u/BitLow2662

I noticed that I’m impatient with everything- I don’t even enjoy spending time on my hobbies anymore because it feels like it takes too long.

I’m going back to college soon and worried about not being able to study well or I will give up too easily because I feel overwhelmed or impatient with the coursework.

What am I experiencing here?

I'm majoring in Nutrition. Some subjects have only essay assignments.

In these cases, do you still use active recall methods to learn the content?

I'm thinking about applying to this course. I really want HD's as I'm applying to med.

I didn't get into biomed so I looked for alternative courses and found you can major in biomedical science in health science!

Could you please share tips on how you got a good score or maintained a good score in Bachelor of Health Science?

Thank you

The last time I drew something was early this year, and now I just feel too exhausted to draw.

I feel like I’m trying to be perfect in a sense when I’m drawing, and I can’t let myself doodle for enjoyment.

I have new goals now like going back to school, and I feel like I’ll have very little time to draw.

When I draw I feel like rushing it. I just feel like doing some big strokes and call it a day. I have zero patience with art these days. Why?

I feel so frustrated.

Is it possible to do four subjects within one trimester? What is the normal load?

Thanks

Could you please talk about your experience studying this degree,

what the teachers are like, and

what your cohort is like?

Thank you!

How do you get HDs in your subjects?

How do you do well in labs?

Is there a lot to learn and cram in the weekly lectures? Do you go to all of them?

What has your experiences been like for group assessments, oral assessments and live debate discussions in Bachelor of Arts?

I stuffed up my VCE by not taking art and design.

Now I want to switch out of my current degree and I don’t know if I want to do Fine Art or Graphic Design.

There’s a Cert IV in Design but only Diploma for Visual Art.

How do I know which one I want to do?

I’m 30F, my bf is 30M. We are in the early stages of dating.

I’m looking to go back to school, and I don’t know if I should aim for med school or if I want to eventually start a family with my new bf. We are both quite serious and date with an intent to marry.

It’s my first relationship.

If I want to aim for med school, there are certain subjects I have to take. If I don’t aim for med school, then I can study any bachelors. If I get into med school, there is a high chance that I will relocate.

I know people have had kids through their studies, going through residency, but I don’t know if I’ll be able to do that.

I was sick for the majority of my twenties and currently on disability pension. My bf has a stable career. He’s happy to look after me even if I don’t work.

I haven’t talked to him about this, since I want to get to know him as a person rather than interrogating him for answers. I would also like to hear perspectives from people in successful and healthy relationships and what they would do in my place.

How do I go about choosing what bachelors to study?

How do I know I’m not losing myself in a relationship?

All the people around me that had kids, were quite frankly, bullies.

I don’t want to raise children in such an environment.

I wonder what goes on in their heads. “Hey I need attention, I should make a kid!”

I had an audition today and next door was this drummer just drumming, and he started tuning a snare with the door open.

The interviewer apologised for the loudness, and I said 'it's ok' out of being polite.

Is this a test to see how deaf you are or something?

Was that drummer playing normally or was he playing extra loud and I'm just not used to it? My ear did hurt after...

Also, I have this really bad habit of not saying what I think and getting all shy about it. I don't know if today I got overwhelmed by the drumming, but instead of saying 'Hey, I practice a variety of songs, I'm versatile'- I said 'My teacher told me I'm versatile'.

How do I get better at getting myself out?

And it was to protect an employee who assaulted me.

They claimed I made it up.

There was a court case about it.

But all they got was a slap on the wrist and made everyone quit. Some were promoted depending on what they did.

That's all I have to say about it.

I've seen a lot of therapists. I just feel like I didn't get what I think is in a healthy talk therapy session.

My view of therapy is that they ask you questions, you answer them, then they find something and challenge your perspective to help you.

My sessions have been me talking and crying, which does more harm, or they want to do therapy on a specific model that doesn't help me, or they're judgmental and it becomes gossip for them and I don't learn anything.

Does anyone else feel this way?

After 30 years I finally realised she was never happy for me nor wanted anything good to happen in my life.

She always discourages me in anything I do, compares me to other people and ask me why I can't be like that, then tells me I'm good for nothing, can't do anything well, etc.

She single handedly destroyed me and my dad's career and now my younger sibling is a gaming addict.

I really try to understand her and mend my relationship and perspective of her.

But honestly it's just been a gut punch after gut punch.

Oh and it's so wonderful because I'm now disabled from a work injury so I'm basically stuck with her.

I should have ran away when I was 15 and first noticed that my parents don't give a two shit about me.

Oh and I also realised all those mean comments she says about me, she's actually projecting how she feels about herself.

Thanks for ruining my life! Literally! No wonder why I have so much trouble making friends, just trying to work at my job without being bullied or assaulted, or go to class without being harassed by my classmates!

My neighbors are one of those 'we love to show off and be the normal keeping up with the kardashians' type of people.

They had been going around gossiping with other neighbors, meanwhile, they have no manners, turn up to my place unannounced, want frequent contact for no reason and they don't train their dog, who barks all the time.

I've been very cordial to them and following neighbor regulations. Well, I've had it, and decided I will gladly make their wish come true.

I've been acting like a crazy dog, well more like their crazy dog, and it's so funny to watch them asking 'What the hell is going on', 'Is it us?' (And their answer is usually 'Can't be, we're perfect, it's someone else'.

Gosh it's hilarious.

I'm attending a PTSD therapy group. I was assaulted at work.

We share our experiences, what happened, and go through exercises.

I've heard a lot of horror stories where the perp doesn't think it's their fault, or they take a route of I'm now a changed person and flaunt it everywhere.

It seems like crime happens everywhere, the law just doesn't cover it.

For my specific incident, there were laws made as a result and the criminals still didn't get prosecuted.

Does spirituality or karma even exist. I always tried my best in being a good person, and I haven't seen any 'physical' rewards.

I don't get it.

Do you think people get away with their crimes?

I'm looking to change careers.

I would like a career that would allow me to take 2-3 trips per year, each trip lasting 2-3 weeks. If I can take more trips that would be great.

I would prefer not to do night shifts, as I've been there before and it was unpleasant.

Thank you

There was a woman struggling into her purse for a trolley coin.

I happened to see one as I took my trolley out. I gave it to her, she said thanks and I went my way.

Later, a staff member came over to me to ask me to return their trolley coin because they saw me take it. I put my own in.

I said I didn't take anything.

I don't even call this petty. This is crazy behaviour.