u/AdditionalQuietime

Lex the lesbian hookup app & ghosting

Hey guys so Im on Lex and Ive had good bad the ugly all the mix but at this present time it seems like im attracting weird energy. At first I chopped it up to it being just the woes of online dating but now its like starting to become a pattern I notice.

Ill make a few posts and have mad people hmu (not mad people but people lol) and some of them are weird, could either be good or bad

one thing in particular ive noticed is people hitting me up and we converse and then they go ghost. That part is the norm for most people but its not just that, these same people will hit me up, ask me to hang, and then go ghost after ive responded with a yes and its driving me insane its like im bein plotted against but I know thats simply not the case but I just cant help but be confused by this and ask why? why do people do this on lex? I dont understand it.

al I want is community and it just feels like im never going to get that no matter how much effort I put in being either the person to make the first move or reciprocate the mutual effort

how do I just stop letting this stuff bother me? I simply dont want to be "nonchalant" or act like these things are above as its not in me to do so, I sincerely want to build friendships with people but it just feels like nowadays you gotta get thru hoop of keeping someone interested even tho they reach out first and I feel so exhausted from being the one in this position all the time

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u/AdditionalQuietime — 1 day ago

stayn cool

**🥵 HOW TO BEAT THE HEAT 🥵**

hey b!tches! what are some ways yall are tryna beat the heat? saw this and had the biggest laugh to myself, if this pic doesn't sum up the mood of the past few days idk what does lmaooo

but no what are some tips yall do to stay cool? deadass even if it's ya great great great grannies ancient lemonade recipe, please do share 🙌🏿👀

u/AdditionalQuietime — 1 day ago
▲ 967 r/QueerLeftists+1 crossposts

Complaints Against A Data Center Are Being Paywalled In Utah And There Is No Way These Systems Are Just For Consumer AI, What The Hell Are They Building?

u/AdditionalQuietime — 5 days ago
▲ 2.2k r/popculturechat+2 crossposts

Will Ferrell as the ghost of Jeffrey Epstein pays Trump a visit in SNL season finale's cold opening: "You know, this time, I'm gonna leave YOU hanging"

u/AdditionalQuietime — 5 days ago

Anti-Black while using Black Aesthetics, can't get any more American than this

If this doesn't piss you off then props to you. The anger I feel isnt extreme but its incredibly difficult to not feel something while looking at this and reckoning with the current collapse thats unfolding within the American imperial core, and abroad.

Just recently they just put out statement saying they will kill and target any dissidents. Concentration Camps in our own backyard, everyone numb asf just trying to survive every day, day by day, I truly wonder what itll take for the American people to rise up but Im anxious for what this would look like for black people, black americans in large overall

tell me im not alone with watching this craziness unfold, how do you guys feel with everything happening?

u/AdditionalQuietime — 7 days ago
▲ 308 r/AskNYC

why is the r/nyc sub always a conservative hotbed?

im constantly seeing the most right wing takes dropped in the comments, people who arent from there or no longer live here crowding to give some shit brain fox news take on nyc. People arguing over each other to cry about shitty nyc is, but also the racism and Islamophobia is on ten. Constantly seeing posts from the NY POST which is an openly far right news source, owned by Oligarch Murdoch, and people actually take the post seriously on there sometimes! the occasional person points out how shitty the Post is and arguments start breaking out.

Its just weird how the main sub for nyc is such a far right diarrhea cesspool for conservatives to chime in on how Mamdani is going to ruin NYC (despite them saying this for years in regards to whomever is in charge) but now its like thats all one can expect from that sub? what tf happened? it went from mildly purple to seeing red damn near...

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u/AdditionalQuietime — 8 days ago
▲ 907 r/TankieTheDeprogram+1 crossposts

A 10-year-old wrote a letter about climate change and electric vehicles as part of a school homework assignment. The response from Representative Virginia Foxx (North Carolina) was pure bitterness.

A member of Congress someone entrusted with leadership, professionalism, and public service chose to treat a fourth grader’s curiosity as an opportunity for political grandstanding. Regardless of anyone’s opinions on EVs, climate policy, or energy infrastructure, there is something deeply inappropriate about an adult politician speaking to a child with open contempt simply because the child expressed concern for the future.

Virginia Foxx has received campaign contributions connected to oil and gas interests throughout her political career. That does not prove corruption on its own, but it absolutely helps explain why a child innocently discusses climate change and electric vehicles was treated like a political opponent instead of a child.

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u/AR_PizzaParty1985 — 7 days ago
▲ 385 r/nyc+1 crossposts

The Bezos family just donated $100 million to help achieve one of Mayor Zohran Mamdani’s top campaign promises

It’s a rare instance of cooperation between one of Wall Street’s favorite charities and a democratic socialist mayor who once said he didn’t believe billionaires should exist.

Robin Hood, one of New York’s largest charitable organizations—and one of Wall Street’s favorites—announced it had received a $100 million gift from the Bezos family, the parents of billionaire Amazon founder Jeff Bezos.

The donation establishes the Jackie Bezos Endowment for Early Childhood, which will prioritize funding for education and early childhood development. It includes a pledge of an additional $25 million, subject to a match, for a total of $150 million. Jackie Bezos, Jeff Bezos’s mother, is a former board member of Robin Hood.

The donation goes to a cause New York City Mayor Zohran Mamdani has long advocated for: expanded childhood education. After campaigning on the issue throughout the Democratic primary and into the general election last year, the mayor announced last month that 2-K programming, free early care, and education starting at age 2, would be free and universally accessible year-round.

Read more [paywall removed for Redditors]: https://fortune.com/2026/05/12/bezos-family-donation-child-care-zohran-mamdani/?utm_source=reddit/

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u/AdditionalQuietime — 8 days ago

Sino-Soviet Split

so whats your take on this? I think its interesting considering China now has to take the realm of maintaing a peaceful stance while also flexing muscle as the evolved super power replacing the USSR, all while remaining true to Marxist Leninism. Looking to learn more on this subject from you guys

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u/AdditionalQuietime — 9 days ago

but she left comms open, im not blocked I sent her mad texts last week asking to talk and she simply ignored me

I told her my pisces ex did the exact same thing to me and she doing it to me now

ima gemini sun she a cap sun she didnt even wanna talk openly or anything just broke everything off thru text it really hurts and I dont know how to move on is this really the end?

she brought me around her job her home her friends everything and then im just dumped like this it really hurts

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u/AdditionalQuietime — 16 days ago

whay are compatible signs for me? my Venus is Taurus and my mars is gemini! help! just got done w a Capricorn and it was a mess on both of our ends but I feel like I took more accountability and responsibility for the mess

this the 3rd Capricorn who just...sucked but I stuck it out because they're consistent but not even really

im just at a loss rn who is really for me? I want stability no games, what signs would be compatible for me

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u/AdditionalQuietime — 16 days ago