kinda hurt by it. she didnt say anything about it since and feign normalcy but seems kinda distant now so thats making me like TA.

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u/tipputappi — 15 days ago

whats currently the best free ai to "write "stories ?

I used to like claude since I would prompt a scenario and it would write a chapter with it , I would read it and then prompt new chapter based on where I want the story to go, it was good enough but I have grown tired of its writing style and plot points. Is there a better ai to do this ?

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u/tipputappi — 29 days ago

whats currently the best free ai to "write "stories ?

I used to like claude since I would prompt a scenario and it would write a chapter with it , I would read it and then prompt new chapter based on where I want the story to go, it was good enough but I have grown tired of its writing style and plot points. Is there a better ai to do this ?

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u/tipputappi — 29 days ago
▲ 11 r/ChatGPT

whats currently the best free ai to "write "stories ?

I used to like claude since I would prompt a scenario and it would write a chapter with it , I would read it and then prompt new chapter based on where I want the story to go, it was good enough but I have grown tired of its writing style and plot points. Is there a better ai to do this ?

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u/tipputappi — 29 days ago

A lot of straight men suddenly understand women’s fears when they are in a similar situation .

One of the most interesting things I’ve noticed is how some straight men suddenly become extremely cautious around a male friend after he comes out as gay.

"what if he is a creep and just assaults/molests me" .
“What if he crosses boundaries?”

And it’s funny in a darkly ironic way because women have been explaining this exact feeling around men forever.

For a lot of guys, empathy suddenly installs itself the moment they imagine themselves on the receiving end of unwanted male attention.

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u/tipputappi — 1 month ago

For those of you Trans , how often do you face discrimination IRL ?

The anti trans rhetoric is on a all time high atm so its natural that some of it seeps irl as well. Have any of you faced issues recently ? Did it end well ? If you are comfortable sharing then which state ( if in US) or country was it ?

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u/tipputappi — 1 month ago