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I’ll post a pic in the comments

Of course he does. I had a consult with this guy and he has a popular YouTube channel. I was shocked to see he encourages women to have anal sex with men and claims it feels good to women. I’m furious I paid for this. This is a surgeon who repairs anal fissures and other tears which are excruciating. Mine is from straining, not anal sex. But I was disgusted to read his replies to comments on his videos saying it feels good for women. He sounded like he was a dead person on the phone too. I wonder if he watches tons of pornography. He has that monotone voice that a lot of porn viewing men have.

Anyone seen her? Experiences?

Anyone seen her? Experiences?

I can’t sit down for that long. I’d have to take an uber and lie down in the back on my side. And I don’t know how I’ll do with the bumpiness of the road, starts and stops etc. I have just started to get a little relief from my meds and 24/7 heating pad.

Am I crazy to postpone this appointment? I’ve been trying to see another CRS that is closer but it’s taking a while with my insurance

At least for the foreseeable future as I’m in the u.s. and my Venus Mc line is in Perth Australia.
What would be fun or a good idea to buy, to get a little luck as far as improving my physical appearance?

I’m a Libra rising (with Pluto in Scorpio in the 1st house). Pisces sun, Leo moon. My self esteem is down in the dumps due to long term hormone issues that affect my appearance very negatively.
Thanks for all ideas 💡

I’m trying to figure out if a phone call I just had with a male nurse trying to input a referral was him just being an idiot, or actually combative. This is just an example and obviously not what I was asking him, but the conversation was like this:

Me: could you pass me the red pen?
Him: the blue pen?
Me: the red pen
Him: the purple pen?
Me: red
Him: the green pen?
Me: . . . Red one
Him: yellow one?
Me: Red…
Him: . . . black?

Eventually he went “oh. Red.” Then hung up.

I know it’s not a hit (or part of millennium), but it’s very catchy and fun to sing along to

My parent was in for 45 YEARS. Yet when I tell people they were an abusive jerk, people say “Some people need more time to grasp the program” or “They must not have done the work.” Don’t you think after going to meetings for 45 fucking years they would have gotten there? After 45 years of taking a class you’d pass the class at some point, right?! Do people hear themselves??

Did anyone go to this? The videos I’ve seen it looked nice and chill and Howie sounded great

Just watched an interview with a celebrity who is “sober” blah blah blah. The tv show host had his young daughters come out on stage to surprise him. The hosts asked the kids, “Are you proud of your dad?” Of course they say yes. Idk why but asking young kids if they’re “proud” of their parent rubs me the wrong way. I can understand an adult feeling proud of their parent for overcoming various challenges, but pressuring young kids to say stuff like that, especially in a “sober” situation just bothers me. It feels icky. Kids shouldn’t need to feel “proud” their dad chose to stop using drugs all day or too much alcohol all day, as this celebrity said he was doing. This is bare-minimum parenting that all kids deserve. You can best believe I never felt “proud” that my old timer dad chose not to be trashed all day when I was a kid. And I think I would have resented any adults who tried to make me feel like I should.

I have a cat that tries to get into everything, so I’ve had to be very careful about how and when I spray. I’ll spray a room with Raid ant killer which works, but then they’re back in a couple days. I don’t keep any food out. They’re even coming in to my bathroom medicine cabinet and going after trash cans that just have Kleenexes in there (tmi sorry) with no food. I swear I have ant PTSD at this point. What options are there?

“It’s a different plane” or “it’s just different energy” “it’s just a different dimension” “we are all made of energy and our souls don’t die“ “they haven’t died, it’s just as if they are in the next room” “we aren’t supposed to know” type explanations are bugging me. I understand that energy can transforms and all that. I also understand that no one living really knows for sure. But how can I have a reading with a medium and my dad comes through and says “I can breathe now. I just had to die in order to be able to breathe again.” He couldn’t breathe near the end of his life and he was really suffering. Now he can breathe. And how can my dad visit me (in a dream state)? He came into my house to visit in my dream- he used a key to get through the front door. I was sleeping in my dream and hearing the key in the door “woke me up”- my cat heard it too. Where is he coming from? Someone said the afterlife feels more “real and alive” than when they were alive. I like that idea better than others I’ve heard. I just want to understand the logistics and technicalities better. Any recommendations for books or other media that offer that? More than just “your loved ones are always with you?”

“It’s a different plane” or “it’s just different energy” “it’s just a different dimension” “we are all made of energy and our souls don’t die“ “they haven’t died, it’s just as if they are in the next room” “we aren’t supposed to know” type explanations are bugging me. I understand that energy can transforms and all that. I also understand that no one living really knows for sure. But how can I have a reading with a medium and my dad comes through and says “I can breathe now. I just had to die in order to be able to breathe again.” He couldn’t breathe near the end of his life and he was really suffering. Now he can breathe. And how can my dad visit me (in a dream state)? He came into my house to visit in my dream- he used a key to get through the front door. I was sleeping in my dream and hearing the key in the door “woke me up”- my cat heard it too. Where is he coming from? Someone said the afterlife feels more “real and alive” than when they were alive. I like that idea better than others I’ve heard. I just want to understand the logistics and technicalities better. Any recommendations for books or other media that offer that? More than just “your loved ones are always with you?”

“It’s a different plane” or “it’s just different energy” “it’s just a different dimension” “we are all made of energy and our souls don’t die“ “they haven’t died, it’s just as if they are in the next room” “we aren’t supposed to know” type explanations are bugging me. I understand that energy can transforms and all that. I also understand that no one living really knows for sure. But how can I have a reading with a medium and my dad comes through and says “I can breathe now. I just had to die in order to be able to breathe again.” He couldn’t breathe near the end of his life and he was really suffering. Now he can breathe. And how can my dad visit me (in a dream state)? He came into my house to visit in my dream- he used a key to get through the front door. I was sleeping in my dream and hearing the key in the door “woke me up”- my cat heard it too. Where is he coming from? Someone said the afterlife feels more “real and alive” than when they were alive. I like that idea better than others I’ve heard. I just want to understand the logistics and technicalities better. Any recommendations for books or other media that offer that? More than just “your loved ones are always with you?”

Anyone else?