u/Designer-Bid-3155

I'm not sure if this is a thing you can do... some subs have had the people they're about, come on and do Q /A . Like musicians.... My sub is related to a book series and we're cozy and happy in our queer universe. Should the Author ever want to pop in and talk with the sub, things could go sideways real fast considering the tv series subs have hundreds of thousands of fans. I don't want our bubble to be disturbed. Obviously this will likely never happen. I'm just curious how that would work and how we could protect our space from being infiltrated with non book fans. Sorry if this is the dumbest shit ever.

I've been permanently banned from a few subs in my day, I first get a... you're banned.... messege, that says please contact us to talk about this, then immediately receive a permanent muted from responding. This has occurred with every ban I've received.... is this against reddit rules for mods?

If we ban people from our subs, can we immediately mute them so they can't respond? Or will we be breaking a reddit mod rule? 🤔

I've never felt unsafe at a rock concert, I've been to hundreds of shows. Rockers self police. Everyone looks out for one another. Last night an unhinged man was trying to touch my girlfriend and asking me to bring her back to his place to fuck... he kept ruining his mouth and started touching my body. I went to find security, they were not identified by anything except a radio in a dark, loud venue. One said he couldn't help me, I went to him twice. It took me over 30 minutes to get security to help. This man was touching women for over 30 minutes before security got ahold of him. Not ONE man attending that venue spoke up. Not ONE man decided to intervene.... after desperately trying to get help, that son of a bitch was in front of my girlfriend AGAIN. I grabbed that motherfucker by the shirt and dragged his ass toward security. Not one person in that venue could be bothered. He grabbed me back and finally he was brought to the door. It took over ONE FUCKING HOUR to remove this POS. After assaulting multiple women..... everyone there, EVERY man in the venue was totally fucking useless. They all allowed the women they were with to be sexually assaulted without saying a word to the offender. No one wanted to be confrontational..... The whole lot, a bunch of fucking useless sacs.... The only time I'm without weapons is at concerts. I would have enjoyed unloading a container of pepper spray in that pos eyes....

Our personalities are a huge draw, but having the look factor is like winning the lottery. I'm curious if we're a good looking bunch.