u/Altruistic_Froyo_174

I’ve always wanted to be an engineer, but now i don’t know if it was what i want or just my delusions and influenced by films.
I took commerce in school due to family pressure to become a ca but i hated accounting and all of it, so i quit it after one year.
Then i did bca. But my mental state never let me truly accept it so i did the bare minimum and just floated through it.
I think my brain is better suited to learn theory and such subjects. But i don’t hate computer science either.

I’m at crossroads and i truly don’t know what to choose now.
I have the option to choose law at a local college here in my town, or do an mca from a private uni in Mumbai.NMIMS. It’s a pretty good college compared to what i have in other options.
Even if i want to do an MBA later, the brand name should help i believe.

But the only thing I’m worried about is what should i actually choose?
I’ve tried to measure both of them against each other and I’ve tried every possible way to determine my choices. Still can’t decide on one.

Also, i really don’t want to get in government jobs as i don’t like the system in that at all.

What do i do now? I have only 2 days as the college applications will close then.

Myquals

Does anyone know if there’s even gonna be one?

They're asking for an id verification now. And guess what. I did upload my aadhar.

Now i feel stupid that i shouldn't have.

Can aadhar really be misused?

So he said In his bio that he wanted a girl who obeys him and i joked, "do you want a girl or a slave?"

Now I'm banned.

I even tried to appeal and apologize honestly but it seems they're not even listening 😭

I can't even comprehend if i was wrong or just stupid.

I can’t get along with my father. My mother. My family relations are disturbed.
My friends are nonexistent. I have no one.
And my career isn’t even starting.
I applied to colleges. Still missed. Didn’t get the results i was expecting even in the previous college I had. Even after trying.
I desperately want education but it seems like it doesn’t want me.
What do i do?
I can’t even look at myself in the mirror.
Last year i tried to do the worst. I’m tired of living like this.
I’m truly in need of help. Please give me some advice.

So i don’t know why or what the reason was. But they banned me and i then i sent an appeal and that was rejected too. So.. can i be unbanned or not? 😭

Let’s keep the stakes similar. Both of them earn the same at this point. Both have prestige. Both look pretty. What now? Who will you choose to marry?

So i know the app itself is not serious. But i still feel so bad.
It hurts to be rejected like that. Come on man. He looked down on me just because he had studied abroad 😭

I’m not judging or anything but sometimes i feel like this is not fair. I look pretty decent myself and am a nice person.
Still no one approached me ever except some weird creeps. What do i do? 🥲

There’s people like me whose undergrad got ruined. So we want to do masters or phd or ms abroad in some great college.
But that can only happen after a long time now so to compensate for the bad past.
That would mean going at 25/28/30 even.
Do you guys think it’s worth it? Does it even have the same prestige or people still look at you like you didn’t achieve much in life?
And can such people actually go abroad at top 100 unis or its just a fever dream?

Looking for answers from people who are seniors and doing masters or such.

My_qualifications

So I’ve been wondering do normal people get to date doctors?

What if i want to date one when I’m not one myself? 🙃

Everyone wants to get in the MBA programs at IIM ABC, tier 1 colleges, get in consulting, finance roles, IB / PE. All that stuff.
These few days I’ve been wanting it too from seeing the immense prestige it gets.
But now that i think about it, it hurts to see immense bright talented people who could have contributed so much to the society by going in research, economics, maths, technology or even make their own startups and all those things run after placements.
And yes the mba tag helps but once you get in, you just automatically run after placements to pay off student loans and all that stuff so the startup idea gets buried somewhere
I do not know much about it so just asking out of curiosity.
What’s your take?

If an average profile gets in from a tier 3 college ug, is there any chance to land at mbb for consulting/IB roles?
Case comps, cgpa, dean’s merit list? Can they help you get in mbb if you don’t have a 9/9/9 profile and srcc ug?

What are the past life karma indications it means? Or what will the results be?

When I'm in a bad condition, the consultation also comes out negative. When i was better and before they said only great things. So i think predictions keep changing on your own time.

Is it?