Lex the lesbian hookup app & ghosting
Hey guys so Im on Lex and Ive had good bad the ugly all the mix but at this present time it seems like im attracting weird energy. At first I chopped it up to it being just the woes of online dating but now its like starting to become a pattern I notice.
Ill make a few posts and have mad people hmu (not mad people but people lol) and some of them are weird, could either be good or bad
one thing in particular ive noticed is people hitting me up and we converse and then they go ghost. That part is the norm for most people but its not just that, these same people will hit me up, ask me to hang, and then go ghost after ive responded with a yes and its driving me insane its like im bein plotted against but I know thats simply not the case but I just cant help but be confused by this and ask why? why do people do this on lex? I dont understand it.
al I want is community and it just feels like im never going to get that no matter how much effort I put in being either the person to make the first move or reciprocate the mutual effort
how do I just stop letting this stuff bother me? I simply dont want to be "nonchalant" or act like these things are above as its not in me to do so, I sincerely want to build friendships with people but it just feels like nowadays you gotta get thru hoop of keeping someone interested even tho they reach out first and I feel so exhausted from being the one in this position all the time