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My extended family goes camping every summer. This year I will be 5 months pregnant and my husband doesn’t want me to go. He says he would prefer if I didn’t go, and that pregnant women should stay home where they can rest and be comfortable. I think I would be ok - I wouldn’t go waterskiing or anything like that. And I can go back to my cabin to rest anytime I want. I’m debating going anyways but I know he will be upset. It’s good quality family time and I missed out last year because I had just suffered a miscarriage and didn’t want go.

My dad died and I travelled to my hometown for the funeral and stayed with my mom. It was a two day event - wake on Friday and funeral on Saturday.

The morning of the wake, my stepsisters, my nieces, and one of my sister’s fiancé “Joe” came over to my mom’s house to get ready since their hotel wasn’t ready yet. My step sisters have a different mom, we had the same dad.

Joe was sleeping in the car while we were getting ready. I wear a wig and I spent a lot of time styling it and put it on the dresser in the room I was staying in with my husband.

Joe came out of the car a couple hours later. I said hi, gave him a big hug then went back to what I was doing - picking the hymns and putting together the lyrics for the program.

Next thing you know, Joe comes out of the room I’m staying in wearing my wig and singing like he’s Tina turner, shaking his head around. People were laughing, I was not amused. I went into the room I’m staying in and also noticed my bright pink panties on the bed. It felt like an invasion of privacy for him and my sisters to go in there without asking. It was embarrassing and I felt like crossed a big boundary. I don’t know him that well. Him and my sister only started dating in December and I’ve only met him a couple times. Plus there were a lot of people there.

I was fuming but I didn’t feel like making a big deal about it on this already very emotional day so I didn’t say anything but I’m still angry about it. Im also angry at my sister for allowing him to do this. Especially after she saw me spending so much time styling it. And on the day of my dad’s wake.

My other sister said I should just get over it but I don’t feel like I can so easily. I’m also not sure if I should say something or if it’s too late, it was a couple weeks ago. And I’m not very close to my sister who is engaged to him.

AIO? Should I just let it go??