Navigating life as a woman being divorced
Got married to a completely avoidant who I was hopelessly in love with. Got divorce threats 2 weeks into the marriage until they became a daily occurrence. I was devastated because i was ride or die i thought like everyone else i got married this is my person i spend my life with him. He told his mom everything about me and she made my life miserable too i only got to spend 3 months with him post marriage before he went back to Canada with the the parents never applied for my visa. I waited 7 months at my parents house finally he moved to Dubai i went to be with him on a visit visa because again didnt sponsor me because guess what no financial anything from him the entire marriage. Lived at my sisters house with him for a month in Dubai as soon as he got his apartment divorce threats and once wr moved in 2.5 weeks later kicked me out for good and verbal divorce. That was April he is still doing the legal paperwork and talks shit about me to anyone who would listen while me and my family requested them to reconsider everything. I mean I am 35, he kept making me wait that we will have kids later and now divorcing me.
What’s pathetic is how depressed and hopeless I have been and still am and somehow I just keep praying that somehow Allah saves this even though I know he has no love or respect in his heart for me. But I married him man and honestly I never felt what a marriage is supposed to feel like or what having a husband feels like and now I am afraid I never might. What’s especially cruel is he knew how much I wanted to be a mother. Also that he blocked me everywhere and is ghosting my entire family.