u/AnimeXBoy88

So I was thinking recently, there's some cases out there of certain people who are perverted and derive pleasure from being killed and eaten. Such as that guy in germany or whatever or this lady in America, and probably countless others on weird forums. If you think about it really on a deep level, the only ethical things to eat on our earth is either fruits, since they want to be eaten for evolutionary reasons of spreading their seeds and whatnot, and people like that who want to be eaten. Vegetables also feel pain and don't want to be eaten either.

Now the question, why do those people derive such pleasure from being killed and eaten? Is it a genetic thing, an environmental thing, etc? Whatever it is, if we could reliably recreate those conditions for animals like cows or pigs or horse etc, we now have no ethical complication about it. Those animals quite literally now would love the idea of being killed and eaten now, and we can actually oblige them and the karma of our world would probably drastically go in our favor creating a better planet.

So I'm in San Diego does anyone know how to get into daggering in my local city scene? I'm a mid-late 20s middle class white guy I never been to a Jamaican dancehall here and I am honestly quite nervous if a lady tries to twerk all up on me and suplex her buttocks on me etc. And also on my end how to be confident enough to just dagger crazy style on a lady. Anyone here with some expertise to give me some tips? Also if they know any Jamaican style dancehalls with nice snacks like jerk chicken or rum and smokes etc. If not, any other events with a similar ethnic and urban flair where I can expect a similar kind of dancing happening on me?

So last night I was watching these Jamaican dancehall videos of this dancing called daggering and I was quite flabbergasted. A lot of crazy dancing but they had a lot of ethnic and urban flair, literally seeing people doing WWE off a ladder into one another. As I looked in my recommendations for more videos like these, I discovered a video of one of these dancehalls but in Ukraine. When I clicked on it I saw not one black person and all white people trying to do daggering as well. It looked wack. It just didn't hit the same.

But anyway to really get to the crux of it, I saw videos of black people dancing on IG reels doing this dance called a bend and they just looked so swaggy doing it. I tried to do it myself and I looked stiff, but with them even if they didn't do it right something about the way they moved their body around was more like cool and swag and loose? I don't know why they have this property but I'm interested in developing it as a mid-late 20s middle class white guy with a bit of mexican and emo/anime style.

Also as a sidenote I wonder if black people ever make similar observations about white people. Maybe not with swag or dancing but other things. Like the way they have emo swag or something.

100 grams of either to be exact

So to start off I've been binging the HELL out of the Sopranos lately. I just finished season 1 getting into season 2 (No Spoilers Please!). And when I watch Tony Soprano, I find that he's really a lot like me and relatable, and it's started transforming my aura too. Breathing heavily through my nose during convos, more imposing tone. People at work haven't said much yet but I can tell that they respect the boss-like energy.

Anyways, I've (28M) been seeing this therapist (38F) for four months because my parents got her for my "lack of direction". But I notice lately every time I drop some lore on her, she stares at me and writes in her notepad. Classic Dr. Melfi dynamic.

Last Tuesday I tried to test the waters, I leaned back, put my hands behind my head, and she got hit with "Yknow... A guy in my position, carryin' all dis weight... It's hard finding a woman who really gets the burden." She stopped writing and looked up at me and asked if I feel stress at my job or something. I just did the classic Tony Soprano smirk and said "Forget about it" the way he would.

She definitely felt the tension in the room, because after this she immediately scheduled for a friday afternoon. which is like prime weekend-adjacent time. Also asking if I am taking my prescribed meds, etc probing into my private life wanting to know more about me.

I think this is green and Im wondering here from you guys what play to deploy here for success?

So what I mean by low cortisol chad, is I was just watching a video on TikTok of clavicular talking to this girl who wants him so bad and is crying, and clavicular just does not give a fuck at all like he's so patrick bateman. You guys also know the like low cortisol logan paul memes and stuff? That's the vibe.

Maybe like ashwaganda or something is the way to achieve this? Or like peptides? Idk that's why I'm here asking. If anybody knows how to be more Patrick Bateman -like

Okay so off the jump, I get that this isn't exactly about the physical looks, but this is still under the looksmaxxing subculture, and it's the best subreddit i could find for this question.

So what I mean by low cortisol chad, is I was just watching a video on TikTok of clavicular talking to this girl who wants him so bad and is crying, and clavicular just does not give a fuck at all like he's so patrick bateman. You guys also know the like low cortisol logan paul memes and stuff? That's the vibe.

Maybe like ashwaganda or something is the way to achieve this? Or like peptides? Idk that's why I'm here asking. If anybody knows how to be more Patrick Bateman -like

I was watching UFC the other day, the first few episodes i actually see a lot of people wearing the gi, and doing like karate looking stuff. This was really cool and quite refreshing from watching MMA nowadays, as its now devolved into something much more single tracked rather than experimental.

I'm sure that most of us here grew up on bruce lee movies and saw just how cool that stuff was. Could you imagine if MMA evolved and found a more effective form that looks almost like anime-like or has an oriental flair? I do like seeing capoeira related fighters too as also you can tell in their fighting style there's a nice urban and ethnic flair to it.

Idk just I wish MMA would start looking cooler and more badass karate style

When I was in middle school I was anticipating that in high school and adult life I would get to have food fights. Around the time I was a sophomore is when I was disappointed that they weren't a bigger part of my life. In the first 2 years of high school I actually kept a ziploc bag of eggs in my lunchbox, and sometimes would get extra food at hot lunch. Nothing crazy but just a little bit of insurance in case.

It never happened once to me, maybe once or twice at some other kids tables did they throw a fry or something at eachother nothing as cool a snowball made of mashed potatoes etc. It feels kind of like this was a media hoax and we were lied to.

So recently I've been listening to a lot of pluggnb and I've recently noticed that a lot of samples they use in plug nb are samples from like mafia movies for example Scarface 1983 where Tony Soprano says "fuck you man! who put this shit together man, me!" kind of stuff and it got me wondering what are some other pluggnb samples that are typically Mafia/mob style movies with an urban & ethnic flare?

Doesnt even need to be mafia style it could be any type of movie (action, racing, Anime/Manga.

So I was playing GTA 5 the other day, cycling between the characters on free roam. I landed on Franklin, and found that I really enjoyed how he's ethnic and cool and urban and spicy. I realized this kind of cool urban swagger is pretty missing from video games nowadays, and so I've decided I want to incorporate more of this into my gaming experience.

So far I've been playing music with an ethnic and urban flair on my amazon echo such as bbno$ or J Cole or Latina music while gaming. Also I've considered getting Watch Dogs 2 because the main character is also quite ethnic and urban but with a tech-savvy swagger which I find quite refreshing.

If anybody has any suggestions on how to immerse myself in The Culture more, such as stickers, music, rgb color scheme, games, etc, let me know. I'm always open!

To summarize, my (28M) girlfriend of 2 years (18F) and I were relaxing last night and in my bed when she brought up that my \*area\* doesn't taste like other guys, seemingly out of the blue. I thought that was kinda weird but I brushed it off. Later that night after using the washroom she (18F) decided to give me fellatio. She said something along the lines of "THERE! That's the taste!" I was kind of confused but she asked me if I wiped my tip after I use the washroom and I said something similar to "No? Do i look like a foid too you?" Not only did she get mad because I don't wipe like i'm a girl or something, she asked why don't I even shake it or anything, and she took great offense to me using the term "foid" which imo is pretty silly.

So for background, i'm a mid-late 20s middle class white guy with a little bit of mexican, from British Columbia Canada. I've been going to this strip club on and off for the past 3 months and I've been building rapport with one of the ladies, and I know it's stupid and you guys probably will think this is dumb but I lowkey we've been building a connection and Im starting to think she likes me too. I've noticed she has more of a gothic/alt/emo kind of style and i'm more normal but with some gamer kind of elements (my hair looks kind of like a anime or something lol 😅). Basically I'm wondering if anybody has tips on style, socializing, and my appearance so she will like me better. This is also a safe space to toss in your own 2 cents about how you guys socialize, but i'll say mine.

So to start, I mostly dress down, but I've been listening to some emo music and have been feeling inspired by like XXXTentacion / ScarLxrd / Techwear type style. I know she would be into that too, so i'm going full balls in, and thinking of getting a wallet chain, possibly even snakebite piercings which she would be impressed by. Previously I bought this expensive pair of Prada shades which look sort of American Psycho vibes, before I ever went to the strip club because I wanted to make a good first impression. I also was watching this music video called Betrayed by Lil Xan, and his face tats were really inspiring and I hope one day to sort of give the vibe off that he was giving in that music video by getting some ink of my own.

Lately I've been playing a lot of this game called VRChat, and they have strip clubs in that. I've been practicing my social skills there, but after a few sessions, I try to go to a real strip club, and it just doesn't transfer over. What does transfer quite well is I practice on the vrchat ones by trying to understand the inner workings on their mind and picking their brain. But in person I still feel nervous and fidgety, and it throws me off a lot especially seeing all the sexual stuff is really distracting my train of thought.

Last time I was at the real strip club, I signalled her and purchased a lapdance. We started off the dance but after a bit I decided to chat her up and talked about some of my interests like skateboarding or riding motorbikes, which would make her think I'm cool. I think she did think it was quite cool too and asked me more about it and smiled and told me "Oh that's really cool." I think maybe now is my time to strike while the iron is hot? I have seen before in the grapevine that with some guys they can just go to the strip club, buy a lapdance, and during the lapdance they either hold the strippers waist and butt and whatnot while the bouncers not looking while saying flirty things, and while the bouncer is looking to not do it so they don't get kicked out, and this results in them getting that strippers number? I just want to check in here to see if that's cool
or not or if that's what i should begin doing next time i order her.

Anyways thanks reddit feel free to post your own advice or tips!

Hey guys, I finally made it, my lifelong dream for the last 4 years has always been to visit Chicago.

To preface this i'm a mid-late 20s middle class white guy with a little bit of mexican in him who likes things like anime, manga, etc. But for the past few years Ive been a big fan of chicago drill such as Chief Keef, Bloodhound Lil Jeff, King Von, Rondo, and basically every other drill artist from here. After all these years I think I'm finally ready to immerse myself in the lifestyle.

I don't really want to do stuff like eat deep dish pizza, I'm interested in meeting some cool urban street dudes who I can "check-in" with and have them take me under their wing for a few days. Nothing crazy, just trying to experience the raw authentic drill lifestyle before I fly home next Sunday. Does anyone know what neighborhoods I should frequent and ask around to meet people like this?

I'm also wondering if it would be weird if I were to carry a JBL around playing drill music so they know that I'm tapped in? I packed in my luggage some Amiri jeans and a fitted cap specifically for the trip too so it can help me fit in. Also how long does it take before locals start giving you a nickname? I always thought earning one would be cooler than giving one to myself

Thanks guys. Really looking forward to finally experiencing the culture.

So to preface this I am a middle class white male, recently ive been listening to a lot of drill style music (King von, Bloodhound Lil Jeff, Q50, Chief keef, Rondonumbanine, etc) in preparation for my vacation/trip to chiraq in the later end of this month and have become increasingly nervous/concerned about the potential of getting "Broad day'd" or getting caught in the crossfire and hit with a stray in my spine while walking outside.

Especially considering some lyrics where rappers are explicitly targeting or celebrating the intentional killing of civilian bystandanders, I love listening to this raw, agressive style of music but whenever I listen to it I cant lie I get a little scared/nervous because I dont want to die

I've considered buying a bulletproof vest but am worried wearing one in the hood would make me a walking lick or a target for police officers,

Do any Chiraq natives on this sub have any tips/tricks for staying safe outside?

I notice this often in Reddit a lot when I ask questions about what's socially acceptable at a strip club, the comments berate me, if I show off that the type of girls I'm into are more heavy set people also berate me. Meanwhile on the rest of the site, I see plenty of people openly talking about getting with strippers and etc which is a lot worse than what i was asking which is how to make them think you're cool. You would think this means people go after them more but no, people think they're all charismatic. With me I'm more easy pickings they just like to go for my low hanging fruit.

Not to mention whenever i make posts about myself or my life, these rude guys in the comments will make snarky remarks and girls suddenly are in their replies agreeing with them and being all flirtatious. meanwhile girls in my comments are never like wow you're so cool wow im interesting in you etc. They are repulsed by a guy who's being himself.

I'm wondering why this is? Is there a way I can transform myself into more of the desirable mysterious nonchalant type and start getting more upvotes than downvotes? Let me know and my profile is public so you guys can see what I'm talking about if you want to give me a case by case kinda education thing.